STRESS IS IN-VISIBLE RESISTANCE CAUSING MENTAL TUG OF WARS

STRESS IS IN-VISIBLE RESISTANCE CAUSING MENTAL TUG OF WAR.

If you make an effort to see IN-SIDE you are bound to get to the bottom of it.

TO BE OR NOT TO BE,          
TO DO OR NOT TO DO,                               
TO INDULGE OR NOT TO INDULGE.

SPIRITUAL NETT WORTH : Currency - Peace, sound sleep, piece of mind.

You seem to be winning by loosing internal battles in absolute ignorance. This life was given to us with the sole purpose of making it worthwhile. The fundamental question is What is your Spiritual Nett Worth. This income earned in this valuable life is easily carried forward to next Cycle of births.

HOW YOU DEALT A LOSING HAND TO YOURSELF

On one side, you have extreme Body Consciousness coupled with weak will power. On top of this you are totally unaware of your environment resulting in a careless attitude towards life. Additionally your level of ignorance is boundless leading to utter Indolence & lethargy. To add fuel to the fire, you brought forward some really negative Sanskars/seeds. Latter on you acquired a host of pretty nasty Sanskars while growing up. Then you developed die hard habits & auto reflexes to continue on the path of blind faith. Wrong beliefs, desires, & greed catapulted you into a spiral of unman-aged emotions. Ego & anger always had the upper hand in your case.

A PEEK AT THE WINNING HAND

On the other side you have the fortune of Soul Consciousness coupled with strong will power. On top of this you are fully aware of your environment resulting in utmost attentiveness & alertness to perform every action in a premeditated manner. Additionally you are very knowledgeable & enthusiastic to act upon new ideas. You have succeeded in emerging your original Sanskars having grown up in a spiritual & disciplined environment. This helped you to instill positive habits inside you on the path of Truth. All your actions & karmas were well thought out giving you a bouquet of managed emotions only. Contentment, Humility & Peace played a preferred role in this case.

TUG OF WAR
 
In the middle you have the TUG OF WAR from one extreme to the other extreme, till weak side gives in or the strong side wins over. In the beginning of the dilemma the heart sensory organ functions to persuade  and then towards the end the brain sensory organ takes over.

PEACE : It is a state of tranquility, calm, quiet environment, which follows after CONFLICT RESOLUTION happens. Therefore understanding Conflict & its resolution becomes paramount. Personal Peace is a state of BEING QUIET / Still inside & outside. When every one around us, attains this state, then Harmony prevails & that land is called PARADISE. Here the Question of Conflict does not arise, ever. Remember, Arms are for HUGGING & not for Hitting, Shoving, Pushing, Bullying, Hurting or Over Powering.    

CONFLICT - Internal : Differing perspectives about the REAL you/self & the PROJECTED EGO of you/self. The Real you is hidden, natural, pure, peaceful & easy going. On the other hand the Projected Ego of self by the self is exposed, totally false, tainted, agitated & critical of everything & everybody. The Real you is Original, Eternal, & untainted. By comparison the Projected Ego is amassed, acquired, built up from yard sales of traits that the others have discarded & put out for disposal - go figure.   

Conflict resolution must happen first on the Internal level by having a desire to understand & finish the mental violence / tug of war. The absence of strong LIVING VALUES is the root cause of mental chaos. Honesty, Humility, & simplicity are the very basic ones to imbibe right from the early years of childhood. We can imbibe these only if our parents / caregivers / caretakers had them for us to copy.

CONFLICT - External : Differing view points, incompatibility between two people / groups /nations causes irritation which escalates into conflict. Now the external persona of False Egos  interacts, creating resentment, over flowing into bitterness. Greed for owning natures resources, Disrespect for the Dignity & Worth of every Human Being, & Dishonoring the differences / uniqueness of others, becomes the basis of Conflicts, battles & eventually wars. Lack of Tolerance, Cooperation, Unity, Responsibility & Self-Respect are the remaining Living Values which too must be imbibed in childhood, for people to live in Harmony, Happiness & overflowing Love for each other.

