PARENTING -YOUR ACTION rebounds as THEIR REACTION

  

	PARENTING - WHAT GOES WRONG   - Have mercy & compassion
CHILD	ACTION	REACTION
SMALL	HOLDING BACK MILK & LOVE	SENSES COLDNESS LEARNS MISTRUST/FEAR
TENDER	AUTHORITY - POWER BASED	PARENT CHOOSE FOR HIM/STUNTED GROWTH
DEPENDENT	ANONYMOUS AUTHORITY - PUBLIC OPINION	FEAR OF INVISIBLE SOCIETY
	SOCIETY  PRESSURE - RULES/REGULATIONS
	SCRIPT - PRE WRITTEN	SELF DESTRUCTIVE
	ROBOTIC CONDITIONING	PROGRAM CREATED BY OTHERS
WANTS ATTENTION	JUDGING/CRITICISM/CONDEMN	BREEDS HOSTILITY, I AM NOT OK / NOT GOOD ENOUGH
UNBIASED	PUTTING DOWN - IDIOT/STUPID	BITTERNESS, SELF PITY, ANGER, REBELLION,
	SHOULD BE DIFFERENT	CONFUSION - QUALITY OF ABSOLUTENESS
	IGNORING -  TREAT HIM AS AN OBJECT	TOXIC  PROJECTION / POISON
FULLY SELF CONSCIOUS
INNER GUIDED	NATURAL CYCLES/ BIORHYTHMS	MOODS CYCLES, FEELING CYCLES, UP & DOWN
KNOWS  LOTS	VALUING	HUNGER NEGATIVELY,FOOD POSITIVELY,
RIGHT LIVING		WHEN FULL THEN FOOD NEGATIVELY
SLOW TO LEARN	EXTERNAL SUPPORT	FEAR OF FAILURE & RIDICULE
		PHONY ROLE PLAYING/CONFUSION
CAPACITY TO REACT	PUNISHMENT	POISONS RELATIONSHIPS/CLOSES IN/ CLOSES U OUT
	COMPETITION WITH PARENTS	SUPPRESSES HIS OWN POWER
	BRIBERY & SPOILING	WHINING & TANTRUMS
HAS MANY FEELINGS	CHRONIC BLAMER / BLAME	BREEDS RESENTMENT
	CONTROLLING ALL	ANGER & DISAPPOINTMENT
	DON’T, NO, POINTED FINGER, I TOLD YOU	ANXIETY - POOR GROWTH / FEAR FULL
SPONTANEOUS	CALCULATIVE LIVING	HOLES IN PERSONALITY / NO HEART
VERY CREATIVE	FORCED THINKING/ DELIBERATE THOUGHT	INHIBITIONS / INTROVERT
ECSTATIC ALWAYS	LAUGHTER & JOY	FEELS GOOD - THE RIGHT WAY
	ALIVENESS  - NIRVANA	LIFE AS A GAME ONLY
LEARNS  THRU  TOUCH	TOUCH, MESSAGE	GETS NOURISHMENT FOR GROWTH
	HUGGING, KISSING, HOLDING, CUDDLING	RELAXES
EXPLORING	ACCIDENTAL LEARNING	CHANCE ENCOUNTERS / WRONG INPUTS
LOVE IS A  MUST	DEPRECIATION	HURT, SCREAM IN PAIN,
NEEDS CARING	DISAPPROVAL	NO POWER, NO ABILITY
NO  EGO  INITIALLY	FAKING - AS IF	NOT BEING SELF, TO BE DIFFERENT
	STRIVING FOR SUPERIORITY	BREEDS INFERIORITY COMPLEX
	IMPOSE LIMITATIONS	STUNTED GROWTH
	SABOTEUR/TORTURER/ASSASSIN	IMMOBILIZE SELF, WHY TRY - WILL FAIL
	EMOTIONS /  FEELINGS	PHYSICAL BODY REACTIONS
	ANGER - UNEXPRESSED / PUT DOWN	PINCHED UP, STOPS COURSING OF VITAL FLUIDS
	FEAR - EXCITING,	TIGHTENING OF MUSCLES, SLOWS DIGESTION, SCREATES
		ADRENALIN INTO BLOOD SYS. EXPLOSIVE,
	THREATENING	CLOSE OFF
	PARALYZING	IMMOBILE - HOLD BREADTH
	CONFUSION & DISTRACTION	BLOCKING THOUGHTS - USE UP ENERGY, FEEL DRAINED
	GENERALIZING	ALTERNATING BETWEEN OPPOSING FORCES
	RATIONALIZATION	EXISTENTIAL CRISIS
	DEPRESSION, FRUSTRATED, BORED	SWITCH OFF, NOT GIVING LIFE
