ON BEING A RESILIENT WOMAN - OUT LIVING MAN -girl child part IV

GIRL CHILD PART IV -- ON BEING A RESILIENT WOMAN, out living man
 
The plight of girl child grows worse.
Nature is full of miracles & you are one of them.

KNOW THYSELF

You refuse to change even a little bit, even after understanding the fact that source of happiness is within and not outside of you, then the loss is yours.

THE VALUE OF MONEY COMES, WHEN YOU SPEND IT

You have saved enough money in the bank, but you feel it is not enough to give you happiness & refuse to spend it on yourself and others, causing misery to self & dear ones. Money & blood must keep flowing always. HOARDING &  CLOTTING is fatal.

TRUST YOURSELF & BUILD UP SELF ESTEEM

Dilemma of not going ahead with new relationship at hand & not being able to make up the wavering mind to go back to first love. You are torn apart in two, with this one emotion.

You refuse to help strangers & new friends, because it is uncomfortable to mix up with & to trust them.

MAXING OUT NEGATIVITY - A BOUQUET OF TOXIC EMOTIONS

Denial of every good thing. Saying  NO, closing your eyes & shutting off all, emphatically.

You can enjoy every day, every moment but choose to stay aloof, avoiding human confrontations, interactions, staying indoors preoccupied with silly TV & obsessive cleaning.

You have the power to stop reacting in a negative manner whenever the situations arises, yet you choose to react madly, making a fool of yourself, every time and quite often. This process causes the other person to withdraw & distance from you, leaving you alone & lonely more and more, when you want exactly the opposite – more intimacy. How paradoxical is this self created predicament of yours.

NO HOPE - HOPELESS

You can smile but you prefer to grind your teeth & suffer over minor trifles, as if heavens have fallen. You rank in the category of being PERPETUALLY DIS-SATISFIED. Even God can not help you.

OWN YOUR CHOICES

Suffering is based on wrong perceptions, illusions  notions & is totally optional.

You can let go of your heinous past, but you will choose to hold on to those chilling memories, experiences,  circumstances & relive them again & again sinking in the quagmire of guilt.

Misery is sitting in the theater of PAST, busy watching tragic movies of self.  Just get up & walk out on them. But you will not leave the comfort of sadness.

Regret is a lament of unfulfilled dreamers, an attic of despair in your latter years.


CONTROLLING THE WORLD IS INSANITY & HURTS PAINFULLY

When someone has done what we neither expected nor wanted them to do, our attachment to our expectation causes us to be 'hurt'. The 'hurt', imagined or not, causes mistrust to arise within us.

The disgust of betrayal of ones trust. Break up of relationship, dreams, & a loving heart.

Hurt happens when there is NO response to LOVE.  A broken heart, hurts to the core. This prolonged simmering leads to damaged heart which of course, doctors can  repair or even replace.

WRONG PRIORITIES - SEXUALITY UPSIDE DOWN

Being consumed, with rejoicing in life, is a total waste of valuable human birth.

The emotion of touch me not, is predominant. I am uncomfortable on touching. It generates irritation instead of pleasure. When in the past this happened in my psychic, I am not aware. So please leave me alone.

You have a sexy body but you say no to intimate, sexual pleasure. Engagement & intimacy by invitation only & not spontaneous as it should be.

STOLEN KISSES ARE SWEETER BY FAR - SO ARE THE AFFAIRS

Dilemma of having enjoyable sex during non period days & forced to have sex, during the bloody periods with the pain in the background  over riding it, for the sake of the relationship.

Dilemma of having, fearless, carefree sex & fear of getting pregnant or the fear of exposure of the secret relationship. For this reason the Queens of sixteenth century employed hermaphrodites as their confidants & helpers. The modern Princesses employ personal butlers for the same reason. Enjoyment of secret physical intimacy becomes possible, yet no chance of becoming pregnant.

FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real. 

Man merely provides the seed, while woman is earthen vessel to hold, germinate the seed & make it grow into a beautiful creation.

Dilemma of dilemmas - The future is more important for what is happening now in the present of togetherness. The future is a long drawn motherhood, procreation, responsibilities of giving birth, energy consuming nursing, caring & fierce survival against all odds.

What you love & loving what you do, is a passion.  But when the same energy is targeted towards a person, it is LUST & not passion.

The emotion of total trust & surrender is rarity, because the nature of lust is to fade, diminish, deflate & decay  eventually for that ONE.


LOVE DOES NOT COME WITH A GUARANTEE TO NOT HURT YOU.

The purest emotion of love & being loved by first love is in the fortune of a select few. The joy of meeting first love secretly, and hiding it from others is a teen emotion par excellence. The joy of sharing the fact of acquiring the very first kiss & love is like, living on the ninth cloud.
Love is the affinity which links & draws together the elements of the world initially.

Excessive expressing of Love empties you.
Too much Loving is suffocating.
Possession of Love makes it ugly.

The beauty of the feminine is the Natural MEDICINE.

Her undulating curves of a Goddess is a BLESSING.

Delicious lusciousness of her Body is the sweet NECTAR.

Her radiance Infuses our very existence into RESONANCE.

Her Essences Infuse experiences of Ravishing WONDERS.

Her Soul flowering within & overflowing into the World is INTOXICATING.

She is the supreme pristine splendor of Earthly DELIGHTS.

She is a Vessel of Fertility, Divinity & a Chalice of CREATION.

Her generosity for human Life flourishes with magnificent GLORY. 

THE ART OF LIVING

The essence of living – be in awe, instead of being awful.
Be  in-spire instead of getting spire.
See the perfections in the world, instead of being an imperfection.
     
Laughter is the best medicine because it produces peptides & endorphin's in the blood stream.

Forgiveness is the cure. If someone offers you a gift of anger / hostility to you and you choose not to accept it, then it still belongs to the giver. If you do accept it by mistake then the venom of bitterness & hatred of the initial snake bite of hurt will run in your veins and destroy your peace of mind & eventually the body. 


Rohit Khanna - Changing DNA, with Soul Consciousness
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