IGNORANT OF REALITY, HENCE WE WRONGLY BELIEVE

 

IGNORANT OF REALITY, HENCE WE WRONGLY BELIEVE

 

Not knowing the Reality & Truth of the Universe

Yet continue in Believing firmly, in the Abstract & Dogmas fabricated by the ill-informed public.

 

Not Knowing – The history of our scriptures, handed down from memory to written word, edited & translated numerous times till today.

Yet Believing – That whatever is written in the Holy Books is the word of God & dare not question its genuineness / accuracy, now.

 

Not knowing – That the path to Heaven & God is tough, which demands extreme alertness, attention & purity of Intentions / thoughts.

Yet Believing – That casual visit to the temple / church will get you to Heaven, with impurity all over, no effort needed.

 

Not Knowing – the value of imbibing Virtues & letting go of Vices, raises you to Divine heights to influence people soulfully.

Yet Believing – That you must protect your Land / personal God by resorting to kill others or immolate self.

 

Not Knowing – That children come fully equipped from inside to grow up joyfully & you are merely their custodian to help them thrive.

Yet Believing – That you must always control children, dominate over them & not let go of them.

 

Not Knowing – That children learn from examples & by copying parents / others in school or neighborhood.

Yet Believing – That showing anger, shouting & punishing will right the wrong & discipline the child.

 

Not Knowing – That happiness comes from within, when you are at Peace, content & living simply.

Yet Believing – That quality life can happen only with TV, parties, friends & long expensive vacations.

 

Not Knowing – That begging / wanting, means you lost your SELF RESPECT / SOVEREIGNTY & are, now totally dependent on the mercy of others.

Yet Believing – That other people must compliment on your looks, clothes & possessions very often, to boost up your hollow Ego & false happiness.

 

Not Knowing – That your live-in partner is merely a catalyst to your happiness & love, which triggers us to give first before receiving it.

Yet Believing – That you must switch to new partners to find love / fresh Egos in them.

 

Not Knowing – That the universe is designed to provide plenty for all of us including the creatures who live from today to next day.

Yet Believing – That there are limited quantities of goods in this world, hence hoard up like a selfish being.

 

Not Knowing – That you & your choices are responsible for all that happens to you. The world is merely a mirror to reflect at you.

Yet Believing – That the world situations & adverse climate are to be blamed for your misery.

 

Not Knowing – That you must exhibit & exude divine virtues like peace, harmony & pleasantness to inspire others.

Yet Believing – That other people’s bad behavior is the cause of your suffering & you can change them by constant nagging.

 

Not Knowing – That harboring anger, holding grudges is harmful for your own self emotionally & chemically. Your opponent rejoices at the cost of your sickness.

Yet Believing – That you must hate all those who criticize, disagree & abused you in the past, hence no forgiveness.

 

Not Knowing – That you are primarily responsible for your own health & diseases. Bad habits & shallow judgements lead you into this whirlpool.

Yet Believing – That a medical doctor & his medicine will heal you, while you continue with your vices & display total helplessness.

 

DECODING THE FRACTALS OF LIFE - out of compassion


A fractal is a progressive continuous Cosmic design, each part of which has the same magical character as a Whole - exactly like our SOULS which are in the image of the Supreme SOUL, very well connected to all & HIM. At one end it is gross & the other is subtle. Align your gross FRACTAL with the Creators subtle FRACTAL & HE will pull you up, provided you make a sincere effort - go figure.

 

Reality is infinity of nothing

Reality has the depth of empty space

 

Wisdom lies in seeking truth

Wisdom & awareness do change reality

 

I am, exists in awareness of self

I am, is a shallow perspective of the self

 

Faith in beliefs lead to attachments

Faith makes us vulnerable to expectations

 

Beliefs retard growth

Beliefs have no wisdom

 

Let go of attachments to experience unity

Let go of beliefs to change path

 

Trust with patience in creation & allow growth

Trust with faith in life after death

 

Creation has truth of unity

Creation allows change with maturity

 

Awareness of all life is wisdom

Awareness changes the entire perspective

 