First the component of Conscience tickles, goad's us to reconsider indulging in derogatory actions. Often we give in very easily & indulge in wrong actions, deeds because we never learnt the art of listening to our sleeping Conscience.   
  
Second component that come into play is Intuition. This is also termed as Gut feeling. In this super fast world where is the split second to consult our unerring helper of Intuition for a second opinion. It is again very easily over ridden / over ruled in the favor of going ahead with the decision to Indulge & repent latter on.

Third aspect of the heart organ is the Sixth sense. We are supposed to be the masters of our thoughts, feelings & emotions, but sadly we are just the opposite, big time Slaves. All of the above three components are more developed in our female partners, therefore they are used more often by them, to arrive at wiser decisions. The male counter part of the equation is an impulsive fool, who does not have these components of the heart and is therefore at a loss to use them when needed. He often gets into quick-sand situations & sinks into oblivion. The females invariably outsmart & out live the males.

  
Forth component of Intellect, belongs to the brain organ. This tool is mostly blunt or mildly sharp through out the life time of the owner. It is in this region that the mental Tug of war begins & never seems to end. The acquired Sanskars & die hard habits are a very strong influence which sweep aside all the justifications of the half developed Intellect when ever the tough decisions have to be implemented, hence the recurring Indulgence of negativity & its perpetual loop. What is urgently required is the open & razor sharp Intellect to allow the owner to function in the Soul conscious category, all the time.

Fifth aspect is that of Will Power. It is a self help tool. The owner uses Auto suggestion to plant new seeds / Sanskars to replace the old die hard habits, instead of going to a Hypnotist for external help. A determined mind can do this exercise on a regular basis to achieve spectacular results. It is like ordering from inside to do the right thing, instead of allowing the body to Indulge in negativity under the influence of the external worldly attractions..


Sixth component of the brain is Discipline. It is the Re-defining of the self. It is a set of fresh parameters for a Stress free harmonious living. Here the owner consciously discards the acquired stone-age old beliefs & replaces them with new practical meaningful ones which brings about an enhanced level of comfort & happiness. It is the starting point of living with awareness & full attention.


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YOUR HEALTH MAP - YOU ARE WHERE !!

EASY WISDOM - FOR THE AVERAGE BEING. 

YOU THE SOUL MAKEAS THE BODY FUNCTION - EITHER WAY...

HEALTH-WISE FOR YOUR SAKE: MENTAL PHYSICAL SPIRITUAL
  

SPECTRUM OF HEALTH

This is a very crucial cross road from where you have two choices : to go down or to go up. Most of us are on the middle rung of the ladder of Health, that being APPARENT HEALTH - We think we are healthy enough, but realistically we are not. Mere absence of disease is not good health. 

The cause lies in our unawareness of wasteful & neutral thought patterns & habits arising from seeds of hurt, anxiety, worry, fickle, faithless, & inhibited.  
Our unconscious choice of seeds & eventual thought patterns lead us downwards one rung to MARGINAL HEALTH - The cause of this stage is negative thinking arising out from seeds of lust, inferior. defective, ugly, victim, loser & crushed. 

The lowest rung of the ladder is Ill health. This is a serious matter but the cause is very much in our control if we choose to do so. It is the perpetual pattern of Toxic thoughts arising from the seeds of Ego, jealousy, pride, greed, selfish, rude, cheating & CONTROLLING THE SPOUSES, CHILDREN, WHOLE WORLD. It is a sure highway to INSANITY - Go figure.    

The other path that takes you up on the ladder of Health is that of discipline & self control. One rung up takes you to OPTIMUM HEALTH - people in this category are very much conscious of their physical bodies & wish to stay in perfect shape most of their lives. Actors, singers, musicians, athletes, fall in this category of mania for good physique. They earn millions through the display of their bodies & skills. They also spend at least 2 hours everyday in the gym, rain or shine & eat frugally exercising total discipline in all aspects of their living. They have Positive thinking patterns, which grows from the seeds of contentment, helpful, love-full, aware, easy, quiet & happy. 

