HOW INTANGIBLE BELIEFS LEAD TO DEADLY TANGIBLE DISEASES - easily understood

FROM FATAL INTANGIBLE BELIEFS TO DEADLY TANGIBLE DISEASES.

Change the bone of contention, instead of aggravating / suppressing the diseases.

HOW WE IMPORT, BRING FORWARD, & ACQUIRE SEEDS

Every one of us as eternal souls, carry forward a mixed bag of seeds / Sanskars from our past births into next / this present birth. These remain dormant for a long time till we become adults.  

We souls additionally start with PURE ORIGINAL seeds of Power, Peace, Purity, Love, Bliss, Innate knowledge, & Truth. These are our active ones till we become adults.

As we grow up in the company of our parents we automatically & unconsciously internalize their behavior patterns / seeds. The hereditary transfer of their fatal beliefs takes place now, even before we start crawling.

Later on we pick up the environmental Dogmas from schools, colleges, neighbors & relatives. These recently acquired seeds become the most active seeds & we reap abundant but poor harvests of thoughts, feelings & emotions.

Mid - course correction is possible here at this stage before major damage occurs. This can only happen if we are educated in this area / field of mind. Thought production process & generation of waste thoughts must be taught as a compulsory subject right from play school up to tenth standard. The main idea is to replace the worthless seeds with good quality new seeds by SELF PLANTING THEM THROUGH AUTO SUGGESTION now that we are adults & wish to right the wrong.

HOW THE INTELLECT AS GARDENER CULTIVATES THE MIND AS SOIL.

The gardener is helpless when it comes to the question of the quality of seeds made available to him. With your razor-sharp Intellect & total awareness / alertness you can make conscious choices to water the good original seeds & leave out the worthless acquired seeds. Most of the time we supply the Intellect with useless seeds & in turn reap bountiful harvest of thoughts which have no value at all.  

We develop shallow judgments giving rise to bad habits, which trigger uncontrolled random TRESPASSES OF INTENTIONS for others body. Such subtle momentary desires of possession & pleasure occur at high speed one after the other. They are termed as waste & toxic thoughts. They drain your valuable energy & are a major cause of tiresome days coupled with sleepless nights - go figure.

The above mountain of THOUGHTS gradually snowballs into corresponding FEELINGS, the second stage of the mental process. It is for sure that toxic thoughts will develop into negative feelings. The total package is termed as NEGATIVITY.

Over time this negativity is experienced as UNMAN-AGED EMOTIONS. Here you have a choice to pause, stop, make mid-course correction & switch to positive emotions which are manageable & useful. But such change never happens, because it is difficult to DAM the powerful flow of the river of emotions, at this stage. The only workable solution is to stem the production of such storm water, over flooding rivers.

HOW THE PHENOMENON OF MENTAL-ISM WORKS  

Mental-ism is the output, as impulses of energy, of the mind in action. These microwaves of invisible emotions induce physical chemical fountains in the helpless body.

We harbor about 300 varying shades of emotions on an average. These internal mental vibrations become the constant background noise in our lives, to which become accustomed to over time. Just like the people who become accustomed to rushing train vibrations / ear splitting aeroplane flying noises who happen to live near the train stations or the airports. These vibrations / noises are external while the mental vibrations / microwaves are internal, your own creation.

The above powerful & UN-necessary microwaves result in dislocating the important Chakras from their positions.  Chakras are high speed spinning tops, which draw in the life force energies from the environment & facilitate its entry into our fragile bodies. In the absence or slight depletion of the life force we would not last very long on this planet. Every human body has seven main chakras & twenty-two secondary ones located on different parts of the body.

The malfunctioning of the above Chakras in turn bring about major distortions in the corresponding Auras. The seven Chakras are intimately related to their corresponding seven Auras enveloping the body. The Auras are invisible layers over our skin each one about six inches in depth going outwards into the space.

This distortion in the Auras leads to imbalance of the vital life force energy supporting the proper functioning of the body.       

It is this energy that all REIKI practitioners / healers manipulate & try to set it right, by laying on of hands.