Life will change path towards death

Life is vulnerable yet infinite

 

Beings lost in love experience life

Being in love is understanding creation

 

Love is based on acceptance & trust

Love needs respect & understanding to flower

 

Universe has no beliefs & expectations

Universe is unity of love

 

Depth of being self brings about maturity

Depth of love is reality

 

 

MAKE EFFORT TO RENOUNCE, IMBIBE & TRANSFORM

 

LET GO of negative Sanskars / seeds & attachments

REPLACE with newness of brotherhood towards souls

 

Karma is the glue which holds the SOUL to the body

Destruction of vices & lust will liberate your SOUL

 

Become a pure blissful INSTRUMENT for the Creator

Brahma became the first ideal INSTRUMENT  

 

Creators Shrimat is the ultimate TRUTH

HE reveals this TRUTH to the chosen few

 

Purity is a prerequisite to experience REALITY

Self-sovereignty aids to bring RRALITY to you

 

TRUST the cosmic Drama for inner peace

ACCEPTANCE of the inevitable generates bliss

 

Shiva's love permeates all beings & CREATION

Develop an attitude of Inclusiveness for all CREATION

 

The depth of the Soul is as deep as the OCEAN

Supreme Soul is Incognito energy of OCEAN

 

Universe is space imprinted with INTELLIGENCE

Awareness can download the relevant INTELLIGENCE

 

Confluence age is a STARTER KIT for Paradise

Effort to change is a STARTER KIT of newness

 

PATIENCE is power at its peak

Constant service facilitates PATIENCE

 

Expectations give birth to swarms of DESIRES

Lustful DESIRES are the cause, for the Creations downfall

  

DEATH is the midpoint of two lives / births

Creator teaches us the art of DYING alive

 

There is NOTHING in the present moment

Past & future are filled with illusionary MAYA

 

Chart your GROWTH with faith                                                      

TRANSFORMATION is the destination

ROHIT KHANNA      IN-VENT

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THERE IS PLEASURE & EXTREME PLEASURE, NOT PAIN

 

THERE IS PLEASURE & EXTREME PLEASURE, NOT PAIN 

 

The pleasure of giving birth or the pain of delivering a child.

We do display our love through tender touch, warm hugs & firm handshakes.

 

 

THE PHYSICS OF TOUCH & CHEMISTRY OF PLEASURE

 

Pleasure is derived through the skin. A fingertip has more than 5000 receptors to transfer the texture and temperature of the skin. Skin is the largest organ in our bodies and generally the most neglected one. The total area covered by skin in an adult body is roughly 19 sq ft. that’s a lot of area for contact and exposure. The epidermis continually makes new skin cells replacing 40,000 old cells that our body sheds every day. You have a new skin every 30 days. The amount of Melanin pigment determines the color of your skin to which the opposite sex get attracted.

THE PLEASURE CENTER & PEAK EXPERIENCES

The feeling of being pleased, glad & joyful. Pleasure is enjoyment & satisfaction derived from what is to one's liking of Sensual gratification involving voluptuousness. When we eat an ice cream cone, when we beat our opponent in a tennis match, when we see a beautiful sunset, when we do a good deed, each of these pleasurable activities triggers the pleasure center and we experience varying degrees of pleasure. Moments of highest happiness and fulfillment are rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving, exhilarating, elevating experiences that generate an advanced form of perceiving reality, are even mystic & magical.

 

SAT-CHIT-ANANDA OR TRUTH-CONSCIOUSNESS-BLISS.

Pleasure is a quality inherent in the essence of all objects. It comes from the Ananda quality. Extreme pleasure is caused by transcendence of the subject-object duality. Then, Ananda is experienced directly without any processing. If we could become clear about what happens in our minds that causes us to experience pleasure, we would arrive at a fundamental insight into what it is to be human & where our pursuit of pleasure is leading us.

