PLANNING FOR FOREST FIRES - change logging patterns

The answer is FALSE,  because there is a solution....an easy remedy.

FOREST FIRES & LOGGING PATTERNS --

HAVE A DEFINITE CO-RELATION

How we cut down our forests determines the probability of forest fires & their scale? You can have your CAKE and eat it too only if you have a fool proof plan. It all boils down to having your forest for eternity and zero / minimum forest fires during summers specially.

ABSENCE OF TREE FELLING STRATEGY

Big companies buy up gigantic pieces of prime forests and then leave it up the small time forest Rangers & supervisors to cut down trees, haul them up into large trucks, & transport the cut logs to the point of sale/auction. The average level of intelligence yields average results.

THE AVERAGE TREE FELLING PLAN

Start form one end which happens to be closest to the main road and proceed to the other end if luck is on your side. Unfortunately, you never get to see the other end of the forest. Three or four seasons, all goes well and then suddenly there is a forest fire which burns down the whole forest to the ground.  

INSURANCE COMPANIES LOSS IS GREATEST

Big companies do not loose much in this deal because they had the forest insured against such a predictable calamity. The big losers are the Insurance companies and the common public who had their homes in the vicinity of this forest.

Recently we experienced such a loss of the whole township in Alberta Canada. Every year we hear & see hundreds of forest fires in rich states of California & other cities.

INTELLIGENT MASTER PLAN FOR LOGGING PATTERN  

It is a common sense approach to logging patterns which makes the total scheme of devouring the forest last for a long time till it is completely finished. No loss plan/approach.

MUTI PRONG ATTACK

If I owned a forest whose dimensions were 10 km X 10 km square, then the logging pattern would be as follows. Five gangs of men & equipment would start cutting down trees on one side of the square and another set of five gangs of men and equipment operate on the adjacent side of square. Each gang would be positioned at a distance of ONE km from the other gang. Thus we would be covering Five km of forest on each side of the square.

As the two sets of gang’s approach inwards towards each other in straight WIDE ROWS, we will be dividing our forest into beautiful manageable grids of one km X one km.  In the very first season we would be achieving 25 grids of one km square, each separated from the other by at least 100-meter-wide alley / space / road. These very pathways / roads will allow us an easy access right into the interior of our forest for fire fighting equipment if needed in future and minimise the damage by containing the fire to one such square/grid. The 100-meter-wide space between two plots of forest trees will be our added advantage in case of fire in one plot, even with high winds blowing the hot cinders away.  

BORROWING FROM COAL MINING TECHNOLOGY.

I have worked in under ground and open cast coal mines and it is no shame to borrow some of their ideas for the benefit of our forests. Once the coal has been evacuated from an under ground mine, it is mandatory to fill up the gap left behind, with sand. This process is called SAND STOWING.  Water and sand are mixed together and pumped into the mine to achieve the end result. In the same way we can pump up sand & water on to the 100-meter-wide pathways in our forest grids to achieve a fire proof alley between two plots of trees to prevent the fire from spreading from one plot to the other in case of fire and high winds. If my forest is full of costly teak trees then the additional cost of sand covering is worth it. The return on investment is very attractive.  

Once the complete forest is divided up into 0ne hundred, neat smaller squares of one km X one km, then and then only we can take a sigh of relief. Now we go ahead with logging pattern of widening the existing pathways and gradually reducing the forest squares to 0.75 km X 0.75 km. This strategy ensures that our forest will last us for a long time with minimum chance of burning down.

FORESTS ON HILLY TERRAINS NEED DIFFERENT STRATEGY

Different strategy is needed for a hilly terrain forest. Trees tend to fall/roll down from a higher level towards the valley of the terrain. Here we have to make similar pathways, but this time, RADIALLY from top to bottom to achieve the no loss / minimum loss result.  

Rohit Khanna – Industrial Engineer

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COSMIC DRAMA SCRIPTED BY THE SUPREME SOUL - directed by Time & Karma

COSMIC DRAMA SCRIPTED BY THE SUPREME SOUL
DIRECTED BY TIME & PRODUCED BY KARMA

CHRONOLOGY OF  DIVINE EVENTS -  Coming of Shiva, Adoption of Ugly Krishna, The grooming of Brahma, Creation of Brahmin Clan, Constructive destruction through Shankar, Birth of Beautiful Krishna, Sustenance through Vishnu,  Coronation of Lakshmi & Narayan Dynasties, Deity Religion, Rama & Sita Dynasties, Warrior Clans, Ravana Emerges, Start of other Religions, Down fall to Merchant Clans, Ending in impure Shudra Clans.  

