MOVING ON IN LIFE TO REKINDLE LOVE AGAIN

 

MOVING ON IN LIFE TO REKINDLE LOVE AGAIN

 

Love is a Force that penetrates your Life for good & bad.

Love is a tool too, to solve differences & makes you feel safe.

RESPONSIBILITY

 

Taking charge of situations / things & making wise choices is being Responsible. The ability to Respond to any situation in a positive & emotionally balanced manner is the need of the hour. It is trying my very best & doing my share of work. Caring, helping others & being fair makes a better world. 

CONFLICT INTERNAL

Differing perspectives about the REAL you/self & the PROJECTED EGO of you/self. The Real you are hidden, natural, pure, peaceful & easy going. On the other hand, the Projected Ego of self by the self is exposed, totally false, tainted, agitated & critical of everything & everybody. The Real you are Original, Eternal, & untainted. By comparison the Projected Ego is amassed, acquired, built up from yard sales of traits that the others have discarded & put out for disposal - go figure.   

CONFLICT EXTERNAL

Differing viewpoints, incompatibility between two people, groups, nations, causes irritation which escalates into conflict. Now the external persona of False Egos interacts, creating resentment, overflowing into bitterness. Greed for owning nature’s resources, Disrespect for the Dignity & Worth of every Human Being, & Dishonoring the differences, uniqueness of others, becomes the basis of Conflicts, battles & eventually wars. Lack of Tolerance, Cooperation, Unity, Responsibility & Self-Respect are the remaining Living Values which too must be imbibed in childhood, for people to live in Harmony, Happiness & overflowing Love for each other.

CONFLICT RESOLUTION 

It must happen first on the Internal level by having a desire to understand & finish the mental violence, or tug of war. The absence of strong LIVING VALUES is the root cause of mental chaos. Honesty, Humility, & simplicity are the very basic ones to imbibe right from the early years of childhood. We can imbibe these only if our parents / caregivers / caretakers had them for us to copy.

IGNORANCE

Ignorance is the most perverse & lethal, Wallow in slot, Excessive sleep, Dejection, Intoxication, Deadly Anger, Pointless Violence & Mental derangement, Idling, all these paths lead to suicide ending in death.    

DISCERN THE PREDICAMENT 

Weigh the positive benefits against the negative shortcomings of the predicament that you are entombed in. Discern the illusion from the truth by going deeper into the situation. Do complete introversion & eliminate all mental conflicts so that you can see things as they should be seen.  

DECIDE UPON ACTION PLAN

Having done the discerning, now consciously choose to act with trust & full confidence in your action plan. Choice brings in the essential support & respect that you desperately need at this moment. How ever you must not let your guard off & keep attention on thoughts, words & deeds. If you have decided to walk off from the situation, fair enough, do it boldly & congenially.

FACE CALMLY & COURAGEOUSLY

Express openly with maturity & respectfully. Offer self as a conduit of Peace. If this matter must end, let it end on a friendly note. Remember that the missiles & vibrations of SPITE / HATRED will continue to be sent out & will reach you invariably, if not resolved now. The other average soul just like you, is in hurt & cannot forgive plus forget so easily the whole fiasco. They do not have access to this wisdom that you have chosen.

DETACH & WITHDRAW

Step back & allow space for the other soul. Do the closing act slowly. Be centered & listen sincerely to all the highlights of the relationship, if brought up in the final conversations. Now is also the time to reflect on values dear to both concerned.

LET GO OF PAST

Do not ruin your present & future by holding onto the unpleasant past. Be nonjudgmental & detached. Just let go of all make believe attachments. Start afresh to grow back again strong & renewed.

ACCOMMODATE

Start with unconditional ACCEPTANCE of self. This is a significant point in the overall scheme of things / drama of life. Using a little creativity will help immensely to adapt yourself to the situations & other SOULS around you. Learn at every step to fit into the bigger picture. Remember that other souls are struggling too, just like you, but failing for some unknown reason, to accommodate you in their lives. Therefore, why not take the lead & you begin the process of change.    

TOLERATE

Be patient & stretch your boundaries gradually. Having accommodated as above, tolerating is implied & done willingly on your part. All insinuations, remarks, foul language, tantrums of rage must be taken lightly & never personally. Be aware that all souls are learning their lessons simultaneously, & you are helping them do so. After all it is your combined KARMA coming back from previous births. It is preferred that you settle it quickly in this life itself with a smile or else it will carry forward to the next life in bigger proportions.  

COOPERATE

Pinned against the wall you have limited choices. It pays to cooperate with full support, because it brings in harmony to some extent. Be incognito & humble about the help & cooperation.

ROHIT KHANNA        IN-JECTION

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