 

TOUCH IS A PRIME NEED

Touch is a basic need. A newborn baby will not survive for a week, if is not touched, held, and cuddled. Touch is so powerful that the mother can transfer her fears and apprehensions, and other feelings to the baby instantly. All children enjoy each other’s company by touching. They hug, kiss, embrace, and keep falling on each other in various games. They hold hands and laugh together. As adults we do the same things. We enjoy by touching each other’s bodies and the final act of sex and orgasm is basically rubbing of two bodies very intimately and passionately for a short period of time.                 

 

TOUCHY ABOUT TOUCH

We live in a very tactile world. We are very TOUCHY about touch or skin contact. Would you hug a dirty, diseased beggar for $100? No! Never, because he is dirty, infected, and has the potential of making you sick. But hugging is therapeutic so why would you not help heal the beggar by hugging him. You can heal yourself too in the process.

ONE INFECTED BEGGAR - TWO SCENARIOS

Now, imagine yourself as a nurse and your job is to look after the same beggar in a nursing home. You will be touching him, feeding him, being compassionate towards him and getting paid for it too, more than $100 dollars. One beggar got you into two different situations. It is all in the mind. You are for the dirty beggar or against, the diseased beggar. Cannot make up your mind!                            

 

CULTURAL CONNOTATIONS TO NON-TOUCHING

Indians and Japanese never touch in public. They bow and bend down towards each other, in salutations. They wish each other by joining their hands together, and uttering the words, ‘Namaste’, which means ‘I salute your soul’. That is correct; the body is temporary and perishable while soul is permanent & eternal.

 

IS THERE PAIN IN THIS WORLD - NO!   ONLY PLEASURE

The million-dollar question! Is there PAIN in this world? No! No! An emphatic No! There is no pain in this world. There is only pleasure, more pleasure and extreme pleasure. Since we have never experienced extreme pleasure, we do not know how to handle it, when it comes our way. 

KIND OF PLEASURE IS PROPORTIONAL TO PRESSURE APPLIED

The amount of pleasure experienced by human beings is directly proportional to the pressure applied on the skin of the subject. We would use very little pressure to tickle, touch, hold hands, and stroke our loved ones. In the next category we would use slightly more pressure on our spouses and friends to kiss, suck, hug, rub, and fondle. In the third category we would use quite a lot of pressure to message, pinch, squeeze, and wring the limbs. Touch stimulates the brain to produce hormones like endorphins and dopamine. They are nature’s morphine, to help us get into relaxation mode and let go. Unfortunately, we prefer to rely on alcohol, and drugs to relax and let go.

 

OCEAN OF PLEASURE WITH EXTREME PRESSURE

Finally we have the maximum pressure category on our skins when we engage in full body embrace, petting, heavy petting, and intercourse. Of course this is the most pleasurable act in the world. Now let us replace one of your partners with a Sumo body builder. What happens in the extreme category next? The Sumo body builder makes love to you with all his power and starts to apply extreme pressure on your body. You should naturally get the utmost level of pleasure at this moment. Alas! Paradoxically you feel PAIN at this point instead of an OCEAN OF PLEASURE.  You have not learnt to handle extreme pleasure; therefore, you label it as pain, in your little world of innocence. Today we have mechanical gadgets and vibrators to replicate the human touch. Hydraulic messages, sauna baths, whirlpool baths are trying to replace the human touch, but it is not the same thing.  A new paradigm on extreme pleasure.

 

ROHIT KHANNA      IN-VINCIBLE

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MOVING ON IN LIFE TO REKINDLE LOVE AGAIN

 

MOVING ON IN LIFE TO REKINDLE LOVE AGAIN

 

Love is a Force that penetrates your Life for good & bad.

Love is a tool too, to solve differences & makes you feel safe.

RESPONSIBILITY

 

Taking charge of situations / things & making wise choices is being Responsible. The ability to Respond to any situation in a positive & emotionally balanced manner is the need of the hour. It is trying my very best & doing my share of work. Caring, helping others & being fair makes a better world. 