THE METAMORPHOSIS - FROM IMPURE TO PURE

The impurity of waste thoughts, trespassing, passion, lust is Narc-ism. Too weak, confused & ignorant to transform self on our own. Narc-ism permeates to Body Consciousness which encompasses three dozen Vices : Ego, Arrogance, Greed, Anger, Lust, Jealousy, Attachments, Fear, Doubt, Guilt, Separateness, Brittle, Victim, Harsh, Bitter, Resentful, Defending, Lazy, Addicted, Obsessive, Violent, Unforgiving, Confused, Selfish, Controlling, Comparing, Complaining, Cheating, Criticizing, Desiring, Expecting, Justifying, Seducing, Enticing, Judging, Asking, Begging.

PERCEPTION becomes a barrier to change, old & strange ways of thinking.

DECEPTION of Self Image, subtle Arrogance of dominance, power & expectations.

SORROW is felt continuously because of feelings of absence of parents / caretakers.

RESENTMENT is the result of Rejection by parents / caretakers.

WASTE THOUGHTS is harboring of Resentment inside & Sulking.

Transformation happens with Herculean effort, tremendous Zeal, & Will power of steel. There is a need for Reconciliation of inner Peace, Fill-up & Humility. The final destination is SELF MASTERY & INNER KINGSHIP.

Self Mastery reforms us into, Stable, Neutral, Universal, Clean, Democratic, Compassionate & transparent beings.

Inner kingship refines our personality into Royalty, & then we display exemplary behavior with Discernment, Discretion, Restraint & Introspection.

The fundamental tool, we use to reach the above destination is Open Eye Meditation. It helps us to transform radically. We learn to go slow, deeper & concentrated. We can tap into Pure energy & then release it to consciousness. It is At-mic explosion which is benevolent for the whole world. The process begins with inner stillness, speak every word, think every thought, act with full attention & think before thinking.

All the above hard work shows up on our faces as Spiritual beings who sparkle brightly & REVEAL THE FATHER. HE acts through me, I observe only with an Autonomous mind. Spirituality permeates all areas creating Harmony & Bliss. Relationships change & trust emerges. There now exists coherence between Thought Word & Deed. We inspire others & uplift them.

Spirituality makes Angels out of normal beings. Angels are Gods companions & helpers. They are Divine Light, Love, Universal beings without borders & bridges to cross over to the Soul world. Angels remain constantly soul conscious, & in HIS Remembrance. They fly high up to the Subtle region, because they are empty & light as a feather. Angels are the first res-ponders at times of crisis, emergency & need.

Dare to become an Angel……..


SIXTEEN EASY STEPS TO TOTAL TRANSFORMATION.

1  Transform Self first. Why would you venture into such a Herculean task, in the first place, without any AIM OR OBJECTIVE in mind. Exactly that is the point I am driving home. The Sole purpose of every Soul is to Become Pure like the Supreme Soul. Once you are equal to HIM then you become a legitimate heir to HIS kingdom in the Golden Age. HE will willingly hand over the KEY to Paradise, because HIS short stay & assignment is over by doing so. It is ripe time for HIM to go into a long long Sabbatical in Eternity. 

2  Teach your self through learning. Rediscover your true self through this process of learning from the Supreme Teacher & following HIS Shrimat in full. When you have learnt & imbibed fully this Divine knowledge then it is time to go out and teach others the same lessons. This process of teaching others will firm up your own shaky lessons & make a master out of you eventually.

3  Absorbance of Gyan, Virtues, Values & Divine Principles. In this Divine Academy, a school cum hospital you receive knowledge first hand from the Divine Teacher. The students who are hand picked, adopted & admitted are most fortunate children of HIS who were long lost & now found. You have to work very hard here in all four subjects & pass with flying colors. 

4  Moving forward - Gaining Momentum.  This Academy is a one way street. There is no going back or stopping midway. The progress chart is updated every minute just to ensure that every soul is moving forward & gaining momentum. Either you work hard & pass or get expelled & suffer grave consequences. The supreme teacher has lots at stake & time is limited in this Confluence Age. 

5  Refreshing to reset. The steep up hill task of imbibing Purity in all facets is pretty tiring & exhaustive. Every now & then you the Soul will need to refresh, reset & re-calibrate the fundamental Aim & Objective laid down in the beginning. Intense effort will show up  when  your level of Zeal & Enthusiasm is at its peak. You also need courage of steel to face the numerous obstacles in your path. 

6  Sustaining the built up transformation. Once the game of transformation has begun the initial Zeal starts to fade away & diminish quickly. Hence additional encouragement in the form of Daily Murli inputs by the Divine teacher are given as booster injections to keep us going & sustaining us as we move higher & higher.

7  Thinking in elevated way only. The environment of the Copper Age & Iron Age made us extremely Vicious, dirty, & lustful. Our thinking has now to be slowed down, modified & upgraded to think elevated thoughts only. A total reversal of the vision has to take place, from criminal to civilized. The awareness of subtle trespassing others space must be checked in the start of the process of full fledged thoughts, mushrooming into feelings, further evolving into emotions which eventually get acted out, rebuilding up our Karmic account.   

