DROWNING OR SWIMMING IN THE QUAGMIRE OF KARMA - simplified for you

SWIMMING EFFORTLESSLY IN KARMA - SIMPLIFIED FOR YOU

LAWS OF KARMA

It is the consciousness with which we perform action that is important. 


BODY CONSCIOUSNESS  - NORMAL

While you may have associated yourself completely with your physical body, you may not have realized that every action had such a deep impact on you. Now, with the recognition of the self as a soul, you should become aware that every single action leaves an imprint, a record, which you carry with yourself eternally. Up until now, we human beings have found it very difficult to classify exactly what is right  and what is wrong? Not while you are limited by this physical costume. The religion into which you were born, as well as the limitations of gender, of age, and of culture, will all color your ideas, thoughts, and judgments. In body-consciousness there is not the pure intention behind action. Our actions are performed with selfish ulterior motives, such as greed, ego, and possessiveness, and are therefore non-beneficial actions which give sorrow and bring negative results. 


SOUL CONSCIOUSNESS - NATURAL

By maintaining the consciousness of your true identity - a peaceful soul - you will be able to accurately understand what is right and wrong. This is simply because, in soul-consciousness, the soul can only experience peace, happiness and love. So, it can only perform actions based on these qualities. These actions will be beneficial actions, bringing happiness and positive results. 


THE LAW OF KARMA

The law of karma, of action and reaction, is applicable to the spiritual sphere and is absolute. It states: ‘For every action there will be an equal and opposite reaction.’ Opposite, of course, means opposite in direction. Whatever interactions you have with others, you receive the equivalent in return. This means that, if you have given happiness, you will receive happiness in return, and if you have given sorrow, you will receive sorrow in return. 
How this is carried out in real life is pretty easy to elucidate. The past life TROUBLED SOUL purposefully takes birth as a close relative, brother, sister, son daughter,  first love, into your life, to take revenge / pay back / settle account. You automatically develop deep love for this innocent soul in disguise because of the intimate relationship & interactions. At the prime time say after 4 to 5 years this soul suddenly departs from your life / world, leaving you totally helpless & in extreme grief. This is the souls way of paying back by leaving you in sorrow for the rest of your life.  The law is simple, and when understood in its full depth, it can give insight into the significance of events in your own world and in the world at large. 

AS YOU SOW SO SHALL YOU REAP

In Christianity this law has been understood by the saying, ‘As you sow, so shall you reap.’ It is also known as the law of cause and effect. Understanding this, when you see certain effects, you come to realize that the corresponding causes had been missing. However, more important, the other side of the law of karma teaches that, if you now perform pure, beneficial actions, you can create your own positive future in the direction of your choice. 

OVER SIMPLIFIED JUST FOR YOU

In the past life you & your partner were of the opposite genders & you both SCREWED each other pretty badly. Now both of you have come together, in this life, bound by this divine law & definitely not your own choosing, to perform THE REVERSE SCREWING. Get this accurately into your Intellect & cancel your karmic debts  with understanding, joyfully & peacefully. 

THE PREDICAMENT OF THE CANADIAN NURSE

I was admitted into the QE2 hospital for a minor surgery. During my short stay the nurse became friendly & wanted me to explain to her the spell of karma in her troublesome life as a nurse. Most of her patients were 90 plus years old, in the grip of Alzheimer, arrogant & abusive to her. One hypothetical example changed her attitude & life. In your last birth, dear nurse, you were a male police officer in France. You were in-charge of water cannons & ordered to disperse the unruly violent crowd on the streets. So you did by firing the water cannons on this crowd, & hundreds of these souls got upset with your action. Now in this life you are a female nurse & all these souls are gradually coming back to trouble you to cancel their karmic debts individually for the next 20 years. Now she is happy all the time & oblivious to these patients. So can you too.  SLAVE TO  OR MASTER OF DESTINY

Not only are you not a slave to destiny, but the understanding of karma philosophy makes you the creator, or master of your own destiny. You may even be able to inspire others to create a positive destiny for themselves through the example of your own beneficial actions. Any negativity of the past has led you into karmic debts with those around you. Where you have in the past given sorrow, you must now repay that debt by giving happiness. You have to settle your past karmic accounts, whether you like it or not. 


