LOVE IS JUST A CATALYST IN OUR LIVES

  

THE PLIGHT OF OUR WOMEN MIRRORS MANS OWN DESTINY

SHE IS ONLY A CATALYST

She was a MALE in the previous birth & now a poverty stricken FEMALE body, open to all kinds of abuses by MEN who were WOMEN in their last births. - KARMA RETURNS AS LUST

LOVE IS THE NATURAL STATE OF EVERY SOUL

just give unconditionally & when you don’t then…. 

Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.  The woman that told him ‘I do’, and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up. If your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.

No love for work/job/making love,  then        FATIGUE

NEVER STOP COURTING.  Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for GRANTED. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man, that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

If craving for more love in present then        ADDICTION 

FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

If negating love to self then     ALLERGY

PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

If Closed & rigid to love    then     ARTHRITIS  

FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

When not open to love & bitter then      DIABETES

BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

When In confusion & restless in present then    INDIGESTION

ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

When Controlling others in present then        INSANITY

IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

When attached to love in present, its mine then   BLINDNESS

NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

If Unable to give love & allow the flow then    ASTHMA

GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

When In Denial about love then     CRIPPLED

ALLOW YOUR WOMAN TO JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and non-judging, she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

If Afraid to lose love in future then       PARALYSIS

BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

If Already lost love in past then,  Sorrow &  HEARTACHE 

NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards. In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

If seeking love in present then     INCONTENANCE (lustful) 

ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

These are lessons learnt the hard way & too late.

 Rohit Khanna - IN-COGNITO  begets IN-HERITANCE 

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THE FATAL ATTRACTION OF WE SOULS - for the Divine Creator

THE FATAL ATTRACTION OF WE SOULS  for  THE  DIVINE  BELOVED  CREATOR  


Whether we like it or not, this RENTAL COSTUME must be returned to the rightful custodian, when the TIME comes. This Earth Suit, is a loan that has to paid back in full, WILLINGLY OR  FORCEFULLY - choice is yours.

PREDICAMENT OF EVERY HUMAN BEING

How does a ordinary soul, a point of light/energy fall in love with the Supreme Soul, a  point of light/energy too?

CREATIVE SOLUTION - CHEMICALLY TREATED

OXYGEN is life giving element, here on Earth. Without oxygen all of us will die. In other words we are oxygen loving beings. In an ICU when you are in precarious condition, they give you 100 % Pure oxygen to heal you back to good health. Quick fix lies in imagining your self as an Atom of Oxygen, in the true likeness of the Supreme Soul who is also an Atom of Pure Oxygen.

WE ALL ARE LIKE ATOMS OF OXYGEN -  FAST & FURIOUS

One atom of oxygen is very very unstable, furious and frantically running around to combine/connect with another equally unstable hungry oxygen atom. Once they combine  together they are stable as an Oxygen molecule now, just like any happy pair/love birds. 

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF CREATOR - BASIC VIRTUE

Our Creator is ever loving, similar to an Oxygen atom, & so is  the First Prince Krishna of the New world/Golden Age. Together they form a Divine stable pair in the Subtle region. But they both, are also waiting for the third entity (oxygen atom/us) to join them & make a new stable threesome, OZONE (O3). 
We  are   that   hungry  oxygen   atom,  wanting  to  be  with our  most BELOVED CREATOR similar but Pure, oxygen molecule. So just  become Pure, fly up, & BE together in the combined form. There is zero tolerance for Impurities up there in the  Subtle region & higher up in the Soul World of ETERNITY.

Fatal implies that we become DEAD to this old dirty world while being ALIVE & fall in Love with HIM totally & no one else.

WE ARE ETERNAL SOULS - ATOMIC & MICROSCOPIC. 

LIFE CAN NOT EVOLVE ANY FURTHER.

Why are we here, only on our planet Earth? It is because of perfect geometry in the cosmos. Solar powered life cannot evolve any further,  therefore it REPEATS ITSELF as a Drama. Drama is cosmic Karma. Collective / Omni consciousness changes the drama.  The establishment of Golden age is achieved by the tilt of North - South Poles to East & West position, which is conducive to 24/7 spring season & purity of things on the whole planet. This movement of the vertical axis facilitates the Teutonic plates of the continents to come back to their original positions as one big land mass. HE also resets the Time clock to Zero from elapsed time of 5000 years.  Since the road is extremely rough & tough only a select few make it to HIS inner circle / kingdom while the rest are left to their own fates to be mere subjects, or continue to stay FROZEN in the Eternal Soul world till the Copper & Iron ages arrive. 