CONFLICT INTERNAL

Differing perspectives about the REAL you/self & the PROJECTED EGO of you/self. The Real you are hidden, natural, pure, peaceful & easy going. On the other hand, the Projected Ego of self by the self is exposed, totally false, tainted, agitated & critical of everything & everybody. The Real you are Original, Eternal, & untainted. By comparison the Projected Ego is amassed, acquired, built up from yard sales of traits that the others have discarded & put out for disposal - go figure.   

CONFLICT EXTERNAL

Differing viewpoints, incompatibility between two people, groups, nations, causes irritation which escalates into conflict. Now the external persona of False Egos interacts, creating resentment, overflowing into bitterness. Greed for owning nature’s resources, Disrespect for the Dignity & Worth of every Human Being, & Dishonoring the differences, uniqueness of others, becomes the basis of Conflicts, battles & eventually wars. Lack of Tolerance, Cooperation, Unity, Responsibility & Self-Respect are the remaining Living Values which too must be imbibed in childhood, for people to live in Harmony, Happiness & overflowing Love for each other.

CONFLICT RESOLUTION 

It must happen first on the Internal level by having a desire to understand & finish the mental violence, or tug of war. The absence of strong LIVING VALUES is the root cause of mental chaos. Honesty, Humility, & simplicity are the very basic ones to imbibe right from the early years of childhood. We can imbibe these only if our parents / caregivers / caretakers had them for us to copy.

IGNORANCE

Ignorance is the most perverse & lethal, Wallow in slot, Excessive sleep, Dejection, Intoxication, Deadly Anger, Pointless Violence & Mental derangement, Idling, all these paths lead to suicide ending in death.    

DISCERN THE PREDICAMENT 

Weigh the positive benefits against the negative shortcomings of the predicament that you are entombed in. Discern the illusion from the truth by going deeper into the situation. Do complete introversion & eliminate all mental conflicts so that you can see things as they should be seen.  

DECIDE UPON ACTION PLAN

Having done the discerning, now consciously choose to act with trust & full confidence in your action plan. Choice brings in the essential support & respect that you desperately need at this moment. How ever you must not let your guard off & keep attention on thoughts, words & deeds. If you have decided to walk off from the situation, fair enough, do it boldly & congenially.

FACE CALMLY & COURAGEOUSLY

Express openly with maturity & respectfully. Offer self as a conduit of Peace. If this matter must end, let it end on a friendly note. Remember that the missiles & vibrations of SPITE / HATRED will continue to be sent out & will reach you invariably, if not resolved now. The other average soul just like you, is in hurt & cannot forgive plus forget so easily the whole fiasco. They do not have access to this wisdom that you have chosen.

DETACH & WITHDRAW

Step back & allow space for the other soul. Do the closing act slowly. Be centered & listen sincerely to all the highlights of the relationship, if brought up in the final conversations. Now is also the time to reflect on values dear to both concerned.

LET GO OF PAST

Do not ruin your present & future by holding onto the unpleasant past. Be nonjudgmental & detached. Just let go of all make believe attachments. Start afresh to grow back again strong & renewed.

ACCOMMODATE

Start with unconditional ACCEPTANCE of self. This is a significant point in the overall scheme of things / drama of life. Using a little creativity will help immensely to adapt yourself to the situations & other SOULS around you. Learn at every step to fit into the bigger picture. Remember that other souls are struggling too, just like you, but failing for some unknown reason, to accommodate you in their lives. Therefore, why not take the lead & you begin the process of change.    

TOLERATE

Be patient & stretch your boundaries gradually. Having accommodated as above, tolerating is implied & done willingly on your part. All insinuations, remarks, foul language, tantrums of rage must be taken lightly & never personally. Be aware that all souls are learning their lessons simultaneously, & you are helping them do so. After all it is your combined KARMA coming back from previous births. It is preferred that you settle it quickly in this life itself with a smile or else it will carry forward to the next life in bigger proportions.  

COOPERATE

Pinned against the wall you have limited choices. It pays to cooperate with full support, because it brings in harmony to some extent. Be incognito & humble about the help & cooperation.

ROHIT KHANNA        IN-JECTION

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THE DILEMMA OF CHOOSING ONE OVER THE OTHER

 

THE DILEMMA OF CHOOSING ONE OVER THE OTHER

 

We seek Love & pleasure outside, but it comes from within.