The domino effect continues & causes the HEALTH RAYS to droop down, which were supposed to be up & horizontal to the ground in a perfect healthy state. These subtle & invisible health rays extend up three feet on every side over & beyond the Auras. This vast area is termed as the CASUAL BODY. It is exactly here that the chief cause of the disease manifests. These invisible microwaves of emotions located in the invisible casual body COOK UP the corresponding organ in the physical body.

HOW INVISIBLE VIBRATIONS GENERATE CHEMICALS PHYSICALLY BY INDUCTION

The long-lasting negative emotions help amplify the vibrations / microwaves which germinates COGNITIVE DISSONANCE in the physical body. This subtle potent stimulation TRIGGERS THE THREE BRAINS to secrete primary Hormones in quantities which are OPTIMAL OR EXCESSIVE. The three brains which get influenced are Amygdala, Medulla, & Thalamus.

Next, the hot excited brains in turn STIMULATE our HORMONAL GLANDS to produce Mesmerizing HORMONES which make you lose control of your sense’s majority of the waking hours. Hormones are CHEMICAL MESSENGERS to convey subtle messages to remote parts of the body via the medium of Blood. They in turn STIMULATE the TARGET glands to alter/change the level of hormones it is already releasing.

The domino effect continues to crash head on. The target glands will release into the blood stream, either in RIGHT QUANTITIES which behave as normal HORMONES to perform their function accurately & correctly, or in WRONG / HIGH QUANTITIES which behave as STEROIDS to outperform their function causing havoc.

The havoc created by the over production of hormones as steroids is supplied simultaneously & globally to all parts of the body through the circulating blood. The crisis manifests as Cramping of the muscles, Crimping of the nerves & Constricting of the blood vessels / arteries. All three can happen simultaneously, individually or any other combination.

HOW A BROAD BAND OF CAUSES ARE CLUBBED INTO ONE VAGUE CAUSE

The above CRISIS has been labeled by our learned medical doctors as HYPERTENSION. In a lay man’s jargon, it boils down to excessive tension, which is unwarranted / undesirable & not a normal state of the mind-body system. It has also been categorized as STRESS. All of the above invisible activities are beyond the realm of the medical doctors, who are trained to treat just the physical symptoms / effects & not the cause of the malady / illness.

This persistent hypertension / stress culminates into PAIN.

Pain is a signal for remedial action. But invariably it is ignored or overlooked for a long time till the mild pain becomes acute, resulting in major damage. Pain in different areas of the body is labeled as follows by our esteemed doctors.

Pain in the head is termed as Migraine

Pain in the neck is called Spondylitis
Pain in the chest is labeled as Asthmatic
Pain in the heart is named as Anginal
Pain in the abdomen is phrased as Dyspepsia
Pain in the intestines is dubbed as Colic
Pain in the joints is titled as Arthritis

You have two options / routes when the first sign of PAIN occurs. The natural way or the normal way.            

First, we will explore the normal medicinal route, of treating the chemically caused pain with more fierce toxic chemicals.   

Every known medicine has five side effects. If your doctor prescribes three medicines to start with, then by day one, you will be displaying 15 side effects plus 1 original effect, 16 symptoms in all. Next time you visit your doctor he is totally confused as to which effect is the main one - go figure it for yourself.

The chemical medicines boomerang back as major hindrance / deterrent to your becoming normal / returning to good health ever. These powerful medicines drain you of all the vital water in the body which culminates into DEHYDRATION, the mother of all diseases. The human body is made up of 70 % water. Even the slightest fluctuation on the lower side gets one in DEHYDRATION MODE. Prolonged dehydration results in major diseases & finally death, end of your story.       

Now let us explore the second alternative natural route to regaining back the lost health. This route is labeled as ICU route. Intensive Care Unit is the ultimate place for the critically ill patients. Here behind closed doors the learned doctors follow the natural path but charge you UN-naturally very high price for basic treatments.

To combat severe dehydration, they start with IV drip of Saline Water directly into the blood stream. The over loaded heart pump gets respite when the thick blood becomes dilute & free flowing. Next they cover your nose with a mask to pump in 100% pure oxygen. Most of us are habitually MOUTH, INDOOR & SHALLOW BREATHERS. We breathe like misers even though the air is free of charge. The toxic impure blood gets oxygenated now & charged up to make new cells in our sick dying body. Finally, they give us an injection to put the agitated body to sleep. They have put our MAIN SWITCH IN OFF MODE. They have ignorantly shut down all the microwaves of our emotions which was the bone of contention, THE CAUSE.