MEDITATION CAN HELP MAINTAIN THE CHANGE

However, just because you change your attitude doesn’t necessarily mean others will change theirs. If you have courage and continue to give good wishes and perform pure actions in relation to other souls, gradually the karmic debts with others toward whom you have acted negatively will be repaid. Then you can be free from the bondage of karma. The power to sustain this effort of settling past karma can come through meditation or yoga. 

STOP THE PROCESS OF FURTHER CREATION OF KARMA

As you come to understand your own true nature more fully, you can understand that this is the true nature of everyone. You can see through the mask of negativity and relate to the soul directly. This will help you not to create further negative karma; you will not react badly to the negativity of others. 


THE METHODOLOGY OF HOW TO DO IT

I the soul have been performing karma through this physical costume of mine.
I carry the imprints of this karma, good and bad. 
I have been seeing the results of my karma externally, in the world around me. I come to the awareness of my eternal state  
A state in which I have no karmic bondage. 
This is the state I want to attain once more, the state of freedom. 
The state of having settled all my karmic debts, and of having created for myself a stock of good karma. 
In this awareness of I, the eternal being.I look back at the past and see the entangled threads of karma. 
Where did a connection begin? Where did it finish? The threads are so intertwined, it’s difficult to differentiate. 
The web of karma has been one in which there has been a lot of pain ... a few flashes of light, of hope, of joy ... but the negativity of my karma created situations in which there was much suffering. 


NOW LEARN TO LET GO WITH CREATORS HELP

Now, at this moment, in the presence of the Divine, I let go of my karma of the past. 
With God’s love, I surrender my past karma to God. 
I take light and might from the Supreme so that my karma today will create a future filled with light. 
God’s light shows me the path of righteous karma.
God’s might, God’s power gives me the courage to reject negative karma and even mundane karma.
I simply do that which is elevated and noble, so that my present is filled with light and might and a future of happiness and love is assured. 


THE BENEFITS OF TRANSFORMING

With soul-consciousness you will naturally give love and respect to others, and you will, in time, receive love and respect in return. Every action performed in soul-consciousness is an action through which you receive benefit, and thus it will benefit others. 


THOUGHTS - SEEDS OF ACTION

Karma begins in the mind as thoughts, the seeds of action. As is the thought, so is the result. Thoughts, like actions, spread vibrations and influence the surrounding atmosphere. Karmic-ally  there will be a return of those vibrations. Pure, peaceful, happy thoughts are the most valuable treasures in life. If you keep such beneficial thoughts in your consciousness wherever you go, you will create a pure atmosphere of peace and happiness from which others will greatly benefit. 

UNDERSTANDING ALERTNESS CONTROL CAREFUL 

Understanding the consequences of actions means you take care to do everything properly. Having little control over your actions is a sure sign that you have little control over your mind. if you slow down, you give yourself more time to do things properly. If something is done well, most likely it will not cause problems in the future. Jobs done in a rush often contain mistakes that have to be put right later, thereby causing more work. A good job done well leaves you with a peaceful mind. A careless piece of work pulls your attention back to itself again and again. If you concentrate completely on what you are doing in the present, this allows you to be in full control of both mind and body. You keep performing actions in soul-consciousness so that, no matter how much you have to do physically, you can remain light and peaceful. 




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              FUNDAMENTAL QUESTIONS :

Who are we.

Where we come from.

       Where are we going.

             Understand that you are a giant ball of energy, consisting of Auras, Health rays, Emotions & Chakras. A very small core of solid body levitates in the center of this ball of energy. This physical looking body manifested through the invisible energies acting as microwaves. Inside this body sits the tiniest microchip, the soul, the owner of the Total Combo, making all the magic happen. 