THE COSMIC DRAMA & SABBATICAL

The cosmic Drama is fixed and repeats itself every 5000 years. Millions of yogis, pundits, saints, mystics, sadhus, laymen have tried very very hard to know HIM but have not only failed but missed the mark by leaps & bounds. The chief reasons for their not succeeding in this venture are : Wrong timing & Ignorance about HIS whereabouts. We have been searching for HIM for 4900 years when HE is away on a Sabbatical. HE comes to us & makes HIMSELF available only during the Confluence Age for a short period of 100 years. It is only now, that we can know HIM, meet HIM, & be with HIM. HE introduces HIMSELF to us, personally.

SCHOOLING BY INVITATION ONLY

The second most important aspect is that HE finds us & not the other way around. HE addressees us as MY LONG LOST, NOW FOUND CHILDREN. This Schooling / Meeting is by Invitation only. HE zeros in on the chosen ones, adopts them, educates them & makes them worthy of HIS Inheritance. HE has a very important task of reestablishing the Golden Era on Earth. 

ARE YOU A POSSESSION, IF YES, THEN WHO IS THE POSSESSOR

Material Values come from thinking of yourself as an Object. You say my body is male or female. If it is Mine, it is a possession, just an object. But if you say that it is Me, that means I am an Object, too. Two objects in one living mechanism, how come.
Q - Are you a possession or a possessor? Who is the possessor of this possession named Body? 
A - The real you is the Immortal Soul, who at this time, has a black male body & in the past had a white female body. This Body is warm mud packaged  in a leather bag, with bones to give it a shape. Incidentally the leather bag comes in different colors & textures. The Anatomy is same in every case.  The body is your equipment, or the costume, your are not this equipment or the costume. The Soul is made up of love, purity, peace, power, Bliss & innate wisdom. This intelligence radiates a different positive energy which changes the quality of time & matter. The dominant reality is the Soul & the secondary reality is the body. 

WHO I REALLY AM ?   SOUL, THE IN-DWELLER

Your body is a vehicle and soul is the driver of this vehicle. Just as you are the driver of your Mercedes, so is the soul of this human vehicle. You sit in the automobile and take control of it, use it to move from point A to point B. Sometimes you are careless & get involved in a head on collision with another Mercedes. In this almost fatal  accident, the air bags save you, but the car is dead or total. Now the Insurance company bails you out to buy a new Mercedes. On the same lines when the body becomes old & diseased it dies and it’s occupant or the In-dweller  the soul does not die. It is bailed out by the Divine, from the worn out body & assigned to a brand new baby body, therefore YOU are eternal - know this fact for sure. 

TIME CONSCIOUS THEREFORE SELF CONSCIOUS  

The mentality of Iron Age is going towards materialism, driven by material values. Material Values & materialism cause the mind to move into negative vibrations, which lead to Ego, a false Image of Self. Comparison generates toxic inner experiences in terms of possessions. You say I have less & those people have more. You are confusing two very important different values. WHAT YOU HAVE & WHAT YOU ARE? This basic confusion leads to corruption of mind & goals. Impurity is indulging in vicious activities. acting out lustfully for temporary gratifications with little awareness of the consequences that come along in future times, to make you miserable. Vices are reflections of Virtues, lateral inversions of the images, hence not easily recognizable, therefore overlooked easily.

INCLINATION TOWARDS SOUL CONSCIOUSNESS. 

