LUST FOR GIRLS COMES SUGAR COATED WITH LOVE
Our knees pried open, by cousins,
uncles & men
Our bodies touched, by all the wrong people.
Even in a bed full of relationship safety
We are taken force ably against our will.
ECONOMIC CONDITIONS ARE PRIMARY
INFLUENCES
The two main factors that help shape
or destroy the girl child’s youth and future are the environment in which she
is born and the economic conditions she grows up with. Her environment could be
the strict religion dominated, very backward Stone Age ritualistic, closed
society of the iron curtain, or the chance of a lifetime of free democratic
society. Her economic condition has a major impact on her development and
mental makeup. These too could be extreme poverty, bare minimum to survive,
average middle class tight situation, or the lucky affluent category.
EXTREME POVERTY SITUATION
First, we will deal with the economic
situation of our girl child. When she is poor, there is little food to go around,
and her priority comes last. Mal nourished in body and poorly clothed body
gives her an extremely low self-esteem for the rest of her life. This situation
is further compounded by neglect and taken for granted attitude by the family
members and elders. Schooling her is a costly affair by many standards. Money
must be spent on her school supplies, uniforms, fees and transport. Next her
value as a child labor at home for the daily chores will have to be substituted
by someone else or hired outside labor. All these factors go against her just
because she is a girl who will get married and leave the family as soon as she
grows up. Additionally, money must be saved up for the dowry that must be given
at the time of her marriage, because it is demanded as an ancient but defunct
custom.
OUTSIDER FROM DAY ONE
From the very first day our girl child is considered as temporary outsider and
not a permanent member of the family unit. This forms the basis of differential
treatment in the family by most of the family members and her siblings. The
result is tragic and catastrophic for the future mother to be. Her own family
abuses her to the very core of her being, which results in negative
self-esteem.
AN OBJECT OF PURE LUST
Now when she grows up into a beautiful but dumb valentine different class of
problems takes root. Suddenly all the men and boys want to befriend her. She is
in great demand, which is very confusing for her little underdeveloped mind.
She is not fully developed yet and ready for any kind of relationship. But the
family has their own unfounded fears about her future. She could be raped by a
relative and get pregnant without a reason and then her future is finished. She
could also be enticed by a young boy into a one-night affair and then too her
life is finished. Most often people nearby in her proximity take undue
advantage of her being a weak person because she is a woman / girl. They will
molest her against her will & wishes openly and fiercely knowing well that
she will not relate this dirty stuff to anyone else in her own interest to safeguard
her position / virginity / reputation. Additionally, our woman
isn't comfortable with accusing her harasser. Multiple reasons being, maybe
he's very rich, or powerful, or scary, or she works with him, or she lives with
him, or he's a relative, or he's a friend, or he's blackmailing her, or he's
manipulative, or he's threatening. To avoid the above situations the family plans for
her early marriage. Since she is illiterate, ignorant and unskilled no one
wants her as a prospective wife.
FINAL DESTINATION - SEX SLAVE /
BONDED LABOR
Soon the whole village is aware that
this young woman is up for grabs. Now elderly unfit men who are fit to be her
father, divorced, widowers, want her in marriage. They will marry her and fully
abuse her for sex and domestic help. Many times, these men will use her for
prostitution and as money making machine. Finally, our girl child has ended up
in a life of a sex slave & bondage, the chief reason being poverty &
economic sacristy. When the life of forced prostitution is unbearable for her,
she ends her misery by committing suicide. End of her story.
AFFLUENT SITUATION
Let us go through the very same
process for our affluent girl child. It should be different. I doubt it. The
parents give birth to a girl child in the best hospital in the state of
California. She is the apple of their eye and the first born. A full-time
live-in nanny is hired for our girl child. Food, clothes, toys and love are
showered upon her 24/7. She is the fortunate one for now. A separate bedroom
for her, a special private grammar school to study in, and a chauffeured driven
car for her transport is provided. Her self-esteem is going up steadily and
surely. She indulges in expensive hobbies and far off vacations every now and
then. This brings her into direct contact with some of the best boys who are
equally fortunate and affluent on this planet.
AN EQUALLY VULNERABLE VALENTINE
One day she too grows up into a beautiful and confident valentine. For her the
opportunities are endless, yet she too is as vulnerable as her poor
counterpart. She could be abducted by notorious gangsters for a ransom or for
prostitution. She can be enticed by a smart boy into falling in love with him.
His love is true of false is unknown currently. This boy may want to groom her
into a pornographic model.
SHE HAS A MIND OF HER OWN - DREAMS RIPPED APART
Finally the parents may decide to marry her off in an arranged marriage to a
boy of their choice. Since our girl child is smart, intelligent, and skillful,
she asserts her own choice and succeeds in having her way. She wants to be an
ice skater or a film star. Therefore, she gets admitted into an academy for
training under expert coaches. The elderly coaches train her into the best
skater or actress. But in the meantime, they have fallen for her charm and
youthful beauty. Her hormones are at their peak, and she becomes helpless prey
for them. She too wants to explore sex, but the result is not good. A spiked
drink at one of the parties gets her pregnant. Her wonderful career is
finished. But since she is affluent, she gets away by aborting the child and
starting her life all over again.
VULNERABLE AT EVERY STEP - ADVANTAGE TAKEN
This time to get her broken life back together she is advised to get counseling
from the religious elders at the church or the temple. Since she is still a
youth the idea of mentoring by priests is acceptable & in order. Here
too she is now in the hands of sex starved priests and extremely vulnerable to
be abused, groped, assaulted sexually under the pretext of emotional treatment
or rehabilitation, by the socially respected high priests.
A FINE BALANCE IS NEEDED
To conclude our girl child whether rich or poor is always vulnerable especially
when she is in her pre-teens and teens. So be careful with your newly acquired
freedom, innocent attitude, in the world of cunning cons, with ruthless
intentions, and false appearances.
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