Marriage is a timebound multilayered SURPRIZE PACKAGE, which reveals itself shockingly after every layer gets unwrapped with the passage of time. The ladies are as dissatisfied & confused as their counterpart’s gentlemen about the right choice.

 

If the guy is HANDSOME then he most probably be ugly in the HEAD.
If a man happens to be BRILLIANT then definitely he is bound to be SERIOUS too.
In case you click with a RICH person, the chances of his being DISRESPECTFUL are very high, so endure him for the rest of your life.
On the other hand if your FIND happens to be HUMBLE, he could be BROKE for sure, where to go now.
When you stumble upon a RESPONSIBLE sensible boy, then do not expect any ROMANCE  from him.
Entice an EDUCATED/TEACHER human being thinking that all will be well, only to get disappointed at his attitude of him BEING ALWAYS RIGHT.
Most of the time you will be lured by a SMART looking hunk, to find out that he LIES EVERY TIME, which you hate the most.
Your arranged match may turn out to be ILLITERATE, & furiously ANGRY WHEN CORRECTED.
You could be lucky to single out a real HARD WORKING dude, but then be prepared to live a lonely life, because he has NO TIME FOR YOU.

 

 

ROHIT KHANNA      IN-EVITABLE

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A BEATING HEART IS THE VESSEL FOR LOVE

 

A BEATING HEART IS THE VESSEL FOR LOVE           

 

Love is an essential, important & life sustaining element. It is the perfume of our bodies. It is securely sealed in a beautiful vessel named HEART. This container is highly expandable, flexible to hold LOVE & let it out at will. The vessel has the capacity to become BIG, SOFT or SHRIVELED & BROKEN too at different times. Love grows when given freely & becomes useful while caring, sharing, listening, consoling & being kind to near / dear ones & strangers. Love dries up when it is held back, blocked, restricted, stifled at times of being mean & sad. It is self-manufacturing like any Hormone in our body. It is wrongly understood that LOVE can be obtained by SQUEEZING parts of another's body which may be at proximity, physically or far away in a distant land, mentally. 

 

LOVE IS FRAGILE HANDLE IT WITH CARE & SENSITIVITY

Love is a breathing entity. It does not wait for us to find it, and it disconnects when it is not sought. It cannot be taken for granted or expected to serve when convenient. It must, instead, be enshrined for the beauty it can bring and appreciated every moment it exists. Even when love is not currently yours, it is blossoming somewhere and needs to be honored just because it exists at all. Feeling the desire to love is more healing in its own way than receiving it. If that experience is denied within, it cannot find its way to emerge to the outside. Love starts within.

 

THE POWER OF BEING A WOMAN

 

She is a Vessel of Fertility & a Chalice of CREATION.

Her undulating curves of a Goddess is a BLESSING.

Delicious lusciousness of her Body is the sweet NECTAR.

Her Soul flowering within & overflowing is INTOXICATING.

She is the supreme pristine splendor of Earthly DELIGHTS.

Her generosity for human Life flourishes with GLORY. 

The beauty of the feminine is Natural MEDICINE.

Her radiance Infuses our very existence into RESONANCE.

Her Essences Injects experiences of Ravishing WONDERS

 

 

Boys Lust……………. Girls Love

Man Plants……….... Woman Creates

Fathers Judge…… Mothers Discern

Parents Correct…...Teachers Inspire

Disciple Learns…. Guru Remembers 

Juniors Criticize...Seniors Emphasize

Humans Analyze……Angels Know
Men Justify……. Women Reconcile

Athletes Think………. Coaches Feel

Doctors Diagnose……. Nurses Heal

Customers Hear……. Waiters Listen

Politicians Divide....Priests Embrace

 

REPLACING LOVE WITH SYMPATHY & PITY

 

