MOVING ON IN LIFE TO REKINDLE LOVE AGAIN
Love is a Force that
penetrates your Life for good & bad.
Love is a tool too, to solve differences & makes you feel
safe.
RESPONSIBILITY
Taking charge of situations / things
& making wise choices is being Responsible. The ability to Respond to any
situation in a positive & emotionally balanced manner is the need of the
hour. It is trying my very best & doing my share of work. Caring, helping
others & being fair makes a better world.
CONFLICT INTERNAL
Differing perspectives about the REAL
you/self & the PROJECTED EGO of you/self. The Real you are hidden, natural,
pure, peaceful & easy going. On the other hand, the Projected Ego of self
by the self is exposed, totally false, tainted, agitated & critical of
everything & everybody. The Real you are Original, Eternal, &
untainted. By comparison the Projected Ego is amassed, acquired, built up from
yard sales of traits that the others have discarded & put out for disposal
- go figure.
CONFLICT EXTERNAL
Differing viewpoints, incompatibility
between two people, groups, nations, causes irritation which escalates into
conflict. Now the external persona of False Egos interacts, creating
resentment, overflowing into bitterness. Greed for owning nature’s resources,
Disrespect for the Dignity & Worth of every Human Being, & Dishonoring
the differences, uniqueness of others, becomes the basis of Conflicts, battles
& eventually wars. Lack of Tolerance, Cooperation, Unity, Responsibility
& Self-Respect are the remaining Living Values which too must be imbibed in
childhood, for people to live in Harmony, Happiness & overflowing Love for
each other.
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
It must happen first on the Internal
level by having a desire to understand & finish the mental violence, or tug
of war. The absence of strong LIVING VALUES is the root cause of mental chaos.
Honesty, Humility, & simplicity are the very basic ones to imbibe right
from the early years of childhood. We can imbibe these only if our parents /
caregivers / caretakers had them for us to copy.
IGNORANCE
Ignorance is the most perverse &
lethal, Wallow in slot, Excessive sleep, Dejection, Intoxication, Deadly Anger,
Pointless Violence & Mental derangement, Idling, all these paths lead to
suicide ending in death.
DISCERN THE PREDICAMENT
Weigh the positive benefits against
the negative shortcomings of the predicament that you are entombed in. Discern
the illusion from the truth by going deeper into the situation. Do complete
introversion & eliminate all mental conflicts so that you can see things as
they should be seen.
DECIDE UPON ACTION PLAN
Having done the discerning, now
consciously choose to act with trust & full confidence in your action plan.
Choice brings in the essential support & respect that you desperately need
at this moment. How ever you must not let your guard off & keep attention
on thoughts, words & deeds. If you have decided to walk off from the
situation, fair enough, do it boldly & congenially.
FACE CALMLY & COURAGEOUSLY
Express openly with maturity &
respectfully. Offer self as a conduit of Peace. If this matter must end, let it
end on a friendly note. Remember that the missiles & vibrations of SPITE /
HATRED will continue to be sent out & will reach you invariably, if not
resolved now. The other average soul just like you, is in hurt & cannot
forgive plus forget so easily the whole fiasco. They do not have access to this
wisdom that you have chosen.
DETACH & WITHDRAW
Step back & allow space for the
other soul. Do the closing act slowly. Be centered & listen sincerely to
all the highlights of the relationship, if brought up in the final
conversations. Now is also the time to reflect on values dear to both concerned.
LET GO OF PAST
Do not ruin your present &
future by holding onto the unpleasant past. Be nonjudgmental & detached.
Just let go of all make believe attachments. Start afresh to grow back again
strong & renewed.
ACCOMMODATE
Start with unconditional ACCEPTANCE of
self. This is a significant point in the overall scheme of things / drama of
life. Using a little creativity will help immensely to adapt yourself to the
situations & other SOULS around you. Learn at every step to fit into the
bigger picture. Remember that other souls are struggling too, just like you,
but failing for some unknown reason, to accommodate you in their lives. Therefore,
why not take the lead & you begin the process of change.
TOLERATE
Be patient & stretch your
boundaries gradually. Having accommodated as above, tolerating is implied &
done willingly on your part. All insinuations, remarks, foul language, tantrums
of rage must be taken lightly & never personally. Be aware that all souls
are learning their lessons simultaneously, & you are helping them do so.
After all it is your combined KARMA coming back from previous births. It is
preferred that you settle it quickly in this life itself with a smile or else
it will carry forward to the next life in bigger proportions.
COOPERATE
Pinned against the wall you have
limited choices. It pays to cooperate with full support, because it brings in
harmony to some extent. Be incognito & humble about the help &
cooperation.
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