8  Stillness of mind & body with Awareness.  Before coming to a dead stop you have to learn & practice slowing down your speed of thoughts. Since their are no specialized schools for such education & training, we have to do it our selves, with our own effort & creativity. Stillness is one step before Bliss. Stillness happens in the NOW moment. Time stops in Now.    

9  Leisure & work become same.  Once you have achieved stillness of mind & body, then Leisure & work become interchangeable. Work is leisure, while you work leisurely. Do you not enjoy your hobbies ? How come we are indefatigable at working with our hobbies. The work that you love does not tire you. The secret is, to love what you do & do what you love too. 

10  Revealing & Concealing with maturity.  People often need a paragraph to reveal what is in their minds. Verbosity is a disease which robs you of time & energy, therefore beware. Laconic people are the mature ones who are of few words. Reveal or conceal with just one sentence, preferably using a single word. Brevity is definitely soil of wit & intelligence. 

11  Equanimity for all beings.  This is a tough one but a good one. Do not get impressed by anyone nor try to impress / please anyone. Treat everyone equally at all times. This can happen when we change our perception to Soul consciousness - seeing all beings as equals. You avoid turbulence inside of you by imbibing this virtue of equanimity. 

12  Happy & Content no matter what.  Happiness is not in things & in other people. You create this positive emotion from inside. Today you may need an external stimulus to do so. But with constant training & practice you can learn to create happiness without a reason / external stimuli. All of the above knowledge & methodology has equipped you to become FULL inside, therefore happy & content always, 24/7.

13  Communicating by Influencing with self-example.  Speaking slowly, softly, sweetly & smartly is a good example for others. To the point, one word or maximum of one sentence is enough. The second important point is to consider the self as an instrument of the Divine while communicating. Then the arrow of few words hits the bulls eye & the job is done perfectly as it should be done. The third aspect is of Authenticity of what is spoken or said pertaining your own personal life style showing up in your demeanor.
 
14  Serving others - Giving first & receiving.  Having become knowledgeable, still, Full, mature & content, now is the time to Give away what you have been given by Grace. The more you give, without any expectations, the more you receive & be filled up to give away as much as you can. By serving the less fortunate you are doing yourself a favor & earning blessings from them quietly. Serving others helps you drop the last fragment of the EGO lingering inside.  To receive you must EMPTY out first & make room for it by Giving.

15  Leading in an Incognito way.  With so much Purity, Spiritual Power, & talent of Stillness you will be in great demand to lead & guide others. People will look up to you to help them move ahead. Some will even go ahead of you which is perfectly normal for you, the Easy Yogi.  

16  Harmonizing with others seamlessly.  In this spiritual game there are no sides, no competitions, no losers or winners. It is the Creators Task of establishing Paradise & we are HIS minuscule helpers. We are over joyed & fortunate to have been chosen by HIM for such wonderful assignment. Working together in a big team like this one requires awareness skills of total harmonizing & that too seamlessly. YES DEAR, are the key words, every time, every occasion, in this game.  

THIS TRANSFORMATION TAKES PLACE ONLY DURING CONFLUENCE AGE 

From Eternity to the Earthly stage of Five Elements & back in a span of 5000 years.

Soul world is the Sterile land, where every one is Pure & Soul conscious, just like the Supreme Soul.

It is the HOME of eternal beings of LIGHT who are Pure, True, Silent, Blissful, Complete, Love-full & peaceful.

Eternity is Infinite, Still, Silent, Changeless, & Frozen Time.

Power of Silence : Blesses the souls with awareness, Transforms with love, Neutralizes the urge to defend self, Teaches to speak through the eyes, Ends confusion & Heals, Facilitates flow of HIS power, Acknowledges impurities, & Humbles arrogance.

Soul Consciousness encompasses all the following Virtues & Values : Attentive, Aligned, Aware, Alert, Awake, Angelic, Accepting, Cool, Calm, Connected, Charged, Cooperative, Complete, Content, Compassionate, Light, patient, Humble, Trustee, Inspiring, Charitable, trustworthy, Loving & Knowledgeable.

The Supreme Soul wears multiple hats in order to successfully Impart Shrimat, the Divine knowledge, to his weak Brahmin Students such as : Innocent Lord, Obedient Servant, Master & Child, Merciful Father, Patient Teacher & Loving Guru.

At the Confluence Age HE returns from HIS long Sabbatical to help us transform from Impure to Pure beings with the Shower of HIS Shrimat. It is Spiritual Alchemy directly from Supreme Shiva. It has basically four lessons.

