ON BEING A RESILIENT WOMAN - OUT LIVING MAN -girl child part IV

GIRL CHILD PART IV -- ON BEING A RESILIENT WOMAN, out living man
 
The plight of girl child grows worse.
Nature is full of miracles & you are one of them.

KNOW THYSELF

You refuse to change even a little bit, even after understanding the fact that source of happiness is within and not outside of you, then the loss is yours.

THE VALUE OF MONEY COMES, WHEN YOU SPEND IT

You have saved enough money in the bank, but you feel it is not enough to give you happiness & refuse to spend it on yourself and others, causing misery to self & dear ones. Money & blood must keep flowing always. HOARDING &  CLOTTING is fatal.

TRUST YOURSELF & BUILD UP SELF ESTEEM

Dilemma of not going ahead with new relationship at hand & not being able to make up the wavering mind to go back to first love. You are torn apart in two, with this one emotion.

You refuse to help strangers & new friends, because it is uncomfortable to mix up with & to trust them.

MAXING OUT NEGATIVITY - A BOUQUET OF TOXIC EMOTIONS

Denial of every good thing. Saying  NO, closing your eyes & shutting off all, emphatically.

You can enjoy every day, every moment but choose to stay aloof, avoiding human confrontations, interactions, staying indoors preoccupied with silly TV & obsessive cleaning.

You have the power to stop reacting in a negative manner whenever the situations arises, yet you choose to react madly, making a fool of yourself, every time and quite often. This process causes the other person to withdraw & distance from you, leaving you alone & lonely more and more, when you want exactly the opposite – more intimacy. How paradoxical is this self created predicament of yours.

NO HOPE - HOPELESS

You can smile but you prefer to grind your teeth & suffer over minor trifles, as if heavens have fallen. You rank in the category of being PERPETUALLY DIS-SATISFIED. Even God can not help you.

OWN YOUR CHOICES

Suffering is based on wrong perceptions, illusions  notions & is totally optional.

You can let go of your heinous past, but you will choose to hold on to those chilling memories, experiences,  circumstances & relive them again & again sinking in the quagmire of guilt.

Misery is sitting in the theater of PAST, busy watching tragic movies of self.  Just get up & walk out on them. But you will not leave the comfort of sadness.

Regret is a lament of unfulfilled dreamers, an attic of despair in your latter years.


CONTROLLING THE WORLD IS INSANITY & HURTS PAINFULLY

When someone has done what we neither expected nor wanted them to do, our attachment to our expectation causes us to be 'hurt'. The 'hurt', imagined or not, causes mistrust to arise within us.

The disgust of betrayal of ones trust. Break up of relationship, dreams, & a loving heart.

Hurt happens when there is NO response to LOVE.  A broken heart, hurts to the core. This prolonged simmering leads to damaged heart which of course, doctors can  repair or even replace.

WRONG PRIORITIES - SEXUALITY UPSIDE DOWN

Being consumed, with rejoicing in life, is a total waste of valuable human birth.

The emotion of touch me not, is predominant. I am uncomfortable on touching. It generates irritation instead of pleasure. When in the past this happened in my psychic, I am not aware. So please leave me alone.

You have a sexy body but you say no to intimate, sexual pleasure. Engagement & intimacy by invitation only & not spontaneous as it should be.

STOLEN KISSES ARE SWEETER BY FAR - SO ARE THE AFFAIRS

Dilemma of having enjoyable sex during non period days & forced to have sex, during the bloody periods with the pain in the background  over riding it, for the sake of the relationship.

Dilemma of having, fearless, carefree sex & fear of getting pregnant or the fear of exposure of the secret relationship. For this reason the Queens of sixteenth century employed hermaphrodites as their confidants & helpers. The modern Princesses employ personal butlers for the same reason. Enjoyment of secret physical intimacy becomes possible, yet no chance of becoming pregnant.

FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real. 

Man merely provides the seed, while woman is earthen vessel to hold, germinate the seed & make it grow into a beautiful creation.

Dilemma of dilemmas - The future is more important for what is happening now in the present of togetherness. The future is a long drawn motherhood, procreation, responsibilities of giving birth, energy consuming nursing, caring & fierce survival against all odds.

What you love & loving what you do, is a passion.  But when the same energy is targeted towards a person, it is LUST & not passion.

The emotion of total trust & surrender is rarity, because the nature of lust is to fade, diminish, deflate & decay  eventually for that ONE.


LOVE DOES NOT COME WITH A GUARANTEE TO NOT HURT YOU.

The purest emotion of love & being loved by first love is in the fortune of a select few. The joy of meeting first love secretly, and hiding it from others is a teen emotion par excellence. The joy of sharing the fact of acquiring the very first kiss & love is like, living on the ninth cloud.
Love is the affinity which links & draws together the elements of the world initially.

Excessive expressing of Love empties you.
Too much Loving is suffocating.
Possession of Love makes it ugly.

The beauty of the feminine is the Natural MEDICINE.

Her undulating curves of a Goddess is a BLESSING.