               @ A toddler child is barely aware of its BODY, hence a bodiless PURE SOUL going about expressing itself lovingly to all.

BASIC COMPONENTS OF A SOUL

A soul is made of three entities, the INTELLECT, which discerns & decides, the MIND which processes thoughts & feelings, and finally the SANSKARS / SEEDS which are the source of all thoughts. For better understanding we will adopt the Gardener & gardening analogy. Every soul has seven pure seeds to begin with. They are : Power, Purity, Peace, Love, Bliss, Knowledge, Truth. As a child we operate through these seeds which helps us to enjoy life without any inhibitions and love all equally.

YARD SALE SEED COLLECTION - we cherish the stuff that others don’t want.

Over time we acquire exactly the opposite kind of seeds from our parents, teachers, relatives, friends, & society. Then we acquire next stage of harmful seeds of Vices like Anger, Lust, Greed, jealousy, Ego. Mind is like the fertile soil where seeds grow & flower up. It has no mind of its own & does not act on its own ever. Intellect is the chief Gardner who discerns & decides, what crop to grow and what not to, when to harvest & how much to water the plants. How ever he too has limitations because if all he has in stock is bad, rotten seeds to work with, then it is not in his hands to do otherwise. The limited edition of original seeds are locked up in the warehouse & the poor Gardner is given all the dirty rotten acquired seeds picked up freely & cheaply from the environment, to work with. Naturally your are going to reap bountiful harvests of the crops you don’t want. You can not sell / barter them for other ones, because no one wants your rotten crops grown from borrowed seeds.   

AS YOU SOW SO SHALL YOU REAP 

The meaning of this childhood saying is clearly understood in this context. But now it is too late. The body is fragile & the mind has slowed down with Alzheimer. The awareness of this valuable knowledge is enough to start the process of purification & elevation which are the basic pillars of Self - Realization.   

INTELLECT (buddhi)- THE SUPERVISOR, DECISION MAKER & QUALITY CONTROL MANAGER

This faculty of the soul can make or break you. Dull or stone intellect coupled with unawareness is the core of a loser, a victim, a failure. On the other hand Sharp or Divine intellect coupled with total awareness becomes the core of winner, happy soul, successful body. It helps you to discern, discriminate, & decide what actions to materialize, which further reinforce the seeds, that started the process in the first place. Repeated actions keeps the seeds active & easily accessible. There are numerous obstacles on the path of progress of Intellect & spiritual advancement such as : physical illness, mental problems, doubts, indecision, laziness, unman-aged desires, lust, inaccurate assumptions/thinking, lethargy, no effort, fickle. 

INTELLECT AS DETACHED OBSERVER/INDUSTRIAL ENGINEER

Human being is a citizen of two worlds : Outside & Inside. As an outsider he suffers, incurs stress on this account & loses all, while the Insiders align with the Cosmic forces & remain Blissful. Pleasantness is within you the soul. We consciously choose to diffuse this valuable perfume of pleasantness around us to others. However the mind can be purified by cultivating friendliness towards the unpleasant, compassion towards sufferers, goodwill towards virtuous & indifference towards wicked/evil.  The methodology adopted to achieve this purity is to invite all dormant seeds to dislodge from the river bed & float up to the surface to be washed away into oblivion.  The intellect must exercise its choice to understand the Primitive Fountain & subsequently prioritize, regulate & rearrange the four needs for zero stress which will result in Bliss. The final destination of the soul is the state of being UNDISTURBED, UNINVOLVED, UNAFFECTED.  

PURPOSE OF THE SOUL - PROGRESSION OF CONSCIOUSNESS

The sole purpose of the soul is to elevate itself during it’s short stay in this human body. It is possible to move from the lower Chakras to higher energy centers & finally to the Crown Charkra. The seven Chakras are intimately related to the seven Auras in our Invisible bodies.