Painful relationships evolve as we grow up & involve most of us. All evil flows from your choices, your egoistic madness to be independent. The flood of freedom, the power of independence is intoxicating in the beginning. Your beliefs are based on illusions & lies. What you perceive is Right, but you are still Wrong. Our beliefs are indelibly etched into our memories. We treasure our stupidity, our imaginary independence. We hoard & hold our mental sickness with a firm grip & then find our Identity & worth in the brokenness, which we guard with every ounce of strength we can muster up.   Paradigms power perceptions & perceptions feed emotions. Most emotions are responses to perceptions, hence misleading you into destruction & chaos in life. You may not see the chaos, but God sees the FRACTAL. All things must unfold. He is very patient with us & assures us that we have a lifetime to sort things out on our own. We even resist Divine help at this point. We are unable to fathom HIS silent support in our deep sorrow. How will Divine Grace touch us when we have padlocked the basement of our hearts from inside. At this point simply accept what is, instead of trying to fit it into your preconceived notions, with little success. You use pain to force people back into your lives. You replace Love with Sympathy, Pity to stagnate in the relationship as unwanted & unloved.

 

FORGIVENESS RELEASES YOU FROM DESTRUCTION

 

It is an incredible power, that we share with Gods. To forgive is to start a reconciliation process. You have the possibility to grow into a relationship with an unknown enemy. Forgiveness is first, primarily for you the forgiver. To release you from something that will eat you alive & destroy you, your joy & ability to live fully & openly. Your forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person’s throat. This helpless person feeds on violence. You have the power to cut it off by forgiving him & redeeming him. Release him from the burden he carries, knowingly or unknowingly. When you choose to forgive another, you love him well. Your enemy is an innocent broken child, in an adult body, who has been twisted by pain inflicted upon him by the world. Every time you forgive, the MATRIX of the Universe changes for the better. We need just a million souls to alter the Consciousness of the entire Universe to reach that tipping point & create the new world order for the whole of humanity of eight billion souls. You could be a part of this big Divine crusade if you choose to.... & hasten the process of change in yourself first & your relationships with all others.    

 

  

MANY RELATIONSHIPS BUT ONE LOVE

Many forms of almighty but one God

Many souls but one Supreme Soul.

Many beings but one Breath

Many flowers but one Worship

Many nations but one Earth

Many storms but one Sky

Many jewels but one Gold

Many cows but one Milk

 

ROHIT KHANNA      IN-SANE

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LUST FOR GIRLS COMES SUGAR COATED WITH LOVE

 

LUST FOR GIRLS COMES SUGAR COATED WITH LOVE

Our knees pried open, by cousins, uncles & men
Our bodies touched, by all the wrong people.

Even in a bed full of relationship safety
We are taken force ably against our will.

ECONOMIC CONDITIONS ARE PRIMARY INFLUENCES

 

The two main factors that help shape or destroy the girl child’s youth and future are the environment in which she is born and the economic conditions she grows up with. Her environment could be the strict religion dominated, very backward Stone Age ritualistic, closed society of the iron curtain, or the chance of a lifetime of free democratic society. Her economic condition has a major impact on her development and mental makeup. These too could be extreme poverty, bare minimum to survive, average middle class tight situation, or the lucky affluent category.

 

EXTREME POVERTY SITUATION

 

First, we will deal with the economic situation of our girl child. When she is poor, there is little food to go around, and her priority comes last. Mal nourished in body and poorly clothed body gives her an extremely low self-esteem for the rest of her life. This situation is further compounded by neglect and taken for granted attitude by the family members and elders. Schooling her is a costly affair by many standards. Money must be spent on her school supplies, uniforms, fees and transport. Next her value as a child labor at home for the daily chores will have to be substituted by someone else or hired outside labor. All these factors go against her just because she is a girl who will get married and leave the family as soon as she grows up. Additionally, money must be saved up for the dowry that must be given at the time of her marriage, because it is demanded as an ancient but defunct custom. 

OUTSIDER FROM DAY ONE

From the very first day our girl child is considered as temporary outsider and not a permanent member of the family unit. This forms the basis of differential treatment in the family by most of the family members and her siblings. The result is tragic and catastrophic for the future mother to be. Her own family abuses her to the very core of her being, which results in negative self-esteem. 

