WE CAN NOT FORCE A SAPLING TO GROW OUR WAY - children too

                              

   AS YOU SOW SO SHALL YOU REAP

This saying is very often quoted by most of us as a casual remark. The full depth of its meaning is being attempted now for your benefit.

THREE COMPONENTS OF YOU THE SOUL

You are the Chief Gardner as the Intellect functioning inside.

Everything depends upon the Timing & Availability of the Seeds/Sanskars sowed into the minds soil by the Intellectual Gardner.

The Quality & Quantity of the harvest in terms of Thoughts generated from the soil of your Mind inside is what you reap.

THE GATHERING OF THE SEEDS 

We will start with the seeds or Sanskars first because the final product / harvest depends upon them. Every child is born with a few pure Sanskars initially & then gradually as it grows up it acquires all the wrong impure Sanskars. These seeds are in large numbers compared to the few original ones. They additionally over power the pure seeds making them dormant & pushing them into oblivion. It amounts to you having gone on a series of YARDSALE shopping spree of antique Sanskars which other people do not want themselves & wish to off load them to any one.   

ORIGINAL SANSKARS / SEEDS

Peace Purity Power Knowledge Truth Love Bliss.

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows:

Appreciation  Affection  Care  Companionship  Cooperation  Inclusiveness  Equanimity  Acceptance  Cheerful  Humor  Smiles  Lightness  Joy  Sweetness  Courteous  Loyalty  Trustee  Guide  Clean  Simple  Transparent  Inspire  Synergy  Connect  Mindful  Tranquil  Serene  Solitude  Honest  Comfortable  Pleasant  Ecstasy  Grace  Wisdom  

ACQUIRED SANSKARS / SEEDS

Anger Impure Weak Ignorance Beliefs Lust Hate

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows :

Arrogance  Righteous  Passion  Ego  Judging  Deceit  Imposing  Trespasses  Violence  Doubt  Illusions  Dogmas  Alloyed  Powerless  Drained  Lonely  Depleted  Agitated  Greed  Adultery  

Desires  Attention  Wants   Sex   

 INTELLECT OF THE GARDENER

The second aspect of gardening is the mental health of the Gardener itself. The poor person could be stuck in the Devotional mode as a result the level & sharpness of Intellect is jeopardized to a large extent. This is an important point here. Just as the productivity of an Ax depends upon the maintenance of its sharpness the same parameter is valid for the Intellect too.

DIVINE INTELLECT  

Sharp  Open  Dense  Faith  Trust  Hope  Courage

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows:

Gratitude   Reverence   Benevolence   Influence   Radiance   Mercy  Humility    Tolerate    Magnetism    Surrender    Withdrawn    Churn 
Knowledge    Meditate    Discern     Decide     

DEVOTIONAL INTELLECT

Dull  Stone  Closed  Confused  Diffused  Blunt

Shades of these additionally manifest as follows:

Overthinking    Worry     Gossip     Inadequate    Unworthy    Fear    Skeptical    Unsure     Dependent     Egoist     Superiority  Complex     

SOIL OF THE MIND

The third aspect is the almighty Mind. This corresponds to the soil where the seeds are sown to germinate & grow when watered & nurtured with nutrients. How the Gardener handles the process of cultivation largely depends upon the quality of the Intellect. The final output has basically two out comes.

HARVEST OF POSITIVITY

Flood of Positive thoughts will flow when the original pure seeds are sown & cultivated by the courageous Intellectual gardener. The controlled output will be :

Awake  Attentive  Alert  Assertive  Balance  Contentment  Harmony  Demeanor  Stability  Abundance  Good wishes  Celibacy   Austerity  Innocence  Forgiveness  Altruistic  Introversion  Discipline  Self Sovereignty   Charity    

HARVEST OF NEGATIVITY

Forest of Negative thoughts will grow when the impure seeds are of acquired kind, coupled with the cultivation by the  lazy intellectual gardener. The uncontrolled output will be  as follows :

  

Attachment  Ownership  Resistance  Controlling  Desires  Addictions  Indulgence  Noise  Asleep  lazy  Guilt  Slave  Victim  Indolence  Defeated  Bitterness  Resentment  Despair  Jealousy  Disconnected   Exclusiveness   Unworthy   

BACK TO SQUARE ONE

When the thought, intention, feeling or emotion has arisen inside it is deemed as a subtle action for sure. The next stage is the actual action. The emotion translates into action, which is your karma. Again the seed has been consolidated, confirmed, reaffirmed for smoother action in the future time.  It is a perpetual loop. It is time to stop the loop now, dead in its tracks, for a beautiful trouble free future time to come. 



NICE & SLOW

Sip your coffee, nice and slow,

No one ever knows when it’s time to go,

There’ll be no time to enjoy the glow,

So sip your coffee nice and slow. 