Having removed the main cause, supplemented the hydration & oxygenation in the blood, the BODY HEALS ITSELF automatically, while the doctors take the credit for it. The moral of the story is to live in your natural ICU by drinking lots of water, deep breathing fully 24/7, & voluntarily putting the main switch in OFF mode through meditation, or else you will end up in a hospital ICU.

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DROWNING OR SWIMMING IN THE QUAGMIRE OF KARMA - simplified for you

SWIMMING EFFORTLESSLY IN KARMA - SIMPLIFIED FOR YOU

LAWS OF KARMA

It is the consciousness with which we perform action that is important. 


BODY CONSCIOUSNESS  - NORMAL

While you may have associated yourself completely with your physical body, you may not have realized that every action had such a deep impact on you. Now, with the recognition of the self as a soul, you should become aware that every single action leaves an imprint, a record, which you carry with yourself eternally. Up until now, we human beings have found it very difficult to classify exactly what is right  and what is wrong? Not while you are limited by this physical costume. The religion into which you were born, as well as the limitations of gender, of age, and of culture, will all color your ideas, thoughts, and judgments. In body-consciousness there is not the pure intention behind action. Our actions are performed with selfish ulterior motives, such as greed, ego, and possessiveness, and are therefore non-beneficial actions which give sorrow and bring negative results. 


SOUL CONSCIOUSNESS - NATURAL

By maintaining the consciousness of your true identity - a peaceful soul - you will be able to accurately understand what is right and wrong. This is simply because, in soul-consciousness, the soul can only experience peace, happiness and love. So, it can only perform actions based on these qualities. These actions will be beneficial actions, bringing happiness and positive results. 


THE LAW OF KARMA

The law of karma, of action and reaction, is applicable to the spiritual sphere and is absolute. It states: ‘For every action there will be an equal and opposite reaction.’ Opposite, of course, means opposite in direction. Whatever interactions you have with others, you receive the equivalent in return. This means that, if you have given happiness, you will receive happiness in return, and if you have given sorrow, you will receive sorrow in return. 
How this is carried out in real life is pretty easy to elucidate. The past life TROUBLED SOUL purposefully takes birth as a close relative, brother, sister, son daughter,  first love, into your life, to take revenge / pay back / settle account. You automatically develop deep love for this innocent soul in disguise because of the intimate relationship & interactions. At the prime time say after 4 to 5 years this soul suddenly departs from your life / world, leaving you totally helpless & in extreme grief. This is the souls way of paying back by leaving you in sorrow for the rest of your life.  The law is simple, and when understood in its full depth, it can give insight into the significance of events in your own world and in the world at large. 

AS YOU SOW SO SHALL YOU REAP

In Christianity this law has been understood by the saying, ‘As you sow, so shall you reap.’ It is also known as the law of cause and effect. Understanding this, when you see certain effects, you come to realize that the corresponding causes had been missing. However, more important, the other side of the law of karma teaches that, if you now perform pure, beneficial actions, you can create your own positive future in the direction of your choice. 

OVER SIMPLIFIED JUST FOR YOU

In the past life you & your partner were of the opposite genders & you both SCREWED each other pretty badly. Now both of you have come together, in this life, bound by this divine law & definitely not your own choosing, to perform THE REVERSE SCREWING. Get this accurately into your Intellect & cancel your karmic debts  with understanding, joyfully & peacefully. 