First is Knowledge of History & Geography of this Cosmic drama. How the Seed becomes a giant Tree spreading out in three Worlds, spanning into three time zones & its Visualization from three perspectives / eyes.

Second lesson is Raja Yoga, the Method of Connecting with the Supreme Soul to draw upon HIS Shakti to charge up our drained out batteries, at this crucial point in the Drama.

The third lesson is Dharna, the Imbibing of the Virtues that HE teaches us, just like HIM. The list of Virtues is pretty long & tough.

Finally the fourth lesson is Seva, the art of Service with mind, body & wealth, for the greater good of all humanity. Having mastered all the above three lessons we are ready to go out & teach others the same Stuff, keeping in mind that we are just HIS instruments / servants performing HIS Task without Ego & Expectations. When you teach others, your own lessons undergo a revision on every occasion. This is how HE makes little masters out of us.

As very weak students we require Extra classes & tutorials to come up to the mark quickly. Waking up at Amritvela 4.00 A M early in the morning to sit down for Silent Meditation is aimed to break up our dirty habits of Laziness & Unawareness. All day long we must try to REMEMBER HIM which facilitates us to detach from this materialistic world of Maya / Illusions. Manmanabhav is the term HE chooses to explain the meaning of disconnecting from this dirty world & connecting with HIS Pure form & No one else. Twice a day HE coaches us very sweetly & patiently with HIS MURLI - Fine tuning us on the basic lessons taking one point & explaining it in detail. All this training leads us into Self Realization, of Soul Consciousness. HE reminds us everyday to Constantly Connect to HIM, Belong to HIM, so that HE can hand over the Inheritance back to HIS children. Naturally HE wants us to become Worthy of the Valuable Inheritance before handing it.

Rohit Khanna - IN-TENSE effort maker

  

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EXPLORING MIND CONFLICTS FOR MENTAL HEALTH

EXPLORING MIND CONFLICT - TO CURE MENTAL HEALTH

The conflict happens between two people who are TOTALLY different in major aspects.

One is white, female, young, illiterate, free, & natural.

Other is black, male, old, educated, busy, & normal.

Can you visualize how diverse these two people are in six categories, poles apart. They are bound to have opposite view points about the same object/topic. They are never going to agree on most of the issues between them. Once we understand their stands, then it becomes a little easy to see through their own personal perspective of daily situations.

Now we go into the depth of their mental process/activity about the same OBJECT.

1  Process of looking at the object - ATTENTION SPAN, AWARENESS LEVEL

2  Act of seeing - KEENNESS OF OBSERVATION, COLLECTION OF INFORMATION, VARIABLE PARAMETERS.

3  Clarity of perception depending upon - ATTITUDE, INCLINATION, MEMORY RETENTION.

4  View point assessing using intellect - DISCERNING, CLASSIFICATION, RANKING, GRADING.

5  Decisions & judgments based on - UPBRINGING, LIKES, DISLIKES, COMPREHENSION, DESIRE FOR 2ND LOOK.

6  Differences of opinion, gap becomes basis of - CONFLICT, AGGRESSION, ASSAULT, BATTLES, WARS.

There you are, much wiser than before, go figure, call off the battle please.

HANDLING OF KARMA'S WITH RESPONSIBILITY

Skewed people & adverse situations in your present lives are your very own Karma on its return journey from the distant past. Beware of this predicament, & do not suffer on this count. In the past life both partners were of the exact opposite sex and you screwed each other. Now both of you have come back to complete the reverse screwing, hence take it lightly, lying down in good humor. It is helping you stamp out your own false EGOS, therefore be grateful for this gesture - Thank you for coming into my life is the syntax used very often. Do we mean it as in the above context. Think again.

In lawn tennis match tournaments too, they first have singles match and then they have a second round of reverse singles match. After both the matches they decide the winner. 


We transmit & receive intentions, thoughts, feelings to & from our partners, neighbors, relatives, friends and strangers all the time. Therefore to protect your self from such negativity floating in the surroundings you have to make some harsh choices and take drastic steps.

Firstly DETACH quickly by WITHDRAWING internally and LET GO at once externally too.

Secondly ACCEPT & acknowledge them as they are, right or wrong, good or bad for your own benefit & peace of mind. ACCOMMODATE & TOLERATE the less fortunate souls who like you are different in their Sanskars but other wise just the same Soul energy. See them with the eyes of love, like a child does. Practice COMPASSION by forgiving self & others right now.

Thirdly DISCERN in light of greater good. When you see things as they are & don’t want to change them then everything becomes more open to change. When you don’t judge anything, everything starts moving towards goodness. CONTENT just to BE.

Fourthly DECIDE to act it out lovingly. Create happiness on purpose with good intentions for all.

Fifthly FACE boldly, now that you are armed with the above six powers. Give freely, quickly, gently & generously without any expectations of return. Give thanks with an attitude of gratitude to enhance the value of what little you possess. Live simply with bare basics in abundance mode.