  

HOW THE IN-DWELLER OPERATES THROUGH THE COSTUME 

COGNITIVE & ACTIVE SENSES

There are five entrance doors through which Information is imported inside the costume. These doors are your five sense organs : taste, touch, smell, hear, & sight. There are additionally five exit doors through which the costume expels outwards. These are : procreation, elimination, grasping, speech & moving.  Then there is a master, the In-dweller who operates these doors. Who I really AM is independent of my actions & senses. Senses are not reliable for experiencing Absolute Truth, Reality or the Self the Soul. Like the bees follow the Queen Bee, so will the senses follow the Mind. With-drawl of the senses is like taking your hand out of a glove. The hands have the ability to let go of the glove. 

RELATIONSHIPS - SENSE OF UNION to experience part of the other into your life.

Divine cannot be experienced by the 5 senses/organs. Spiritual science is Yoga. Life explodes, because you are full of yourself. It is not about Shiva but you. Soul consciousness is about emptiness. Deities have divine virtues, so renounce  all senses & attachments. Churning the ocean of knowledge produces Nectar which is bound to surface as cheerful faces. 

THE FIRE OF YOGA

The closeness of two beings and their interplay by choice & concerted effort causes friction, heat, pleasure & pleasantness. A being has multiple bodies : physical, seven auras, health rays, Ionized seal.

When the closeness is PHYSICAL it is SEXUAL.

When the closeness is EMOTIONAL it is LOVE.

When the closeness is SPIRITUAL it is YOGA.  

Yoga is the vehicle which can bring God to you, or take you to God. It is a bridge between mortals & the Immortal. Yoga makes you loose your mind in a positive way. It is the cessation of modifications arising in the Chitta. Yoga helps in neutralizing ones Vortices of feelings, whirlpools of desires & attachments into a calm ocean of thought patterns, which is a prerequisite to perceive God. 

Dying Alive is another marvelous methodology to kill the artificial You, Me & Mine. It finishes off my ideas, my fashion sense, my hair style, my clothes & my body, leaving you with just your Soul. Yoga is Nirodhah which encompasses the following : Regulation, Channeling, Mastery, Integration, Coordination, Stilling, Quieting, Setting aside of modifications of mind field. It is the progress of Intellect into consciousness looking for the expression of the Source into ones actions & attitude. It is a deep concern for a fresh complete life by self. Yoga helps you in Total Transformation where there is no trace of past, fully new & Pure. On the other hand Change is incremental often leaves a residue of the past, hence you remain as impure.

SAT CHIT ANANDA = REALIZATION OF TRUE SELF IS BLISS 

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C - Consciousness of I the Soul & Supreme Soul

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G - Guru ultimate, who takes us Home

H - Home in Paramdham, our final destination

I - Instruments with Intoxication

J - Joyful Jewels of knowledge

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L - Lighting lamps & being Lighthouses

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O - Occupation of ONE, kingmaker

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Q - Queue of Questions must finish

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WHAT IS YOUR REASON TO GET OUT OF BED EVERY MORNING ?

DO YOU HAVE A PERSONAL REASON TO GET OUT OF BED EVERY MORNING ?

What is your very personal REASON to get out of your bed every morning ? Probably none ! You have never ventured on these lines before now. How a normal persons life goes full circle, with no chance of mid course correction.

MEDIOCRITY BREEDS A FULL CIRCLE - no mid course correction possible.

DESIRING  - Infatuations, Crushes, lust, Mental Trespassing.

ATTRACTION - Body consciousness, clouding of senses, dull Intellect.

INTIMACY - At school, colleges, work place, dwelling place.

RELATIONSHIP - Loving, passion, sexuality, reproduction.

HAPPINESS - Possession, family expansion, wealth accumulation, connections.

CONTENTMENT - Temporary, plateau of happiness, social problems.

BORED - Repetition, drifting away, empty nest, end of road.

SATIETY - Ennui, dullness, nothing new, it is over.

INDIFFERENCE - Taken for granted, sorrows, grief, loss, absence of youth.

IRRITATED - Hormonal changes, downfall, weak body, diseases.