THE PREDICAMENT OF THE CANADIAN NURSE

I was admitted into the QE2 hospital for a minor surgery. During my short stay the nurse became friendly & wanted me to explain to her the spell of karma in her troublesome life as a nurse. Most of her patients were 90 plus years old, in the grip of Alzheimer, arrogant & abusive to her. One hypothetical example changed her attitude & life. In your last birth, dear nurse, you were a male police officer in France. You were in-charge of water cannons & ordered to disperse the unruly violent crowd on the streets. So you did by firing the water cannons on this crowd, & hundreds of these souls got upset with your action. Now in this life you are a female nurse & all these souls are gradually coming back to trouble you to cancel their karmic debts individually for the next 20 years. Now she is happy all the time & oblivious to these patients. So can you too.  SLAVE TO  OR MASTER OF DESTINY

Not only are you not a slave to destiny, but the understanding of karma philosophy makes you the creator, or master of your own destiny. You may even be able to inspire others to create a positive destiny for themselves through the example of your own beneficial actions. Any negativity of the past has led you into karmic debts with those around you. Where you have in the past given sorrow, you must now repay that debt by giving happiness. You have to settle your past karmic accounts, whether you like it or not. 


MEDITATION CAN HELP MAINTAIN THE CHANGE

However, just because you change your attitude doesn’t necessarily mean others will change theirs. If you have courage and continue to give good wishes and perform pure actions in relation to other souls, gradually the karmic debts with others toward whom you have acted negatively will be repaid. Then you can be free from the bondage of karma. The power to sustain this effort of settling past karma can come through meditation or yoga. 

STOP THE PROCESS OF FURTHER CREATION OF KARMA

As you come to understand your own true nature more fully, you can understand that this is the true nature of everyone. You can see through the mask of negativity and relate to the soul directly. This will help you not to create further negative karma; you will not react badly to the negativity of others. 


THE METHODOLOGY OF HOW TO DO IT

I the soul have been performing karma through this physical costume of mine.
I carry the imprints of this karma, good and bad. 
I have been seeing the results of my karma externally, in the world around me. I come to the awareness of my eternal state  
A state in which I have no karmic bondage. 
This is the state I want to attain once more, the state of freedom. 
The state of having settled all my karmic debts, and of having created for myself a stock of good karma. 
In this awareness of I, the eternal being.I look back at the past and see the entangled threads of karma. 
Where did a connection begin? Where did it finish? The threads are so intertwined, it’s difficult to differentiate. 
The web of karma has been one in which there has been a lot of pain ... a few flashes of light, of hope, of joy ... but the negativity of my karma created situations in which there was much suffering. 


NOW LEARN TO LET GO WITH CREATORS HELP

Now, at this moment, in the presence of the Divine, I let go of my karma of the past. 
With God’s love, I surrender my past karma to God. 
I take light and might from the Supreme so that my karma today will create a future filled with light. 
God’s light shows me the path of righteous karma.
God’s might, God’s power gives me the courage to reject negative karma and even mundane karma.
I simply do that which is elevated and noble, so that my present is filled with light and might and a future of happiness and love is assured. 


THE BENEFITS OF TRANSFORMING

With soul-consciousness you will naturally give love and respect to others, and you will, in time, receive love and respect in return. Every action performed in soul-consciousness is an action through which you receive benefit, and thus it will benefit others. 


THOUGHTS - SEEDS OF ACTION

Karma begins in the mind as thoughts, the seeds of action. As is the thought, so is the result. Thoughts, like actions, spread vibrations and influence the surrounding atmosphere. Karmic-ally  there will be a return of those vibrations. Pure, peaceful, happy thoughts are the most valuable treasures in life. If you keep such beneficial thoughts in your consciousness wherever you go, you will create a pure atmosphere of peace and happiness from which others will greatly benefit. 

UNDERSTANDING ALERTNESS CONTROL CAREFUL 

Understanding the consequences of actions means you take care to do everything properly. Having little control over your actions is a sure sign that you have little control over your mind. if you slow down, you give yourself more time to do things properly. If something is done well, most likely it will not cause problems in the future. Jobs done in a rush often contain mistakes that have to be put right later, thereby causing more work. A good job done well leaves you with a peaceful mind. A careless piece of work pulls your attention back to itself again and again. If you concentrate completely on what you are doing in the present, this allows you to be in full control of both mind and body. You keep performing actions in soul-consciousness so that, no matter how much you have to do physically, you can remain light and peaceful. 




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              FUNDAMENTAL QUESTIONS :

Who are we.

Where we come from.

       Where are we going.