Sixthly be still, yet vibrant inside. Hear attentively & free your mind from yourself. PEACE will sit next to you. Befriend SILENCE and make room for GOD into your heart. Stay light, dump your baggage of past & shine lovingly to show others the way to Bliss. COOPERATE with all, at all times. Serve others joyfully to reap your harvest of CONTENTMENT.

Are you prepared for this question : Dear soul, WHAT IS YOUR SPIRITUAL NETT WORTH ?  Ponder over this statement for a day for a month & still if you do not have an answer then surely something is drastically wrong in your life choices. Before you ask me about the currency to measure up your nett worth, the answer is Contentment, Happiness, Peace. All your financial nett worth can not be traded for even one hour of Contentment.

AS YOU SOW SO SHALL YOU REAP

This saying is very often quoted by most of us as a casual remark. The full depth of its meaning is being attempted now for your benefit.

THREE COMPONENTS OF YOU THE SOUL

You are the Chief Gardner as the Intellect functioning inside.

Everything depends upon the Timing & Availability of the Seeds/Sanskars sowed into the minds soil by the Intellectual Gardner.

The Quality & Quantity of the harvest in terms of Thoughts generated from the soil of your Mind inside is what you reap.

THE GATHERING OF THE SEEDS 

We will start with the seeds or Sanskars first because the final product / harvest depends upon them. Every child is born with a few pure Sanskars initially & then gradually as it grows up it acquires all the wrong impure Sanskars. These seeds are in large numbers compared to the few original ones. They additionally over power the pure seeds making them dormant & pushing them into oblivion. It amounts to you having gone on a series of YARDSALE shopping spree of antique Sanskars which other people do not want themselves & wish to off load them to any one.   

ORIGINAL SANSKARS / SEEDS

Peace Purity Power Knowledge Truth Love Bliss.

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows:

Appreciation  Affection  Care  Companionship  Cooperation  Inclusiveness  Equanimity  Acceptance  Cheerful  Humor  Smiles  Lightness  Joy  Sweetness  Courteous  Loyalty  Trustee  Guide  Clean  Simple  Transparent  Inspire  Synergy  Connect  Mindful  Tranquil  Serene  Solitude  Honest  Comfortable  Pleasant  Ecstasy  Grace  Wisdom  

ACQUIRED SANSKARS / SEEDS

Anger Impure Weak Ignorance Beliefs Lust Hate

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows :

Arrogance  Righteous  Passion  Ego  Judging  Deceit  Imposing  Trespasses  Violence  Doubt  Illusions  Dogmas  Alloyed  Powerless  Drained  Lonely  Depleted  Agitated  Greed  Adultery  

Desires  Attention  Wants   Sex   

 INTELLECT OF THE GARDENER

The second aspect of gardening is the mental health of the Gardener itself. The poor person could be stuck in the Devotional mode as a result the level & sharpness of Intellect is jeopardized to a large extent. This is an important point here. Just as the productivity of an Ax depends upon the maintenance of its sharpness the same parameter is valid for the Intellect too.

DIVINE INTELLECT  

Sharp  Open  Dense  Faith  Trust  Hope  Courage

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows:

Gratitude   Reverence   Benevolence   Influence   Radiance   Mercy  Humility    Tolerate    Magnetism    Surrender    Withdrawn    Churn 
Knowledge    Meditate    Discern     Decide     

DEVOTIONAL INTELLECT

Dull  Stone  Closed  Confused  Diffused  Blunt

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows:

Overthinking    Worry     Gossip     Inadequate    Unworthy    Fear    Skeptical    Unsure     Dependent     Egoist     Superiority  Complex     

SOIL OF THE MIND

The third aspect is the almighty Mind. This corresponds to the soil where the seeds are sown to germinate & grow when watered & nurtured with nutrients. How the Gardener handles the process of cultivation largely depends upon the quality of the Intellect. The final output has basically two out comes.

HARVEST OF POSITIVITY

Flood of Positive thoughts will flow when the original pure seeds are sown & cultivated by the courageous Intellectual gardener. The controlled output will be :

Awake  Attentive  Alert  Assertive  Balance  Contentment  Harmony  Demeanor  Stability  Abundance  Good wishes  Celibacy   Austerity  Innocence  Forgiveness  Altruistic  Introversion  Discipline  Self Sovereignty   Charity    

HARVEST OF NEGATIVITY

Forest of Negative thoughts will grow when the impure seeds are of acquired kind, coupled with the cultivation by the  lazy intellectual gardener. The uncontrolled output will be  as follows :

  

Attachment  Ownership  Resistance  Controlling  Desires  Addictions  Indulgence  Noise  Asleep  lazy  Guilt  Slave  Victim  Indolence  Defeated  Bitterness  Resentment  Despair  Jealousy  Disconnected   Exclusiveness   Unworthy   

BACK TO SQUARE ONE

When the thought, intention, feeling or emotion has arisen inside it is deemed as a subtle action for sure. The next stage is the actual action. The emotion translates into action, which is your karma. Again the seed has been consolidated, confirmed, reaffirmed for smoother action in the future time.  It is a perpetual loop. It is time to stop the loop now, dead in its tracks, for a beautiful trouble free future time to come.