Finally the top most rung is that of VIBRANT HEALTH - This is attained by a select few who venture very hard in the field of Elevated thoughts, regular meditation, & Raja yoga. Saints, yogis, toddler children, fall in this beautiful category. The basis of such perfect health are the seeds of Peace, affection, kindness, giving, generous, honesty, & soul consciousness.    

FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH'S SAKE - Eliminate all internal mindful conflicts by being totally transparent, 24\7. No secrets, no lies, no hiding, no double standards. Beware of the  brewing bitterness inside & faking politeness outside. Pay attention to constant negativity & rejection towards the other soul while displaying superficial acceptance when in public.  
                
 ALTERNATIVE : IMPAIRMENT, BLINDNESS & EVENTUALLY HOSPITALIZATION.
 

FOR YOUR SPIRITUAL HEALTH'S SAKE - Earn an income of Blessings from the spouses family members by giving up Egoistic attitudes, trying to control everyone, suppressing others to cover up your Low Self Confidence. Make a Herculean effort to  maintain  harmonious relations for your peace of mind. 

 ALTERNATIVE : IMPOTENCE, LONELINESS & DEPRESSION. 


FOR YOUR CHILDREN'S SAKE - Be exemplary Role Models 24\7. Definitely God is not watching us, therefore HE planted children around us. These copy cats are imbibing it all; your voice tone, mannerisms, gait, intentions, out bursts of anger & foul language. They pick up, so called GENES, through vibrations emitted, & behavior displayed by you. 

ALTERNATIVE : KEEP THEM AWAY FROM YOUR BAD INFLUENCE IN BOARDING SCHOOLS AT HIGH COSTS.


FOR GODS SAKE - Transform yourself first & subsequently influence others around you peacefully & silently. They are known friendly souls, who had to come back to settle their Karmic debts with you, therefore understand this & cooperate faithfully for your own personal benefit. 
   
ALTERNATIVE : CARRY FORWARD HEAVIER KARMIC BAGGAGE.


FOR YOUR PHYSICAL HEALTH'S SAKE - Keep the home cooks satisfied, contented & Joyful at all times to avoid consuming toxic food spiked with hate, resentment, disgust, sorrow & curses, served to you & prepared by them. All they have is your downfall & destruction on their minds, if their well being is not taken care of. 
                                                     

 ALTERNATIVE : COOK YOUR OWN FOOD & EAT IT ALONE.


 THE CHEMISTRY OF DIGESTION - MICRO BREWING

Are you ready for this challenge. The prerequisites for your success in this venture are many. Two most important ones are : Will power of Hercules & Unbending discipline of steel. Apart from the above you must examine & put aside your conventional beliefs, convictions, bad habits, & question your shallow schooling / education about your miraculous ANATOMY & CHEMISTRY of food.

The human stomach is analogous to a micro brewing beer Vat. Three core aspects stand out in this regard.

A} The precise temperature control of the contents in the Vat like Stomach.
B} The breakdown to very fine particle size of the inputs & their flow-ability in a  semi liquid state.
C} Zero tolerance to dilution of the contents with foreign liquids of any kind. 

Keeping in mind all the above aspects of the brewing beer Vat like stomach the following TEN COMMANDANTS have been formulated to aid & lead you to Vibrant health which manifests as fountain of youth subsequently. 

1} Thou shall consume all your micro-sized meals from Sunrise to Sunset. The stomach is influenced by the heat & light of the mighty Sun & functions best during daylight hours.

2} Thou shall ingest small quantities of food, which can be accommodated in the palms of your two hands at any one meal.

3} Thou shall eat solid food at room temperature or piping hot state. Frozen or cold foods lower the temperature of the stomach & result in sludge formation which refuses to move forward / downwards causing physical distress / uneasiness.