Soul consciousness is the intention to look behind the Mask - Who Am I?  Third eye is Souls ability to perceive non physical things. It is not possible to see a Soul. You can only understand it & when you realize it , you shout with excitement - I SEE. It is an INSIGHT. Soul is the intelligent glow behind this visible living, breathing, active, moving mask. Soul is gender-less, neither male nor female. Consciousness too is gender-less. The energy of the soul gets depleted continuously as time goes by. When you sleep the soul goes into space of Silence & returns - sleep dead. Now try to Die alive too.  Why we talk so much & repeat a lot - because we are afraid of SILENCE. Your body has the DNA of your biological parents, while your Soul has the DNA of your Spiritual parents. The real you has God's DNA, which translates to unlimited in every aspect. God whispers - You can be like me too. At the least you can behave like Angels right now. Angels have no conflict inside & outside, no entanglements like the innocent lord. Apply the Knowledge into your life, change & become an embodiment of it. 

PURPOSE OF THE SOUL - PROGRESSION OF CONSCIOUSNESS

The sole purpose of the soul is to elevate itself during it’s short stay in this human body. It is possible to move from the lower Chakras to higher energy centers & finally to the Crown Charkra. The seven Chakras are intimately related to the seven Auras in our Invisible bodies.

  

CHAKRA   AURA    CONSCIOUSNESS      SEEKING              LOVE 

Root       Etheric         Separateness         Lonesome                Self love  

Hara       Emotional     Togetherness         Woe-some      Passionate love     

Navel      Mental          Belongingness       Quarrelsome        Mature love

Heart      Astral           Humbleness           Wholesome     Friendship love

Throat     E/template   Connectedness       Toilsome           Spiritual love

3rd eye   Celestial        Oneness               Gladsome           Selfless love

Crown     Casual          Formlessness         Awesome             Divine love

COGNITIVE & ACTIVE SENSES

There are five entrance doors through which Information is imported inside the costume. These doors are your five sense organs : taste, touch, smell, hear, & sight. There are additionally five exit doors through which the costume expels outwards. These are : procreation, elimination, grasping, speech & moving.  Then there is a master, the In-dweller who operates these doors. Who I really AM is independent of my actions & senses. Senses are not reliable for experiencing Absolute Truth, Reality or the Self the Soul. Like the bees follow the Queen Bee, so will the senses follow the Mind. With-drawl of the senses is like taking your hand out of a glove. The hands have the ability to let go of the glove.

RELATIONSHIPS - SENSE OF UNION to experience part of the other into your life.

Divine cannot be seeked by the 5 senses/organs. Spiritual science is Yoga. Life explodes, because you are full of yourself. It is not about Shiva but you. Soul consciousness is about emptiness. Deities have divine virtues, so renounce  all senses & attachments. Churning the ocean of knowledge produces Nectar which is bound to surface as cheerful faces. The closeness of two beings and their interplay by choice & concerted effort causes friction, heat, pleasure & pleasantness. A being has multiple bodies : physical, seven auras, health rays, Ionized seal.

When the closeness is PHYSICAL it is SEXUAL.

When the closeness is EMOTIONAL it is LOVE.

When the closeness is SPIRITUAL it is YOGA.  

Yoga is the vehicle which can bring God to you, or take you to God. It is a bridge between mortals & the Immortal. Yoga makes you loose your mind in a positive way. It is the cessation of modifications arising in the Chitta. Yoga helps in neutralizing ones Vortices of feelings, whirlpools of desires & attachments into a calm ocean of thought patterns, which is a prerequisite to perceive God. Dying Alive is another marvelous methodology to kill the artificial You, Me & Mine. It finishes off my ideas, my fashion sense, my hair style, my clothes & my body leaving you with just your Soul. Yoga is Nirodhah which encompasses the following : Regulation, Channeling, Mastery, Integration, Coordination, Stilling, Quieting, Setting aside of modifications of mind field. It is the progress of Intellect into consciousness looking for the expression of the Source into ones actions & attitude. It is a deep concern for a fresh complete life by self. Yoga helps you in Total Transformation where there is no trace of past, fully new & Pure. On the other hand Change is incremental often leaves a residue of the past, hence you remain as impure.