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NO SCHOOLING IN PARENTING YET BRINGING UP CHILDREN - cause of mental health

THE TRUTH OF PARENTING

Parents rarely let go of their children,

So children let go of them & move away / on.

Parents do ruin & damage their children. It can not be helped.

Because their parents did the same damage to them.

Youth is like pristine glass - It absorbs the PRINTS of its HANDLERS :

Smudge, Cracks, Shatter.

Damage of their neglect shows up as : Hate, Violence & Silence.

RIGHTING THE WRONG, IS,  WRONG.

Had our past, childhood, been different, we would have gradually come to master our own emotions, just like walking and mathematics. But it did not happen that way, for most of us. Our parent’s negativity was their problem. They had less civilized grandparents and parents of their own, who used spanking, whipping, yelling, verbal abuses, and physical punishment on them, in abundance, to help them learn RIGHT from WRONG. This is what they internalized and now they apply the same techniques of upbringing on us. We would probably, do the same to our children, because we would not know, anything different or better. First sin, first clothing, the fig leaf caused it all. They put the most horrible emotion of shame into our heads for nothing. We reject our body. We reject our nakedness and bring on sufferings, anxiety, & diseases.  

  BRINGING UP  CHILDREN - OBSESSIVE NO ALWAYS

He acquires new skills at this stage. He can crawl and toddle. His new independence is intoxicating and therefore wants to explore new spaces, for which he is punished. He is taught hard discipline for running into dangers, not yet suspected. He can string up words and rejoice at the sounds, he can make and hear. Talking is fun and he enjoys being the center of attraction. He discards his toys and parental affection for the “Forbidden Eden Garden”. He can deduce and relate with his mental ability, thus he begins to dream of things, beyond tangible reach. Mom can I go outside in the beautiful sun! No! An obsessive NO! It is difficult to say yes, and if said yes, it is done reluctantly, making the child feel guilty.

TOTAL DICTATORSHIP

The child wants to sit and see the stars out side a little longer. NO! Come inside and go to sleep, when he is not feeling sleepy. When he sleeps and wants to dream a little longer in the early morning, mom says NO! Wake up; this is no time to sleep. Get ready and eat, but mom I am not hungry, NO! You have to eat right now. Total dictatorship, in the house and he is a slave. No wonder, they want to leave the house as soon as possible, when they grow up, to get to do, what they want to do? The ignorant parents sow the seeds first and latter on repent, when the birds fly away prematurely, from their nests.  

DRIVING HOME THE MESSAGE OF SHAME

For a child there is no difference between his body parts, a nose or his sex organs, they are just the same for him. But he is baffled when he is smacked on the hand every time he plays with or touches his sex organs. This happens many times in a day. It is re-enforced weeks after weeks. Enjoying your own body is denied. The message driven home is of SHAME. Sex is BAD, dirty. He is taught wrongly, that nudity is gross. The child starts hating itself.  Gender is recognized through clothes. We over clothe our children and ourselves. Two small children, peep into a nudist camp, through a hole. They can not identify man and woman, because they are not wearing clothes. How tragic, that you do not see yourself nude in your own dreams, so much afraid of your own body. Latter on as an adults, you are expected to perform well, sexually in a marriage. It is not going to happen.  Do you see what went wrong already?

KILLING HIS CREATIVITY

If a child wants to open up and see how a clock works. – NO! his curiosity is killed instantaneously. An inquiring mind is destroyed, instead of destroying a worthless clock. Thomas Alva Edison, the greatest inventor was lucky to have an intelligent mother, who allowed him to destroy an old clock, to keep his curiosity alive, for his whole life. NO! Don’t! These two words are very potent. The child is made to understand, that happiness is wrong and being miserable is right. We destroy the possibility of ecstasy, joyful, delightful, life. You see, how things went wrong, in your past.

TIME IS NOT MONEY

Parents have no time to love, so they substitute love with pocket money and other cash incentives. The child learns to be greedy. Money respectability is symbolic. So much money in the bank! Paradoxically, the value of money comes, only, when you spend it, and not hoard it. 

UNDERSTANDING HOW ONE ACHIEVES MEDIOCRITY.