AN OBJECT OF PURE LUST

Now when she grows up into a beautiful but dumb valentine different class of problems takes root. Suddenly all the men and boys want to befriend her. She is in great demand, which is very confusing for her little underdeveloped mind. She is not fully developed yet and ready for any kind of relationship. But the family has their own unfounded fears about her future. She could be raped by a relative and get pregnant without a reason and then her future is finished. She could also be enticed by a young boy into a one-night affair and then too her life is finished. Most often people nearby in her proximity take undue advantage of her being a weak person because she is a woman / girl. They will molest her against her will & wishes openly and fiercely knowing well that she will not relate this dirty stuff to anyone else in her own interest to safeguard her position / virginity / reputation. Additionally, our woman isn't comfortable with accusing her harasser. Multiple reasons being, maybe he's very rich, or powerful, or scary, or she works with him, or she lives with him, or he's a relative, or he's a friend, or he's blackmailing her, or he's manipulative, or he's threatening. To avoid the above situations the family plans for her early marriage. Since she is illiterate, ignorant and unskilled no one wants her as a prospective wife.

 

FINAL DESTINATION - SEX SLAVE / BONDED LABOR

Soon the whole village is aware that this young woman is up for grabs. Now elderly unfit men who are fit to be her father, divorced, widowers, want her in marriage. They will marry her and fully abuse her for sex and domestic help. Many times, these men will use her for prostitution and as money making machine. Finally, our girl child has ended up in a life of a sex slave & bondage, the chief reason being poverty & economic sacristy. When the life of forced prostitution is unbearable for her, she ends her misery by committing suicide. End of her story. 

 

AFFLUENT SITUATION

 

Let us go through the very same process for our affluent girl child. It should be different. I doubt it. The parents give birth to a girl child in the best hospital in the state of California. She is the apple of their eye and the first born. A full-time live-in nanny is hired for our girl child. Food, clothes, toys and love are showered upon her 24/7. She is the fortunate one for now. A separate bedroom for her, a special private grammar school to study in, and a chauffeured driven car for her transport is provided. Her self-esteem is going up steadily and surely. She indulges in expensive hobbies and far off vacations every now and then. This brings her into direct contact with some of the best boys who are equally fortunate and affluent on this planet. 

AN EQUALLY VULNERABLE VALENTINE

One day she too grows up into a beautiful and confident valentine. For her the opportunities are endless, yet she too is as vulnerable as her poor counterpart. She could be abducted by notorious gangsters for a ransom or for prostitution. She can be enticed by a smart boy into falling in love with him. His love is true of false is unknown currently. This boy may want to groom her into a pornographic model.  


SHE HAS A MIND OF HER OWN - DREAMS RIPPED APART

Finally the parents may decide to marry her off in an arranged marriage to a boy of their choice. Since our girl child is smart, intelligent, and skillful, she asserts her own choice and succeeds in having her way. She wants to be an ice skater or a film star. Therefore, she gets admitted into an academy for training under expert coaches. The elderly coaches train her into the best skater or actress. But in the meantime, they have fallen for her charm and youthful beauty. Her hormones are at their peak, and she becomes helpless prey for them. She too wants to explore sex, but the result is not good. A spiked drink at one of the parties gets her pregnant. Her wonderful career is finished. But since she is affluent, she gets away by aborting the child and starting her life all over again. 

VULNERABLE AT EVERY STEP - ADVANTAGE TAKEN

This time to get her broken life back together she is advised to get counseling from the religious elders at the church or the temple. Since she is still a youth the idea of mentoring by priests is acceptable & in order. Here too she is now in the hands of sex starved priests and extremely vulnerable to be abused, groped, assaulted sexually under the pretext of emotional treatment or rehabilitation, by the socially respected high priests. 

A FINE BALANCE IS NEEDED

To conclude our girl child whether rich or poor is always vulnerable especially when she is in her pre-teens and teens. So be careful with your newly acquired freedom, innocent attitude, in the world of cunning cons, with ruthless intentions, and false appearances.  

 

 

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