4} Thou shall drink a large tumbler of Luke warm water twenty minutes before every meal. This is a must because your body will need this neutral liquid to make up copious amounts of rich ALKALINE SALIVA & other complex digestive acids, enzymes, hormones when you begin to eat your solid food.Water has memory in the form of vibrations. Drink slowly with attitude of gratitude. 

5} Thou shall maintain the potency of powerful digestive acids by refraining from mixing any foreign liquids, along with your solid food, like milk, wine, beer, alcohol, water, cold drinks, fruit juices. This is a serious matter because dilution of powerful acids will delay & surely stop the digesting process.

6} Thou shall attempt to enjoy one item of solid food at one meal. Mixing too much variety in one sitting clashes with each other & confuses the stomach. It just shuts down leaving you with undigested food, gas generation & its entrapment which results in extreme pain. Seven course dinners & massive buffets are a sure quick way to the grave. Starches sugars & proteins interact with each other to produce harmful chemical reactions. Therefore eat them separately. Examples of single item meal are as follows :

Dark bread/toasted whole wheat bread/flat beard with butter.
Platter of meats/sea food/fish - two cups equivalent
Cooked vegetables - one cup
Raw vegetables, fruits, salads without proteins - two cups
Cooked Lentils or lentil soups - one cup

7} Thou shall cook, prepare or assemble your own food in silence & soul conscious awareness. In case your loved ones are cooking your food then make sure they are kept contented & happy at all times. This is the only way you are going to ensure that positive love-full vibrations go into your food first & latter on in your system. Imagine yourself ingesting unhygienic street food cooked by a dissatisfied unpleasant angry person, who is compelled to do this for a living/profit.

8} Thou shall eat in micro sized bites, chew slowly with mouth shut & masticate the morsels of food in soul awareness till it is liquid in the mouth itself. Please note that food is digested in the mouth & absorbed in the stomach. This habit will make you feel fuller & allow you to eat less. which is the pathway & secret to Vibrant health.

9}  Thou shall walk away from the ever inviting but dangerous platters of cakes, pastries, sweets, ice creams, puddings, milkshakes which are over flowing with harmful sugars ( Fructose). At this point your single item meal has used up all the available INSULIN in your system. These sugary desserts if consumed now will end up in your blood stream which I dare say will prove FATAL. Go ahead & kill yourself with a piece of sweet. How ever we have beautiful alternatives for your sweet tooth now, if you can not resist the temptations, like dates, figs, cinnamon, licorice, molasses, jaggery, maple syrup, & sweetest of all honey.

10}  Thou shall also focus on the elimination process of the body. Early morning drink the first glass of Luke warm water with lemon juice or 10 drops of tinctures Neem/Turmeric/Ginger. The second glass must have 5 spoons of ground mixture of Flax seeds, Chia seeds  & Psyllium husk. This regime will ensure total evacuation of the unwanted elements from the body. Now you qualify for any intake into your body. 

PRANIC EFFECTS OF FOODS THAT WE CONSUME

Negative pranic  : Garlic, Onion, Asafoetida (hing),  Chillis, Eggplant, Tea. Coffee.  These foods are basically  very powerful medicines, so why should we be consuming them on a regular basis. If you continue to do because your grandfathers did so, then do it at the risk of your own health.

Neutral pranic  : Potatoes & Tomatoes. 

Positive Pranic : Ash gourd, Coconut, Honey. There are many tribes in the world whose staple diet consists of  such highly positive pranic foods alone. 







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MENTAL HEALTH - MASTER CHEF OF YOUR MINDS KITCHEN

MASTER CHEF OF YOUR MENTAL KITCHEN - MENTALISM


MIND  -  MENTALISM  - MANIFEST
 
MIND IS A DUMB SLAVE
 
A very significant quality of the human mind is to act & react upon all thoughts regardless of their being real or imaginary, from the present context or from the memory bank of the past. The power to discern & decide lies with the Intellect & not the mind. Intellect will only work when we are attentive & fully aware of every intention, thought & feeling, which is a rarity. Mind is the soil & Intellect is the Gardner, while your memory holds all the seeds, which you wish to harvest from.
 