DISSATISFIED - Fear, Jealousy, comparison, flings, extra marital affairs.

HATRED - Angry, Intolerant, mad.

SEPARATION - Torn apart mentally, divorced physically, alimony, poverty.

LONELINESS - Depression, over weight, Indulgence, end of story. 

DULL IN INTELLECT, LAZY IN  BODY

As a small child you woke up with a huge enthusiasm every morning to learn more, to continue where you left yesterday, to advance into adulthood as fast as possible. What has changed with you, between childhood & middle age or retirement age. You seemed to be exhausted, spent of all your energy & zeal for life. Lazy in the mind & body too. Therefore no reason to wake up every morning. Well, very soon you will NOT WAKE UP AT ALL. It is a common law of Self fulfilling prophesy. You wish to die, it will happen, the universe is designed to fulfill all of your desires.

CHANGE OF PARADIGM ONLY

On the other hand the same law can help you live happier & longer, healthier & active, helpful & cooperative, wiser & humble.

It appears that you have decided to explore the latter part of the equation. Lets us discover it together.

Ask your self these four questions:

        What you love ?

                                                               Delight

What are you good at ?
Being self

What the world needs ?

Excitement                                                                                                    
                                                               What you can be paid for ?

           Doing / Helping out 

ARTISTS PAINTERS ACHIEVE GREATNESS AFTER DEATH

Let me elucidate a little more with examples. You love to sing, dance, or paint, but the material world does not need all this intangible stuff, which means you can not be paid enough for these Vocations / skills, although you may be very good at them. The net result is that you feel delighted & satisfied inside doing it, but it does not bring in wealth for comfortable living which envelopes you with strong feelings of USELESSNESS & UNWORTHINESS.

IMBALANCE BETWEEN HOBBY & PROFESSION

Let us take another case study to explain further. Your cousin is very good at computers & the world needs such a talent right now. The world is also willing to pay him very handsomely for his skills, but he does not love his Vocation & job, because he is deeply interested in playing professional chess sports. His job brings in wealth which makes living comfortable but he is enveloped with strong feelings of EMPTINESS & SOMETHING A MISS.

Try to balance all the four in your life.

MY FATHER WAS LUCKY IN THIS ASPECT

Only lucky few are fortunate enough to enjoy both sides of the coin simultaneously. My father happened to be the lucky one. He was a Medical doctor (GP) who loved what he did & was very good at it too. The world needed him most & was willing to pay him for his skills & services hands down. He lived to be 92, very healthy, calm, content, & worked till his last day on his patients. He had a solid REASON to get up every morning, & the Reason was SERVICE TOWARDS HUMANITY. To sum up my fathers hobby was same as his profession which brought him wealth, delight, fame, & satisfaction.  

EDISON TOO WAS ONE OF THE FEW LUCKY 


The most glaring example we have in the history is that of Thomas Elva Edison. He was a drop out & never studied beyond 6 th grade. He ended up working 20 hours every day continuously for 30 years without any vacation. There was no need for a vacation because his research was so very interesting, absorbing & motivating him, to do more & more. He successfully patented 3000 inventions in his fulfilling life time. 

HE HAD A SOLID REASON TO GET UP EVERY MORNING.

I love him for his dedication & single minded approach to purposeful living. I share the same date of birth with him, with a time lapse of exactly hundred years - 11 Feb 1847

HAPPY BY DESIGN & ON PURPOSE


The Japanese people have evolved their own methodology of PURPOSEFUL LIVING, which makes them unique as a country of people with highest longevity in the world. It can be summed up in three meaningful words as follows :   

IKIGAI = A reason to live / purpose in life / value in living.

ITTAIKAN = Sense of Oneness with a role, group or Creation.

JITSUGEN = Self realization, Who am I, a soul or body.