             Understand that you are a giant ball of energy, consisting of Auras, Health rays, Emotions & Chakras. A very small core of solid body levitates in the center of this ball of energy. This physical looking body manifested through the invisible energies acting as microwaves. Inside this body sits the tiniest microchip, the soul, the owner of the Total Combo, making all the magic happen. 

               @ A toddler child is barely aware of its BODY, hence a bodiless PURE SOUL going about expressing itself lovingly to all.

BASIC COMPONENTS OF A SOUL

A soul is made of three entities, the INTELLECT, which discerns & decides, the MIND which processes thoughts & feelings, and finally the SANSKARS / SEEDS which are the source of all thoughts. For better understanding we will adopt the Gardener & gardening analogy. Every soul has seven pure seeds to begin with. They are : Power, Purity, Peace, Love, Bliss, Knowledge, Truth. As a child we operate through these seeds which helps us to enjoy life without any inhibitions and love all equally.

YARD SALE SEED COLLECTION - we cherish the stuff that others don’t want.

Over time we acquire exactly the opposite kind of seeds from our parents, teachers, relatives, friends, & society. Then we acquire next stage of harmful seeds of Vices like Anger, Lust, Greed, jealousy, Ego. Mind is like the fertile soil where seeds grow & flower up. It has no mind of its own & does not act on its own ever. Intellect is the chief Gardner who discerns & decides, what crop to grow and what not to, when to harvest & how much to water the plants. How ever he too has limitations because if all he has in stock is bad, rotten seeds to work with, then it is not in his hands to do otherwise. The limited edition of original seeds are locked up in the warehouse & the poor Gardner is given all the dirty rotten acquired seeds picked up freely & cheaply from the environment, to work with. Naturally your are going to reap bountiful harvests of the crops you don’t want. You can not sell / barter them for other ones, because no one wants your rotten crops grown from borrowed seeds.   

AS YOU SOW SO SHALL YOU REAP 

The meaning of this childhood saying is clearly understood in this context. But now it is too late. The body is fragile & the mind has slowed down with Alzheimer. The awareness of this valuable knowledge is enough to start the process of purification & elevation which are the basic pillars of Self - Realization.   

INTELLECT (buddhi)- THE SUPERVISOR, DECISION MAKER & QUALITY CONTROL MANAGER

This faculty of the soul can make or break you. Dull or stone intellect coupled with unawareness is the core of a loser, a victim, a failure. On the other hand Sharp or Divine intellect coupled with total awareness becomes the core of winner, happy soul, successful body. It helps you to discern, discriminate, & decide what actions to materialize, which further reinforce the seeds, that started the process in the first place. Repeated actions keeps the seeds active & easily accessible. There are numerous obstacles on the path of progress of Intellect & spiritual advancement such as : physical illness, mental problems, doubts, indecision, laziness, unman-aged desires, lust, inaccurate assumptions/thinking, lethargy, no effort, fickle. 

INTELLECT AS DETACHED OBSERVER/INDUSTRIAL ENGINEER

Human being is a citizen of two worlds : Outside & Inside. As an outsider he suffers, incurs stress on this account & loses all, while the Insiders align with the Cosmic forces & remain Blissful. Pleasantness is within you the soul. We consciously choose to diffuse this valuable perfume of pleasantness around us to others. However the mind can be purified by cultivating friendliness towards the unpleasant, compassion towards sufferers, goodwill towards virtuous & indifference towards wicked/evil.  The methodology adopted to achieve this purity is to invite all dormant seeds to dislodge from the river bed & float up to the surface to be washed away into oblivion.  The intellect must exercise its choice to understand the Primitive Fountain & subsequently prioritize, regulate & rearrange the four needs for zero stress which will result in Bliss. The final destination of the soul is the state of being UNDISTURBED, UNINVOLVED, UNAFFECTED.  

PURPOSE OF THE SOUL - PROGRESSION OF CONSCIOUSNESS

The sole purpose of the soul is to elevate itself during it’s short stay in this human body. It is possible to move from the lower Chakras to higher energy centers & finally to the Crown Charkra. The seven Chakras are intimately related to the seven Auras in our Invisible bodies.