MENTALISM - IMPULSES OF ENERGY
 
Mentalism is the output of the mind in action. A thinking mind is said to a working mind. It is generating impulses of energy as thoughts. It is a runaway train whose brakes have failed & there is no way of stopping it. We are totally handicapped in this matter of the invisible mind which has no mechanism to switch it off or shut it down, even slow it down temporarily.
 
EXCITATION OF HORMONAL GLANDS
 
The constant & continuous output of our mind is in the manifestation of Intentions, thoughts, desires & feelings of all varieties & sizes. Majority of these are negative & handful of them are positive. These energy impulses are the inputs for the network of three major brains: Medulla, Thalamus, Amygdala  & a whole chain of glands:Hypothalamus, Hippo-campus, Pituitary, Thymus, Thyroid, Pineal, Gonads, Skin, Adrenal, & Heart,  intimately connected & dependent upon each other. They are spread throughout the human body. These energy impulses trigger & stimulate  the brains to produce very sensitive & powerful chemicals called Hormones. These primary hormones further excite the chain of glands to manufacture secondary hormones, which are injected directly into our blood stream for instantaneous results, mood swings, elation, sorrow & corresponding actions in the body.
 
POLARITY OF ENERGY IMPULSES
 
The duration & level of the excitation of the glands determines the quantity of the hormones pouring out of the glands into the blood stream. The negatively charged energy impulses are very powerful and long lasting. The net result is over dose of hormones which  work  as  steroids for the delicate body. This over dose becomes responsible for the chaos & havoc in the human system, many times even fatal. This mental internal turmoil is transmuted into anger, rage, shouting, barking,  heightened heart beat, quicker breathing, excessive sweating, redness of the face, in short out of control. The onlooker sums up the whole scene as - HAVE YOU LOST YOUR MIND. On the other hand positively charged energy impulses are delicate & of short duration. They act upon the glands optimally to manufacture microscopic & right quantities of hormones, which further become responsible for peace, contentment & bliss in the human body. The same onlooker sums up this scene as - A HARMONIOUS & BALANCED MIND.
 
DELICATE BALANCE
 
In all we have about 300 chemicals & hormones being squirted out by a host of glands.  Even if one of these hormones was to go out of the specified range, either become short in supply or become excessively abundant in supply then we can be in big trouble. One such hormone is Cortisol to site an example. Excess of Cortisol in the system will burst the heart open and you are dead meat,  on the other hand a dead person can be revived by injecting the same Cortisol directly into his heart sometimes.
 
MENTAL KITCHEN & INGREDIENTS
 
Human mind is analogous to your domestic kitchen. You are cooking your beautiful recipes with much care & total involvement. Some of the ingredients for your special recipe will be imported from the outside world while the rest of them will be picked up from the in house pantry & the stocked up kitchen shelf. On the same lines external stimuli from the outside world starts the mental cooking process of recipes. On the way additional ingredients are hand picked from the active memory & the remaining ones are fished out from the passive mental storage of the mind. Together you grind, sieve, mix knead, & bake or cook up a recipe in the form of Intentions & thoughts. Gradually they expand like your bread/cake in the oven into strong feelings. The final product is almost ready to be plated artfully and garnished tenderly as EMOTIONS which you display to the outside world.       

SKILL & AWARENESS LEVEL OF THE COOK
 
You are the Master Chef of your minds kitchen where such beautiful dishes are cooked up & presented to the world for tasting & judging as positive emotions or elevated emotions. The perfect cake / bread happens when all the ingredients are mixed in the exact proportions by weight,  volume & the   methodology of cooking followed to the last detail. Imagine a careless cook who misses out on just one item say salt. Instead of the recommended half spoon he adds three full spoons. What will be the result of such a mistake. Total disaster of course.
Now imagine a novice cook who messes up on all the ingredients of the recipe. Definitely not a palatable dish, either it is hard as a brick or watery uncooked paste.  This is exactly what happens in our minds kitchen when we do not MIND OUR MIND.  Toxic emotions of negativity are brought into the minds kitchen and we cook up unpalatable recipes. These emotions trigger the glands to secrete hormones in excess quantities thus spiking our blood with multiple steroids resulting in Heartaches, heartburn's,  heart-attacks. When such lifestyles are repeated over & over again then we suffer from poor health often requiring costly hospitalization. 
 