SPIRITUAL INCLINATION & DIVINE TUITION  

I too have learnt from them & finalized upon a much bigger Reason to get up every morning out of my bed. It is my TRANSFORMATION from Body Consciousness to Soul Consciousness. My aim is to Die Alive to this degraded world, its attachments both materialistic & emotional, & emergence of souls ORIGINAL SEEDS after extinguishing all the acquired useless seeds picked up in this life & previous lives. This SELF TASK is so very intoxicating that I remain on the 9 th cloud most of the waking time. Of course I have Divine help all the time just for asking.

I hope you too can develop a good enough REASON to get out of your bed every morning.    

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HOW WE MAKE RELATIVES OUT OF STRANGERS & OWN THEM ?

HOW WE MAKE RELATIVES OUT OF STRANGERS & OWN THEM ?

DIVINE RELATIONSHIP

Relationship with the Divine must be wide & deep. Wide enough to cover all beings on the planet & deep enough to get to the bottom of the ocean of Love. This aspect has the power to change the melody of our life instantly.....fulfilled, desire-less, & empowered.

PEACEFUL RELATIONSHIP

A peaceful relationship exists in many religious organizations such as the one at Mt. Abu of the Brahma Kumaris. Thousands of souls co exist without any overlay of power. They live & work together in a circle of friendship without someone being in charge. Here they learn to BE IN-CHARGE first, then all else flows automatically like a clockwork, efficient, peaceful & blissful. Sharing with such simplicity & beauty. Each second more aware of others than themselves.....cooperating, helping & benevolent for all. 

PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

A perfect relationship is not of a slave’s submission to a master. It is a relationship based on sharing life in a single plane of circle between brothers & sisters. We Earthlings have a hard time sharing anything with others, be they known or unknown. This life is an anteroom of greater reality to come very soon. We all souls must RE-TURN home to the Divine & then come down gradually in small numbers to our cleansed new world, where we share open heartedly, because we do not know otherwise......magical, as it was meant to be in  paradise.   

LOVING RELATIONSHIP

A loving relationship can happen by learning to live as loved fully. It is very natural to live loved & loving to all other souls. A soul is a free spirit. We have no concept of final authority among-st us, only unity. Love does not force ones will on others. It is gentle. You must open up on your own. It needs lots of hard work & effort to achieve this level. Love does not grow. It is the knowing that grows & love simply expands to contain it. Knowing is the skin of love. Trust is the fruit of a relationship in which you the soul know that you are loved. You love each person differently because of who they are & their uniqueness that they draw out of you. The more you know another the richer the colors of that relationship. It is spiritual, know, connect, feel,  the other. A relationship of love & mutual respect for each other.....to thrive in unconditional love, harmony, peace, Bliss.

LIMITED RELATIONSHIP

A limited relationship surfaces when we live as unloved. Human beings were created to be loved. So for us to live as if we are unloved is a limitation, not the other way around. Living unloved is like clipping the birds wings & removing its ability to fly. Most birds were created to fly. Being grounded for them is a limitation, within their ability to fly.....to be left out of the fun, aliveness, ecstasy of being together.

PARENTAL RELATIONSHIP

We as parents love each of our children differently, because each of them is unique. That uniqueness & person-hood calls out a different response from us the parents. When a child is born to us, they bring about a whole new capacity to love them, specially fond of each one. When they do not behave or make their own choices, we do get embarrassed or angry. This may affect our pride but not our love for them.....to relish in their growth & comradeship. 

NOUN DEAD RELATIONSHIPS

Laws grant you the power to judge others & feel that your standard is higher than theirs, whom you judge. Rules give you the power to accuse in-vain attempts. The subtle forms of enforcing rules are RESPONSIBILITY & EXPECTATIONS These words are grammatically NOUNS. Nouns make the world deadly & sound dead. It is full of principles, fears & rulings. Responsibility translates down to long unwritten unspoken lists of tasks to be performed on your own. It also provides the essential frame work that promotes performance as the basis for Identity & Value. Expectations spoken or unspoken imply a U-turn, a prerequisite in a relationship you are expected to carry out to a high level of perfection, in a way that meets my expectations, all dead stuff, requirements, generally never specified or listed down & made known to the opponent. They lead to guilt, shame & sentencing. You are trying to control behavior & get desired results.... of alienation breakups & divorce. 