	MORBID THOUGHTS	LEADING TO DEATH - DEADEN MY LIFE, SELF TORTURE
	EXPECTATIONS, WISHING & WORRYING	FEARFUL FANTASIES DOMINATE THE MIND
	UNCERTAIN ABOUT FUTURE	NO ONE WILL EVER LOVE ME
	PAIN	THE ACT OF HOLDING BACK & NOT DOING IT
	HURT	SIGN THAT YOU ARE STILL ALIVE & NOT DEAD
	GUILT	POTENT WAY OF STOPPING FEELINGS
	ASHAMED	ON BEING EXPOSED, HANGING ON TO FEELINGS LONGER
	HUMILIATED	PUNISH SELF IN SILENCE
	BELIEF	OTHERS TELL ME SO - MIND BENDING LEADING TO ENERGY
		BINDING - RESTRICT FLOW OF ENERGY
	LOCKED IN BELIEFS	KEEPING HANDS TO THEMSELVES & EYES STRAIGHT AHEAD
	FAITH	IS MY AFFIRMATION TO THE UNIVERSE, MY LIFE OF TEARS &
		LAUGHTER
	ATTITUDE	A TENDENCY TO FEEL IN A CERTAIN WAY PERSISTING OVER
		A LONG PERIOD OF TIME
ADULT	ACTION	REACTION
FALSE EGO	PERSONALITY
VALIDATION	TOP LAYER	CLICHÉ - HELLO, HAI,  HOW ARE U DOING, NOW
	ROLES LAYER	PRETEND, MASK, NO REAL CONTACT WITH SELF/ANYONE
	PERSONAL LAYER	IMPLOSION - DEATH, ANTI EXISTENCE, BRAKING - TURNING
		ENERGY ON ITSELF - IMPLOSION
	POSSESSIONS	INSTEAD OF OWNING THEM, THEY OWN US
	SELF IMAGE
	RESTRICT FREEDOM	JEALOUSY/ENVY - POSSESSING EACH OTHER
	DESIRE	AS I DESIRE, SO I LIVE-ROOT PROBLEM IS DESIRING ITSELF
WANTS  VS  NEEDS	GREED	TORTURE TRAPS
	CRAVINGS
	AWARENESS	SOURCE OF SURVIVAL, WORLD EXISTS THRU IT
LIVE WITH FEELINGS	MINDFULNESS	FEELING  UPSET IS A BARRIER
	NOW	LIVE IN NOW & HERE - NO CHAOS
	ATTENTION	IT IS CUTTING EDGE OF IT - WITNESS YOURSELF
	WHOLENESS
SMALL I 's	MEDICINE WHEEL	ACTORS/CHARACTERS
PARENT		NURTURING/OVER PROTECTIVE
ADULT		MALE/FEMALE SIDES
CHILD		EMOTIONAL/RATIONAL
	POWER & CONTROL	FIGHT WITH SELF - EDDY CURRENTS/BP/ULCERS
CREATION	IMAGES	POETRY/ART/DREAMS/FANTASY
IMAGINATION
FLEXIBLE	SELF IMAGE	GROWING UP WITH ENCOURAGEMENT
RIGID	SUCCESS / FAILURE	GROWING UP WITH PUNISHMENT & REJECTION
IDEALIZED		HOW I WANT TO BE
PERFECTIONIST		HIGH IDEALS - ANXIETY - RIGHT /WRONG WAY
EDUCATION	THINKING	THE OBJECT IS STIMULATION OF INNER CONSCIOUSNESS
	UNDERSTANDING	IS PERCEIVING RELATIONSHIPS AMONG IMPORTANT FACTS
SINGULARITY	WISDOM	HOW LIFE CAN BE NOURISHING FOR ME & OTHERS
	BELIEFS	OTHERS TELL ME SO
GRASP	RESPECT	THE WORLD IS A SACRED VESSEL - NO TEMPERING
SPOIL/LOOSE	SERVICE	GIVE FIRST, HELP OUT OTHERS/ RIGHT LIVELIHOOD
	LOVE	LOVING IS A WAY OF GIVING TO SELF & OTHERS
	JOY
	OBJECT CENTERED	INFANT HAS HIS MOTHER & HER BREASTS/TEDDY BEAR
	PROTECTIVE	ROMANCE-F/ IN LOVE-LOOKING FOR MISSING QUALITIES
	CONSCIOUS	LOVING YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE
	AGAPE	MYSTICAL STATE - LOVING KINDNESS
ASK / DO	ASSERT	ACT, ASK, TALK, HUG, KISS, TRY IT