HOW
LOVE MORPHOSIS INTO COMTEMPT & HATE
Divorce results in Living
apart, in revenge, to realize the loneliness of one’s own BAD COMPANY &
repent forever the lost opportunity. With passage of time the male is loses interest in his Aged
female partner & the aged female loses interest in intimate physical
contact that the male still desires.
ATTRACTIONS
& CRUSHES
In the beginning,
instant infatuations turn into compelling attractions. We do not choose to fall or entangle in Love, but it
just Happens after puberty. The naughty
hormones hijack your senses of sensibility. The desire of Lust for the opposite sex fully overpowers from head to
toe.
SERIOUS ROMANCE &
DATING
Romance is a slow move
towards this goal, but a sure one. He
needs her body to touch & fondle, while she needs his trust &
affection. He wants her Now & cannot
wait, but she is willing to wait & watch. Secret meetings, stolen kisses, miniature love letters, excuses to
exchange notes. Temporary separation is
bridged with long romantic handwritten letters. Waiting for return replies becomes a pleasurable pain.
MARRIAGE OF TWO BODIES
& SOULS
After years of longing
to be with the other, the delayed gratification ends. An arranged marriage or secret elopement gets the two
together. She morphs into a responsible
woman, burdened with womanhood duties. He
is overwhelmed by the new role as a perpetual helper & handy man. Feelings of love & affection are cast out because
her plate is full of commitment towards bringing up babies.
END OF INTIMACY WITH
BURDEN OF CHILDREN
This is when things
begin to change for the worse, leading to sadness, distress & even suicide. She loses interest in sex, & subsequent denial of
sex appears to be a weapon of emotional destruction. He withdraws into his shell of silence & inner
turmoil.
She holds back intimate
touching & cuddling. He holds back love &
expressing affection even more, on all fronts. She feels isolated & lonely in his presence.
LOVE IS A MUTUAL BENEFIT SCHEME.
Love is a convenient illusion & conclusion of the other person. Soon it
turns to boredom because of too much familiarity, gradually growing bitter.
Love crumples because you like something more about another one. Love is
reflective too. Hate me today but love me soon, if you persist. You want to own
something which is not yours, without a payback, sorry it is not happening. You
fall in love to eliminate self to love the other. You splash about & drown
in it. Love is an effusion or energetic emanation that surges forth from the
deepest part of the consciousness: those radiations of love stimulate the
endocrine glands of the entire organism, and they produce millions of hormones
that invade the blood vessels filling them with extraordinary vitality. Only
great souls can & know how to love. For love to exist, there needs to be
affinity of thoughts, affinity of sentiments, identical mental preoccupation.
It is the consecrations of two souls anxious to express in a deducible manner
what they inwardly live.
SUBLIME LOVE EVAPORATES
He turns into a
stranger, which sets in the cycle of toxic Resentment. She swears, curses
& hates him for such an unbecoming attitude of aloofness. For no fault of hers, she emotionally divorced &
downgraded from a Madame to a maid.
He sticks around the
home mechanically for social reasons & family bondage. This is how LOVE EVAPORATES from our lives, leaving us
dehydrated & vegetated.
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