SAT CHIT ANANDA = REALIZATION OF TRUE SELF IS BLISS        

Rohit Khanna - IN-TOLERANT, therefore IN-VINCIBLE

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SPIRITUAL INTELLIGENCE - IF WILLING TO TRANSFORM SELF

	SPIRITUAL INTELLIGENCE - FOR TRANSFORMATION       for peace of mind
This is a format for self learning & realization.	Home work for the effort makers
JUHARI WINDOW	SECURITY/LEARNING/DANGER/MAGIC
LIFE	MADE UP OF ROLES, LABELS, PEOPLE, ROUTINES - TIRED
LIFE IS A CART	MIND IS THE HORSE PULLING IT - DON’T LOAD IT UP
IDENTITY	WHO AM I
AWARENESS	ACTIVE  OR  PASSIVE
CONSCIOUSNESS	FIRST RELATIONSHIP - SELF  THE SOUL
REALITY	LIVING AS SOULS & SEEING OTHERS AS SOULS TOO
PURPOSE	ELIMINATE CONFLICTS - INSIDE & OUTSIDE
HOW DONE	SELF EXAMINATION - REACTIONS/WEAKNESS
MEDITATION	SILENCE THE MIND - GET HELP FROM HIM
SELF AWARENESS MODEL	WHAT IS THE FUNCTION OF A SEED - THINK
PURPOSE	WHAT ARE YOU USEFUL FOR - USEFULNESS
VISION	WHAT ARE TO TRYING TO BECOME
MISSION	HOW ARE YOU GOING TO ACHIEVE IT
FINDING THE DIAMOND	ITS HIDDEN INSIDE THE BEGGING BOWL-FALSE BOTTOM
UNCOVER	IT IS COVERED WITH LAYERS OF EGO, LABELS & ROLES
DISCOVER	ACQUIRED CONDITIONING - FISH & GLASS WALL
RECOVER	REMOVE THE GLASS WALL/FALSE BOTTOM-GO BEYOND
PARENT'S XEROX COPY	DO AS I SAY/SELF LIMITING PATTERNS/NO ORIGINALITY
RED BUTTONS	PUSHED BY OTHERS & YOU ARE FIRED UP - DEACTIVATE
REACTION	REFLEX  AUTOMATIC  SPONTANEOUS, NO THINKING
RESPONSE	BY CHOICE, THOUGHT OUT, POSITIVE ALWAYS
HAPPINESS	I REPORT TO MYSELF - RESPONSIBLE FOR MY BLISS
EXPECTATIONS	ARE AN INVITATION TO IRRITATIONS
QUESTIONS FOR SELF	WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ROUTINELY
SELF EVOLUTION	WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT YOURSELF
	WHAT IS THE REAL BLISS OF SELF ESTEEM
	TIME WHEN YOUR HEART GREW BIGGER
	WHAT HAS LIFE TAUGHT YOU SO FAR
RESPONSIBILITY	ABILITY TO RESPOND CALMLY, PEACEFULLY, CENTERED
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RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN BODIES OR SOULS - can be Blissful

  RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN TWO SOULS CAN BE BLISSFUL

If you try.......after all we are merely Balls of ENERGY. Our Earth suit is an assembly of atoms & molecules which is a loan that must be returned at the allotted time..... go figure. 

OUTER SHELLS ARE DIFFERENT BUT THE CORES ARE  ALWAYS SIMILAR


One person is a round ball of confusion. The Other person is a square cube of confusion. The third entity is a cylinder of commotion / situation. All interactions happen among-st these three entities leading to swearing, turmoil, anger, rage & sorrow, because when they interact they do not add up rather they multiply into infinite more confusions. 


DIFFERENCES HAVE WALLS, MOATS, NO BRIDGES TO CROSS OVER

The round ball wants the cube to become more rounded like him. He is unaware the the cube also wants the ball to chisel up into a six sided solid like himself. In addition both want to perceive the situation confronting them as similar & not different, so that they can arrive at a common agreable solution. 


NARROW TELESCOPIC VISION / SIGHT 

A common workable solution is never going to happen, because of the narrow telescopic vision that each are holding in their heads about the widespread  situation. One telescope is pointing towards east of the situation while the other telescope is pointing towards the west of the situation totally diametrically opposite directions. One shouts, do you see my view point & the other snarls back, do you see my point of view. Both of them will never see each others narrow & different view points about the very same situation.   