INTENTIONALITY OF HOME-COOKS
 
FOOD OVER FLOWING WITH LOVING VIBRATIONS

Intentionality of the master chef or a home cook plays a major role in the physical kitchen. Let us first take the case of a young bride cooking for her charming beloved husband. She is peeling vegetables with emotion of cheerfulness, chopping them playfully, grating some vegetables with emotion of affection & slicing others with contentment. In the  next stage of cooking, she slow cooks her vegetable soup in a dreamy trance of togetherness. Before serving she tastes the soup very tenderly & pours the wholesome soup into two bowls with care. Now she garnishes them with mint & coriander leaves lovingly. On the arrival of her beloved she serves the bowl of soup with emotion of soulfullness. Herself, she sits down besides her husband and eats very slowly & responsibly. This is the quality of nourishment that she & her beloved are getting, full of loving vibrations. 

FOOD OVER LOADED WITH TOXIC VIBRATIONS

Let us explore the intentionality of another woman in a second case. A middle aged woman is compelled to cook for her abusive alcoholic husband. She grinds the spices with the emotion of gloom &  mixes the ingredients with curses. She kneads dough with moisture of melancholy & bakes her bread with emotion of remorse. In a separate pan vegetables are cooking on the burner of  hate & left to simmer with repentance. Latter on she stir fries veges with her wounds of abuse. Her lentils boil on fire of anger in another pot. In the mean while, oil for garnishing is heating up with restlessness. On week ends she opts for slow cooking with emotions of resentment or quick pressure cooking with rage. Morning breakfasts are usually microwaved with sorrow, or cold served with resignation. The evening beverage is brewed in a bag of depression & afterwards decanted in utter disgust.  The alcoholic husband is being served with an over dose of negativity & harmful vibrations.
 
CULTIVATION & HARVESTING OF THOUGHTS
 
The quality and quantity of seeds left in the soil of the mind, determines the yield of the harvest of thoughts. Hybrid seeds will yield a rich harvest while no seeds or cheap seeds will yield a harvest of weeds. On the other hand if you intentionally plant seeds of cash crops with auto suggestion in the soil of your mind, then you can hope to reap an excellent harvest of cash crops. Intellect provides the drip irrigation through attention & fertilizers through awareness to the soil of the mind. An alert intellect also acts as a scare crow to over see the growth of the crops & protects them from undesirable elements. In the absence of the qualities of intellect, the soil of the mind goes to waste, thus generating weeds  of tall grass in the form of waste thoughts, unchecked.
 
SEE YOUR  C s & SWITCH POLARITY
 
The seeds of negativity which give rise to toxic thoughts are listed below for your consideration & perusal.
 
Complaining  Comparing  Competing  Correcting  Criticizing  Checking  Controlling  Cheating  Craving  Conning  Careless  Cursing  Childish  Crying 
 
There is an urgent need to switch & replace the above undesirable seeds with the following Positive elevated seeds. These will allow you to cultivate positive thoughts in abundance.
 
Comfortable  Confident  Courageous  Calm  Charming  Cheerful  Clean  Content  Cooperative  Composed  Celibate  Creative  Clarity  Coaching  Caring
 
If the above Change over of C s is not executed in your life, then be prepared for the following Consequences of Mentalism happening inside your body. 
 
Cramping of the muscles 
Constricting of the vessels 
Crimping of the nerves
 
The above three Conditions in your body will result in PAIN as follows.
Spondilitus pain in the neck
Migraine pain in the head
Asthmatic pain in the chest
Anginal pain in the heart
Dyspepsia pain in the abdomen
Colic pain in the intestines
Arthritis pain in the joints

Pain is a signal for the body to hydrate, oxygenate & switch off the microwaves of negative emotions which are over cooking the respective organs to destruction. It is not a signal for you to swallow a pill of Tylenol.
 