   

VERB ALIVE RELATIONSHIPS

In the absence of laws you have immense freedom of choices. The same subtle forms now emerge as ABILITY TO RESPOND & EXPECTANCY instead. These verbs are dynamic & alive. They are full of life & possibilities. You choose every moment to respond differently & positively. The ability to respond encompasses very high level of awareness & soul consciousness. The other person is viewed as unique soul who is on his personal more complicated & tough journey. Hence responding with politeness, compassion & love makes all the difference to him & you. Both benefit from this single act of goodness & positivity. When you & I are friends, then there is an expectancy that exists within our relationship. Expectancy of being together, laughing & talking. It is alive & dynamic. Because I have no previous agenda you do not disappoint me, hence happy together.... for this lifetime.   

JUDGMENTAL RELATIONSHIPS

We judge people & situations all the time, every moment. Judging presupposes that you think yourself superior over the one you judge. It is your Ego. This vast experience makes us into experts by all accounts. Judging encompasses jumping to hasty conclusions from the way they impact us. It is definitely a self centered view point of the world around us. The mental-ism involved in judging is grading, giving marks out of ten, as if you are a certified teacher/instructor, classifying, categorizing, labeling, accepting, rejecting, check marking as right just OK, wrong, or down right blasphemous. The basis of our judgment is the criterion we uphold in our lives, which could be sometimes broad, but generally very narrow. We pass judgments like a supreme court barrister would on actions & motivations, as if we know the whole truth, which in reality is otherwise. We are quick to judge color of skin, body language, body odor, history & their relationships. We never hesitate to to rank the value of a persons life by the standards of quality of our concept of beauty..... thus limiting ourselves to a select few numbers who tolerate you.

Self judging exercise - Sit comfortably, die alive & Judge yourself, your own life. Do a self assessment of intoning your infinite sins as an impartial judge - before the real trial.       

PAINFUL RELATIONSHIPS

Painful relationships evolve as we grow up & involves most of us. All evil flows from your choices, your egoistic madness to be independent. The flood of freedom, the power of independence is intoxicating in the beginning. Your beliefs are based on illusions & lies. What you perceive is Right but you are still Wrong. Our beliefs are indelibly etched into our memories. We treasure our stupidity, our imaginary independence. We hoard & hold our mental sickness with a firm grip & then find our Identity & worth in the brokenness, which we guard with every ounce of strength we can muster up.   Paradigms power perceptions & perceptions feed emotions. Most emotions are responses to perceptions, hence misleading you into destruction & chaos in life. You may not see the chaos, but God sees the FRACTAL. All things must unfold. He is very patient with us & assures us that we have a life time to sort things out on our own. We even resist Divine help at this point. We are unable to fathom HIS silent support in our deep sorrow. How will Divine Grace touch us when we have padlocked the basement of our hearts from inside. At this point simply accept what is, instead of trying to fit it into your preconceived notions, with little success. You use pain to force people back into your lives. You replace Love with Sympathy & Pity.....stagnate in the relationship as unwanted & unloved.

UNFORGIVING RELATIONSHIPS

It is an incredible power, that we share with Gods. To forgive is to start a reconciliation process. You have the possibility to grow into a relationship with an unknown enemy. Forgiveness is first, primarily for you the forgiver. To release you from something that will eat you alive & destroy you, your joy & ability to live fully & openly. Your forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another persons throat. This helpless person feeds on violence. You have the power to cut it off by forgiving him & redeeming him. Release him from the burden he carries, knowingly or unknowingly. When you choose to forgive another you love him well. Your enemy is an innocent broken child, in an adult body, who has been twisted by pain inflicted upon him by the world. Every time you forgive, the MATRIX of the Universe changes for the better. We need just a million souls to alter the Consciousness of the entire Universe to reach that tipping point & create the new world order for the whole of humanity of eight billion souls. You could be a part of this big Divine crusade if you choose to.... & hasten the process of change in yourself first & your relationships with all others.    