WAY OUT IS THE WAY IN

Drop the telescopes & open your eyes wide for a wide angle view points of the situation causing the commotion. Since One & the Other desire to merge into each other, therefore drop the hard fixed outer shells & develop soft, cloud like outer coverings which have no boundaries. Since the cores of all of us are similar then where is the problem. Just stay in your own Self respect & give due respect to the other Souls. Soul consciousness is the way out by going in first.   
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SWAPPED REMOTES

How we get hurt by our own beloved / dear ones ?  On this long journey of relationships the REMOTE CONTROLS get swapped. He is operating the buttons of Her remote control gadget &  She is manipulating His remote control without the knowledge & awareness of such a tragic error. It amounts to one person having & operating the ELECTRONIC TRIGGER of the Other persons CANNON. Sure enough you are going to HURT your self really bad every time you press the trigger & fire off the Cannon which is always aimed at you. 

We always have a choice to exercise our Will, Intellect to refrain from such a childish behavior. Only small children get themselves into complex situations & hurt themselves when they quietly sneak away from the parents Radar. No one can hurt you. It you & you alone have the capability to create HURT from within, when you confront a stimulus from the opposite side / world. Pay attention 24/7 & see the magic happen in your life.      

INTERACTING THROUGH BLANKETS OF DESCENDED FOG 

Fog of Superiority worn by one partner simultaneous with a different fog blanket of Inferiority worn by the other partner. How on Earth can you communicate harmoniously with each other with such handicaps. It is almost akin to driving your car BLIND FOLDED, with blinkers ON for others to see your foolishness. 

Inside the these blankets each is stuffed with space suit style overalls of EGO. This further hampers the maneuverability of the occupants to lead peaceful lives. Superiority complex coupled with Ego is a deadly weapon to instigate the other handicapped partner. On the other hand Inferiority complex coupled with Bloated Ego is equally lethal armament to cause massive damage when provoked, which happens very often. To cover up the Inferiority the other partner resorts to shouting, raising the voice to high pitch, faking emotional trauma, crying, sobbing with crocodile tears to gain sympathy & win the battle any how. In reality both are loosing the prime war of Happy life & Optimum health, by trying to count the small battles they win. Nett result is both partners end up SULKING till sickness or death separates them apart.  

     

 YOU & SIGNIFICANT OTHER

Types of relations that do exist : Visible or Invisible 

Vibrations of intentions, thoughts, & feelings transmitted as follows.

Eye contact - ogling, trespassing, or loving Drishti.

Facial expressions - of scorn or of love, compassion

Body language - closed /crossed arms or open arms.

Stance & gait - fast & in haste  or slow & steady.

Actions -  violent or congenial

Oral words - harsh, abusive, or sweet.

Language selection - harsh mother tongue or sweet foreign.

RELATIONSHIPS  -  DISTANCING  VS  INTIMACY

PREDICAMENT:

This person has been positioned in your 84^th life by the Cosmic DRAMA for a reason. You are tricked by Maya through infatuations and sugar coated attractions. A stranger to begin with, soon you swear you cannot live without them. Some more time lapses & the relationship turns sour/bitter when the sugar coating is gone.

CREATIVE SOLUTIONS FOR MUTUAL HARMONY :

A}This soul is Creators long lost now found child too, hence handle with utmost respect and care. Be a flower around them, never a thorn to prick and give sorrow.

  

B} They are a perpetual obstacle in your path of Golden age/purity for helping you to pass with honors. How you get around is your task/extreme effort of radiating pure vibrations. They are your test papers.

C} Your partner’s positive talent is their alertness/awareness.  Hence you can appreciate this talent often by shooting sweet arrows of smiles from the bow of your lips

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D} This is definitely a tight rope walk for all of us with a long balancing pole which  consists of cooperation loaded with tolerance on left and compassion sugar coated with mercy on the right.

E} Let this soul do most of the talking and you do the difficult part of listening. They are letting out their past, help them like a therapist.

F} First transform yourself, they will get the message quickly and easily through your vibrations. Speak softly, slowly and sweetly. Have positive intentions for them.

G} Perfect maturity on your part means you treat them as Creators guests and shower love all the way, no matter what.   

H} English language has a wonderful word which can diffuse any horrible situation in a second. Use this word as often as possible. Saying SORRY & MEANING IT TOO. Be really sorry on your or their parts. 


Do you get it, if you did, then you too would be like......


Rohit Khanna - IN-SIGHTED therefore EX-CITED 

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