  

HOW THE IN-DWELLER OPERATES THROUGH THE COSTUME 

COGNITIVE & ACTIVE SENSES

There are five entrance doors through which Information is imported inside the costume. These doors are your five sense organs : taste, touch, smell, hear, & sight. There are additionally five exit doors through which the costume expels outwards. These are : procreation, elimination, grasping, speech & moving.  Then there is a master, the In-dweller who operates these doors. Who I really AM is independent of my actions & senses. Senses are not reliable for experiencing Absolute Truth, Reality or the Self the Soul. Like the bees follow the Queen Bee, so will the senses follow the Mind. With-drawl of the senses is like taking your hand out of a glove. The hands have the ability to let go of the glove. 

RELATIONSHIPS - SENSE OF UNION to experience part of the other into your life.

Divine cannot be experienced by the 5 senses/organs. Spiritual science is Yoga. Life explodes, because you are full of yourself. It is not about Shiva but you. Soul consciousness is about emptiness. Deities have divine virtues, so renounce  all senses & attachments. Churning the ocean of knowledge produces Nectar which is bound to surface as cheerful faces. 

THE FIRE OF YOGA

The closeness of two beings and their interplay by choice & concerted effort causes friction, heat, pleasure & pleasantness. A being has multiple bodies : physical, seven auras, health rays, Ionized seal.

When the closeness is PHYSICAL it is SEXUAL.

When the closeness is EMOTIONAL it is LOVE.

When the closeness is SPIRITUAL it is YOGA.  

Yoga is the vehicle which can bring God to you, or take you to God. It is a bridge between mortals & the Immortal. Yoga makes you loose your mind in a positive way. It is the cessation of modifications arising in the Chitta. Yoga helps in neutralizing ones Vortices of feelings, whirlpools of desires & attachments into a calm ocean of thought patterns, which is a prerequisite to perceive God. 

Dying Alive is another marvelous methodology to kill the artificial You, Me & Mine. It finishes off my ideas, my fashion sense, my hair style, my clothes & my body, leaving you with just your Soul. Yoga is Nirodhah which encompasses the following : Regulation, Channeling, Mastery, Integration, Coordination, Stilling, Quieting, Setting aside of modifications of mind field. It is the progress of Intellect into consciousness looking for the expression of the Source into ones actions & attitude. It is a deep concern for a fresh complete life by self. Yoga helps you in Total Transformation where there is no trace of past, fully new & Pure. On the other hand Change is incremental often leaves a residue of the past, hence you remain as impure.

SAT CHIT ANANDA = REALIZATION OF TRUE SELF IS BLISS 

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LOVE IS JUST A CATALYST IN OUR LIVES

  

THE PLIGHT OF OUR WOMEN MIRRORS MANS OWN DESTINY

SHE IS ONLY A CATALYST

She was a MALE in the previous birth & now a poverty stricken FEMALE body, open to all kinds of abuses by MEN who were WOMEN in their last births. - KARMA RETURNS AS LUST

LOVE IS THE NATURAL STATE OF EVERY SOUL

just give unconditionally & when you don’t then…. 

Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.  The woman that told him ‘I do’, and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up. If your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.

No love for work/job/making love,  then        FATIGUE

NEVER STOP COURTING.  Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for GRANTED. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man, that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

If craving for more love in present then        ADDICTION 

FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

If negating love to self then     ALLERGY

PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

If Closed & rigid to love    then     ARTHRITIS  

FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

When not open to love & bitter then      DIABETES

BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

When In confusion & restless in present then    INDIGESTION

ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

When Controlling others in present then        INSANITY

IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

When attached to love in present, its mine then   BLINDNESS

NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

If Unable to give love & allow the flow then    ASTHMA

GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

When In Denial about love then     CRIPPLED

ALLOW YOUR WOMAN TO JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and non-judging, she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

If Afraid to lose love in future then       PARALYSIS

BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

If Already lost love in past then,  Sorrow &  HEARTACHE 

NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards. In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

If seeking love in present then     INCONTENANCE (lustful) 

ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

These are lessons learnt the hard way & too late.

 Rohit Khanna - IN-COGNITO  begets IN-HERITANCE 

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