    AT BIRTH INFANT IS AN INNOCENT PURE SOUL

AT THE MERCY OF IGNORANT CAREGIVERS

Now the complex dynamics happen as follows :

Dissatisfied Mothers transfer Neglect, delayed gratification of breast    feeding.

Arrogant Step mothers convey Resentment.

Lonely Grandparents transmit gloominess, sadness.

LEADING TO ANXIETY, HATRED, SELF REJECTION, NUMBNESS, INSECURITY.

Sickly Uncles & Aunties exhibit Negativity.

Unfriendly neighbors teach Complaining, Arguing.

NORMAL INTERACTIONS TRIGGER THOUGHTS & FEELINGS OF

HYPER, CONFUSED, SCATTERED, NOT GOOD ENOUGH, LOW SELF ESTEEM

Irritating Guests / Visitors display Intruding, Rudeness, Seeking.

Dysfunctional Colleagues / Bosses Ingrain Rejection, Humiliation.

  

AT THE HANDS OF TOXIC CARETAKERS

The child's psyche & personality deflowers further :

Alcoholic Fathers permeate Fear, Oppression.

Dogmatic step fathers resort to Quarreling, Beating.

Skewed maids & servants inject Frustration.

EXPERIENCED AS NEGATIVITY OF

PUT DOWN, DEPRESSION, SULKING, SORROW, MASKING, SELF TALK.

Asexual Baby Sitters split sexuality, lewdness.

Egoistic Teachers impart Controlling

Lustful Coaches spoil true love by groping, forced intimacy.

MANIFESTING AS VISIBLE MANNERISMS OF

BODY-CONSCIOUSNESS, EGO, ANGER, VIOLENCE, GREED, LUST

Conceited friends down play by Bullying, Challenging.

Critical Cousins & Relatives confuse with Judging Comparing.

EVOLVING INTO SELF DEFEATING ACTIONS, VICES & ADDICTIONS

LEADING TO A DESTINY OF PAIN, MISERY &SELF DESTRUCTION.

HOW THE INTANGIBLES  DESTROY THE TANGIBLE BODY  

Self Limiting Beliefs are Irrational & permeate the Personality.

Suppressed Feelings of Fear translate to Holding up Tensions evolving as :

Avoid Confrontation, Take Blame, Take Rejection personally.

Low Self respect manifests as Shame, Abused & used.

Self Destruction happens through Compulsions of Helplessness & Grief.

Low self worth is totally erroneous & forms an integral part of personality.

Depressed emotions of hate cause muscles to tense up leading to :

Indifference, Paralytic, Unworthy of Love, Blocking the flow, Shutting down.

Depression is the total drying up of Joy & replacing it with Bitter Taste & ugliness.

PARENTS & TEACHERS ARE TRUE ROLE MODELS

Japanese children are among the calmest and most independent in the world, because their early years are filled with freedom, not pressure. Researchers show that daily routines and small interactions, rather than strict rules or drills, create emotional regulation and problem-solving skills years before Western methods do. Simple habits like brief back-and-forth conversations strengthen language and attachment, forming the foundation of a calm, confident child.

Independence is encouraged early. Japanese children take small errands alone, learning responsibility, self-control, and decision-making. Predictable routines for meals, baths, and bedtime provide security and reduce anxiety. Early play, rather than formal academics, builds focus, creativity, and self-regulation without stress.

Chores and micro-responsibilities teach accountability. Tiny daily tasks like carrying a bowl or folding a towel strengthen executive function while giving children a sense of contribution. Emotional coaching, where feelings are named and discussed, enhances emotional intelligence and communication skills.

Community trust allows children to explore safely. Adults model calm behavior, correct gently, and emphasize effort over perfection. Fresh air, brief outdoor exposure, and small challenges help regulate stress and improve immunity.

Start small. Daily habits like ten minutes of focused conversation, one solo task, and a consistent bedtime routine create lasting changes. Consistent, small practices beat flashcards, screens, or pressure every time.

 

Rohit Khanna - A fortunate one by HIS Grace.

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WHAT IS YOUR REASON TO GET OUT OF BED EVERY MORNING ?

DO YOU HAVE A PERSONAL REASON TO GET OUT OF BED EVERY MORNING ?

What is your very personal REASON to get out of your bed every morning ? Probably none ! You have never ventured on these lines before now. How a normal persons life goes full circle, with no chance of mid course correction.

MEDIOCRITY BREEDS A FULL CIRCLE - no mid course correction possible.

DESIRING  - Infatuations, Crushes, lust, Mental Trespassing.

ATTRACTION - Body consciousness, clouding of senses, dull Intellect.

INTIMACY - At school, colleges, work place, dwelling place.

RELATIONSHIP - Loving, passion, sexuality, reproduction.

HAPPINESS - Possession, family expansion, wealth accumulation, connections.

CONTENTMENT - Temporary, plateau of happiness, social problems.