FRAGILE & DICEY RELATIONSHIPS

WILTING, SULKING, & SIMMERING IN

It is up to us to be in a relationship or not to be in it. Today we are friends with full enthusiasm, tomorrow we can be sworn enemies. The catch is extremely subtle, that we continue to be in an abusive relationship & we pay a very heavy price for it latter on as time goes by. The reasons / excuses to prolong the undesired relationship can be innumerable. They could be financial, family / peer pressure, public shame, loss of Ego, stubbornness & finally lack of courage to hit back & breakup.

THERE ARE TWO PATHS TO MOVE AHEAD :

THE EASY PATH OF BONDAGE & UNPLEASANTNESS

ACCOMMODATE

Start with unconditional ACCEPTANCE of self. This is a pretty significant point in the over all scheme of things / drama of life. Using little creativity will help immensely to adapt yourself to the situations & other SOULS around you. Learn at every step to fit into the bigger picture. Remember that other souls are struggling too, just like you, but failing for some unknown reason, to accommodate you in their lives. Therefore why not take the lead & you begin the process of change.    

TOLERATE

Be patient & stretch your boundaries gradually. Having accommodated as above, tolerating is implied & done willingly on your part. All insinuations, remarks, foul language, tantrums of rage must be taken lightly & never personally. Be aware that all souls are learning their lessons simultaneously, & you are helping them do so. After all it is your combined KARMA coming back from previous births. It is preferred that you settle it quickly in this life itself with a smile or else it will carry forward to the next life in bigger proportions.  

COOPERATE

Pinned against the wall you have limited choices. It pays to cooperate with full support, because it brings in harmony to some extent. Be incognito & humble about the help & cooperation. Let me put you in a real life scenario.

Scene 1: Would you hug & genuinely caress a diseased dirty beggar picked up from the road side. NO! a big no. Why may I ask ? Well to assist you, I wish to add that hugging is a therapy for healing oneself & the other.

Scene 2: You are a registered nurse at the hospital & the very same dirty beggar is brought & admitted into your hospital under your care. Now, without even blinking you will proceed to clean up this beggar & help him in every way to make him comfortable. You even hug him in times of his distress. Do you see cycle of destiny & the bigger cosmic picture.  No to first situation & Yes to the second set up.    

THE TOUGH PATH OF LIBERATION & PLEASANTNESS

DISCERN THE PREDICAMENT 

Weigh the positive benefits against the negative short comings of the predicament that you are entombed in. Discern the illusion from the truth by going deeper into the situation. Do a complete introversion & eliminate all mental conflicts so that you can see things as they should be seen.  

DECIDE UPON ACTION PLAN

Having done the discerning, now consciously choose to act with trust & full confidence in your action plan. Choice brings in the essential support & respect that you desperately need at this moment. How ever you must not let your guard off, & keep attention on thoughts words & deeds. If you have decided to walk off from the situation, fair enough, do it boldly & congenially.

FACE CALMLY & COURAGEOUSLY

Express openly with maturity & respectfully. Offer self as a conduit of Peace. If this matter has to end, let it end on a friendly note. Remember that the missiles & vibrations of SPITE / HATRED will continue to be sent out & will reach you invariably, if not resolved now. The other average soul just like you, is in hurt & can not forgive plus forget so easily the whole fiasco. They do not have access to this wisdom that you have chosen.

DETACH & WITHDRAW

Step back & allow space to the other soul. Do the closing act slowly. Be centered & listen sincerely to all the high lights of the relationship, if brought up in the final conversations. Now is also the time to reflect on values dear to both concerned.

LET GO OF PAST

Do not ruin your present & future by holding onto the unpleasant past. Be non judgemental & detached. Just let go of all make believe attachments. Start afresh to grow back again strong & renewed.

Rohit Khanna - IN-STILL & IN-STALL

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