THOUGHT FACTORY OF DEATH DYING & DEAD
 
Death is not the end. Death of what. Death of the body, the person or the soul in the body. The moment we are born, we start marching towards our death. It is on the horizon. You can either see it & accept it or deny it. The wise person will accept it & live in peace till death arrives. The foolish egoist person will vehemently deny it & live in fear of dying inwardly, but outwardly in denial mode. This mental conflict is what actually kills him much ahead of his time of death.
 
The reality is that soul is eternal & never dies. Matter follows the law of entropy, but the soul does not. Therefore understand this truth & wisdom. Be carefree of dying. The second aspect is to be in preparedness for the final moment & leave the body gracefully, in full consciousness. The art of dying alive can help you achieve this state of preparedness. The fear of dying is one of the biggest fears. This can be only understood & reconciled early in life. Once this is done half the battle is already won. Our state of mind & thought patterns determines the success or failure of living our lives. Most of the people fall into the following categories, which can help them in mid course correction, if they so desire.
 
DENIAL MODE CLASS

INVINCIBLE - I can not die. I will live forever. These highly conceited people are Dictators, God fathers, Dons.
INDISPENSABLE - I can not afford to die yet. How will they carry on without me. I am indispensable.  They always have unfinished agenda to back up their illusionary cause.
 
HALF HEARTED ACCEPTANCE CLASS

HANG GLIDERS - They hang on to possessions, bank accounts, personal secrets, hiding valuables. Death is so near, yet clutching to physical things & living beings.
EGO OF ETERNITY - Arrogance of remaining alive in peoples hearts & minds after death. Desire for name & fame till eternity.
EGO OF HUMILITY - These people present themselves as very humble persons outwardly, but inwardly desiring  long funeral processions upon their death.
 
RELIVING THEIR DEAD, PAST  CLASS

CREMATORS - Digging out their long dead past & reliving it again & again today. They are truly grave diggers ruining their present too. They will relate their past stories 55 times if not less to one & all with renewed enthusiasm every time.
COMPOSERS - Sifting through decomposed garbage for something. Reliving their recent dead past.
COLLECTORS - Today is sacrificed for yesterday. They are garbage processors in the foul smelling environment of past. Looking backwards instead of looking ahead.
 
LIVING CORPSES CLASS

IDLERS - Non working class of people, retirees, physically challenged, mentally challenged. Busy with TV, Internet, computers, games, gossip.
WORKAHOLICS - No vacations at all, working to make more money, more real estate. Can not remain idle, must be doing something, some activity.
HUNTERS  - These people are always hunting for newer relationships, lust fulfillment, seeking love, appreciation from others. They are party animals.
 
IMPORTANCE OF POLARITY OF  THOUGHTS
 
External stimuli or events in real life trigger off basic thoughts of fear, doubts, or happiness & joy. These thought impulses of energy evolve into even stronger energy packets of feelings. Feelings can be positive or negative.  Insecurity, low self worth or contentment & self confidence. In time feelings are experienced as emotions  of bliss or hate. Gradually these emotions snowball into reactions & behavior, which can be either constructive or destructive. Shouting, blaming or talking sweetly & taking responsibility are examples of behavior. Our behavior leads to fixed  patterns of moods and attitudes as time progresses. Attitudes again can be good or bad. Some examples are, being shameful, masking, addictions or politeness, speaking up & honesty. Finally, attitudes precipitate as stress resistance and we refuse to change for the better. This is our Destiny in the making, our own doing. We are the creators of our destiny starting with the quality of thoughts & progressing to destiny of our choice very quickly if we have the will & intention to get there. We wrongly blame God for deciding our destiny before hand. Start by changing your C s, happy peaceful souls.

Rohit Khanna - IN-SIGHTED hence IN-TOXICATED.