BORED - Repetition, drifting away, empty nest, end of road.

SATIETY - Ennui, dullness, nothing new, it is over.

INDIFFERENCE - Taken for granted, sorrows, grief, loss, absence of youth.

IRRITATED - Hormonal changes, downfall, weak body, diseases.

DISSATISFIED - Fear, Jealousy, comparison, flings, extra marital affairs.

HATRED - Angry, Intolerant, mad.

SEPARATION - Torn apart mentally, divorced physically, alimony, poverty.

LONELINESS - Depression, over weight, Indulgence, end of story. 

DULL IN INTELLECT, LAZY IN  BODY

As a small child you woke up with a huge enthusiasm every morning to learn more, to continue where you left yesterday, to advance into adulthood as fast as possible. What has changed with you, between childhood & middle age or retirement age. You seemed to be exhausted, spent of all your energy & zeal for life. Lazy in the mind & body too. Therefore no reason to wake up every morning. Well, very soon you will NOT WAKE UP AT ALL. It is a common law of Self fulfilling prophesy. You wish to die, it will happen, the universe is designed to fulfill all of your desires.

CHANGE OF PARADIGM ONLY

On the other hand the same law can help you live happier & longer, healthier & active, helpful & cooperative, wiser & humble.

It appears that you have decided to explore the latter part of the equation. Lets us discover it together.

Ask your self these four questions:

        What you love ?

                                                               Delight

What are you good at ?
Being self

What the world needs ?

Excitement                                                                                                    
                                                               What you can be paid for ?

           Doing / Helping out 

ARTISTS PAINTERS ACHIEVE GREATNESS AFTER DEATH

Let me elucidate a little more with examples. You love to sing, dance, or paint, but the material world does not need all this intangible stuff, which means you can not be paid enough for these Vocations / skills, although you may be very good at them. The net result is that you feel delighted & satisfied inside doing it, but it does not bring in wealth for comfortable living which envelopes you with strong feelings of USELESSNESS & UNWORTHINESS.

IMBALANCE BETWEEN HOBBY & PROFESSION

Let us take another case study to explain further. Your cousin is very good at computers & the world needs such a talent right now. The world is also willing to pay him very handsomely for his skills, but he does not love his Vocation & job, because he is deeply interested in playing professional chess sports. His job brings in wealth which makes living comfortable but he is enveloped with strong feelings of EMPTINESS & SOMETHING A MISS.

Try to balance all the four in your life.

MY FATHER WAS LUCKY IN THIS ASPECT

Only lucky few are fortunate enough to enjoy both sides of the coin simultaneously. My father happened to be the lucky one. He was a Medical doctor (GP) who loved what he did & was very good at it too. The world needed him most & was willing to pay him for his skills & services hands down. He lived to be 92, very healthy, calm, content, & worked till his last day on his patients. He had a solid REASON to get up every morning, & the Reason was SERVICE TOWARDS HUMANITY. To sum up my fathers hobby was same as his profession which brought him wealth, delight, fame, & satisfaction.  

EDISON TOO WAS ONE OF THE FEW LUCKY 


The most glaring example we have in the history is that of Thomas Elva Edison. He was a drop out & never studied beyond 6 th grade. He ended up working 20 hours every day continuously for 30 years without any vacation. There was no need for a vacation because his research was so very interesting, absorbing & motivating him, to do more & more. He successfully patented 3000 inventions in his fulfilling life time. 

HE HAD A SOLID REASON TO GET UP EVERY MORNING.

I love him for his dedication & single minded approach to purposeful living. I share the same date of birth with him, with a time lapse of exactly hundred years - 11 Feb 1847

HAPPY BY DESIGN & ON PURPOSE


The Japanese people have evolved their own methodology of PURPOSEFUL LIVING, which makes them unique as a country of people with highest longevity in the world. It can be summed up in three meaningful words as follows :   

IKIGAI = A reason to live / purpose in life / value in living.

ITTAIKAN = Sense of Oneness with a role, group or Creation.

JITSUGEN = Self realization, Who am I, a soul or body.

SPIRITUAL INCLINATION & DIVINE TUITION  

I too have learnt from them & finalized upon a much bigger Reason to get up every morning out of my bed. It is my TRANSFORMATION from Body Consciousness to Soul Consciousness. My aim is to Die Alive to this degraded world, its attachments both materialistic & emotional, & emergence of souls ORIGINAL SEEDS after extinguishing all the acquired useless seeds picked up in this life & previous lives. This SELF TASK is so very intoxicating that I remain on the 9 th cloud most of the waking time. Of course I have Divine help all the time just for asking.

I hope you too can develop a good enough REASON to get out of your bed every morning.    

Rohit Khanna - IN-SECURE & IN-DEPENDENT FULLY
                          The most fortunate soul on the planet.

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