Life is too short but feels pretty long,

There’s too much to do, so much going wrong,

And most of the time you struggle to be strong,

Before it’s too late and it’s time to go,

Sip your coffee nice and slow. 

Some friends stay, others go away,

Loved ones are cherished, but not all will stay ,

Kids will grow up and fly away,

There’s really no saying how things will go,

So sip your coffee nice and slow. 

Before you know it seasons have changed,

Those precious little moments are part of yesterday,

Most things have turned out relatively okay,

And you finally reap what you have sown,

So sip your coffee nice and slow. 

In the end it’s really all about love,

For this world and it’s beauty and the stars above,

For His grace in your life , for each present moment,

Smile and breathe and let your worries go,

Just sip your coffee nice and slow.....

Rohit Khanna - IN-BOUND & IN-VALID    

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MISTAKEN IDENTITY COVERING TRUE IDENTITY - prognosis

MISTAKEN IDENTITY  VS TRUE IDENTITY

SERIES OF INCARNATIONS 

I take birth as a tiny baby according to some Divine scale of luck. Latter on through death, tragedy, or accident I leave this body & switch to another newer tiny body. Just as I the Soul am the driver of this vehicle, & on collision, I exit from this one to switch to another newer vehicle.

NO TRAFFIC CONTROL AT THOUGHT PORT

On the path of growing up we are abandoned & left in the hands of novices, untrained, ignorant bunch of humans. There are no schools to teach us HOW TO THINK ! THE LANGUAGE OF SILENCE ! HOW TO SLOW DOWN & SHUT OFF THE MIND ! Now we end up learning all the wrong lessons in our home grown back yard class room. This local domestic education prepares us for over thinking, obsessive thinking, wasteful & toxic thinking. We generate thoughts in very large volumes, in waves after waves, which have deep impact on the object of the thought. The mind becomes the DOMESTIC THOUGHT PORT, where thoughts, feelings, memories, sensations, inspirations, intentions land & then take off without any schedule. In the absence of a central controller / administrator such chaotic explosive situations are bound to happen. The net result is chain of never ending accidents, crashes, conflicts & troubles. Thoughts by themselves have no substance, it is I who give life, energy & power to them.  

CONSEQUENCES OF POOR THOUGHT MANAGEMENT

The above predicament has taken the Soul away from the Original true Identity of Peace, Joy, Happiness.  I was a spiritual being having an human experience. The unlimited sea outlook has been replaced with limited well outlook. The self understanding, self empowerment, awareness & practice of the inner self has vanished into thin air. Moods have become the tides of the dulled intellect. I am  a rudderless boat drifting in a sea of doubts far from safe anchorage. In short you have acquired a mistaken Identity needing a fix up. I the Ego is quite ugly. It is full of self importance, mushrooming into arrogance & further crystallizing as Pride. I am  carrying the wrong perception that I am a physical set of coordinates in body conscious orientation of sexual lust as the foremost desire culminating into compulsive & compelling  demands.

BECOME YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND & KNOW HIM

What is the way out of this mess. Meditation is the only answer for this malady. Start with inner conversation with myself. Become your own best friend. Deep Inside is very calm & extremely powerful. Raja Yoga is about constantly creating right & positive thoughts that keeps you both relaxed & alert in a state of peaceful readiness. The inner thermostat has become dysfunctional & needs intensive repairs / overhauling. Start with Introspection as a detached observer. Move on to Contemplation of the original state of the soul. Take the next step into deep Concentration on one single idea. Finally become an embodiment of experience of all of the above. THE ESSENCE IS SOUL CONSCIOUSNESS. Consider yourself as a soul & see others as souls too. Now  remain in a balanced state of SELF RESPECT as opposed to unwanted attitudes of Superiority or Inferiority.   

ILLUSIONS                                                           REALITIES

Attachment                                         Appreciation
Dependencies                                      Love & caring
Greed                                                 Generosity
Arrogance                                           Authenticity
Masks                                                 Sincere
Persona                                              Genuine 
Personality                                          Self Respect
Lust                                                    True Love
Fear, Worry, threats                              Love 
Laziness, Undisciplined                         Action
Lasting negativity                                Change, Transform 

Walk not on hot coals, but on fire of negativity of self & others, without getting burnt.

Rohit Khanna - IN-COMPATIBLE & IN-FINITE

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LOVE IS JUST A CATALYST IN OUR LIVES

  

THE PLIGHT OF OUR WOMEN MIRRORS MANS OWN DESTINY

SHE IS ONLY A CATALYST

She was a MALE in the previous birth & now a poverty stricken FEMALE body, open to all kinds of abuses by MEN who were WOMEN in their last births. - KARMA RETURNS AS LUST

LOVE IS THE NATURAL STATE OF EVERY SOUL

just give unconditionally & when you don’t then…. 

Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.  The woman that told him ‘I do’, and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up. If your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.

No love for work/job/making love,  then        FATIGUE

NEVER STOP COURTING.  Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for GRANTED. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man, that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

If craving for more love in present then        ADDICTION 

FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

If negating love to self then     ALLERGY

PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

If Closed & rigid to love    then     ARTHRITIS  

FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

When not open to love & bitter then      DIABETES

BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

When In confusion & restless in present then    INDIGESTION

ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

When Controlling others in present then        INSANITY

IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

When attached to love in present, its mine then   BLINDNESS

NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

If Unable to give love & allow the flow then    ASTHMA

GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

When In Denial about love then     CRIPPLED

ALLOW YOUR WOMAN TO JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and non-judging, she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

If Afraid to lose love in future then       PARALYSIS

BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

If Already lost love in past then,  Sorrow &  HEARTACHE 

NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards. In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

If seeking love in present then     INCONTENANCE (lustful) 

ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

These are lessons learnt the hard way & too late.

 Rohit Khanna - IN-COGNITO  begets IN-HERITANCE 

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RELATING YOUR LIFE TO CLASSICS OF ALL TIMES - mid course correction possibility

SUMMARIZING  & RELATING  YOUR LIFE SO FAR. 

This is a comic attempt to help you re-evaluate your life once again, call it MID-COURSE CORRECTION POSSIBILITY.

Please check mark ONE of the flowing CLASSIC BOOK titles which you think fits your life situations, circumstances, choices, compromises, opportunities, & memorable events elapsed so far .

1 WAR & (little) PEACE - beliefs & struggles, inner conflicts

2 CRIME & PUNISHMENT - commit wrong doings & repentance

3 PRIDE & PREJUDICE - Domestic angles of all kinds

4 VANITY FAIR - faking love for lust & riches

5 LES MISERABLE S - transformation from bad to good

6 IF TOMORROW COMES - unforgiving & revengeful 

7 TO KILL A MOCKING BIRD - growing up as a child, carefree

8 GREAT EXPECTATIONS - ending in misery of course

9 ATLAS SHRUGGED - mind is the root of all: Values or Vices

10 IN SEARCH OF LOST TIME - Remembering things of ancient past, like truth, eternal bliss through original seeds of Purity.

There are no right or wrong choices.

Personally for me it is #10 choice, the BK route.

THE MINDFUL ART OF IN-LOOKING TO BE MASTERS OF OUR MISCHIEVOUS MINDS

l The whole creation has reached its IN-EVITABLE peak of decay & degradation, at the end of this cycle.

l Therefore instead of scrapping it, the IN-CREDIBLE Creator enters in the middle of the mess to salvage us out, redeem us & to restart IN-TERNALLY the IN-EXORABLE process of establishing a PURE new world, once again.

l In   this   Confluence Age, over lapping the Iron age, the IN-COGNITO Creator gives us his IN-TRODUCTION, which makes us knowledgeable about the eternal IN-DWELLER within us. 

l HE teaches us that human beings are created in HIS image, eternal point of Supreme light totally unlimited & IN-FINITE in all aspects.  Thus we once again IN-VENT ourselves   as very IN-VALUABLE beings of light too. 

l HE patiently coaches us to give up this IN-ESCAPABLE, dirty old IN-SIPID world of EGO  & LUST, voluntarily, including this worn out body.

l This is HIS    IN-JECTION  for us the impure souls to jump start the IN-CREDIBLE process of Purification. 

l We start the IN-LOOKING process & IN-VEST ourselves to become masters of ourselves, always IN-CHARGE as elevated beings. 

l This kind of continuous Pure            IN-LIVING makes us IN-VINCIBLE in the sorrowful & miserable world of  Maya & Illusions.

l The nett result is liberation IN-LIFE, this very life accompanied by boundless Peace, Joy & Bliss.

l The bonus comes in the form of IN-HERITANCE of the Kingdom of Golden Age. 

l Before this Truth was revealed to us we were IN-COMPATIBLE & totally Insane humans, but now after this IN-SIGHT we have been transformed into IN-SANE beings. 

l This is the IN-THING about Applied Spirituality when it is IN-CORPORATED into our daily routines. 

l The process is tough & requires guts of steel, faith of Hercules & enthusiasm of Buddha.

l The name of the game is IN-TROVERSION, which makes the effort applied in IN-VERSE proportions to make  an easy yogi out of you.

l If sufficiently Gullible then you are fortunate to develop Faith in the Invisible being & start the win-win, game of Trust for the rest of your life.   

Rohit Khanna - IN-FINITE & IN-VERSE.

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