Delicious lusciousness of her Body is the sweet NECTAR.

Her radiance Infuses our very existence into RESONANCE.

Her Essences Infuse experiences of Ravishing WONDERS.

Her Soul flowering within & overflowing into the World is INTOXICATING.

She is the supreme pristine splendor of Earthly DELIGHTS.

She is a Vessel of Fertility, Divinity & a Chalice of CREATION.

Her generosity for human Life flourishes with magnificent GLORY. 

THE ART OF LIVING

The essence of living – be in awe, instead of being awful.
Be  in-spire instead of getting spire.
See the perfections in the world, instead of being an imperfection.
     
Laughter is the best medicine because it produces peptides & endorphin's in the blood stream.

Forgiveness is the cure. If someone offers you a gift of anger / hostility to you and you choose not to accept it, then it still belongs to the giver. If you do accept it by mistake then the venom of bitterness & hatred of the initial snake bite of hurt will run in your veins and destroy your peace of mind & eventually the body. 


Rohit Khanna - Changing DNA, with Soul Consciousness
                            IN-VITE  & IN-SITU

AILING HEALTH CARE SYSTEMS, FAIL TO CARE FOR YOU

  BOOKING THE DEFAULTERS & MAKING THEM PAY FOR IT 

  WHAT AILS OUR HEALTH CARE SYSTEM ??

Diagnosing the aliment that health care is suffering from, has been tough for the people who govern and finance the system: the medical staff who toil 24/7 inside the air tight bubble, the poor ignorant guinea pigs who offer themselves for scientific treatments, and the hungry corporations who feed and poison the common man with their toxic harmful processed food products. All the above four agencies are inside the system. To arrive at the differential diagnosis, some one impartial and not connected with the system has to study in depth from outside. It pretty easy, and a piece of cake for a trained Value engineer and creative Industrial engineer like myself, to take in the total picture of all the elements involved and process them to evolve a workable practical solution. Since this solution is so far advanced and 25 years ahead of its time that the concerned parties may find it difficult to accept and implement it right now, though eventually this is the only way out for every one involved. We will have to think out of the box to arrive at the best possible solution to this century old problem of health care.

WAIT AND WATCH TACTIC

Let us start with the world’s top most troublesome problem as an analogy – Smuggling of drugs. How are we tackling it today? By policing it, chasing it after the act has been committed. We wait for the drug lords to buy the stuff off the farmers, wait for them to process it and do value addition to it, again wait for them to smuggle it across the borders in ever new ways. We wait for intelligence tips to arrive, and yet again wait for the actual stuff to arrive to catch it, if we can.

POLICING THE ACT PASSIVELY

Thousands of police officers, border security forces, k-nine units, cars and helicopters by the hundreds are employed to do this job today. If not billions but many trillions of dollars are spent every year unsuccessfully in the effort to contain this drug problem. In vain goes all this herculean effort because our children are still doing drugs and bringing untold misery into the families involved. As a government agency, we aught to be proactive and one step ahead of the drug lords to beat them at their game. 

BEING PROACTIVE IS THE SOLUTION

The solution is very simple. Who is buying up 90% of the world’s coffee? Starbucks and Tim Horton’s & MacDonald’s. Just like them we go out and procure 98% of the raw heroin/poppy from the farmers and do what we want to do. We could even ask the farmers to harvest the crops much before they blossomed since we intend to destroy them. Ship it to an undisclosed location and dispose it off, by burning it and generating power. Alternately process it for medicinal purpose and huge governmental profits.

REALLOCATING THE RESOURCES & FUNDS

This would render most of the police force surplus to be utilized in other areas. They would still be required to track down the small time individual poppy growers. Trillions of dollars would become available for critical health care management. Now that you have abundant funds, let’s see how to spend a fraction of it to get extraordinary results.

DEMANDING LUNG CANCER TREATMENT WHILE SMOKING CONTINUES

Poor logic on part of the patients & the Doctors

Coming back to our key issue of health care management, we observe that the poor guinea pigs has been given absolute freedom to do as they like, even if it means going on the road to destruction, and expecting the big brother, their governments, to rescue them later with all paid for health care plans, while they continue with bad eating habits. The governing agency is too busy with hundreds of higher ranking international priorities, including re-election to office; hence this issue takes a back seat in their agendas. 

WAITING FOR PUBLIC TO FALL SICK 

The highly talented medical staff is busy doing what they have been trained for; treating the human body after the DAMAGE has been done. Like our police force they wait and watch till the people fall sick, and the guinea pigs to be carried into the hospitals. Additionally these doctors are always treating the symptoms, the effect, in the body and not the cause of sickness, which happens to be beyond their realm and scope of work.

FOOD MANUFACTURING CORPORATIONS MUST BE ACCOUNTABLE

Finally the profit hungry corporations are responsible for all the degeneration caused to the common man’s health. Who is going to hold them accountable? They have been getting away very easily till now, but time has come to put an end to all this mess.

Personally, I would go a step further to the very root of the epidemic, by procuring the poppy seeds themselves and destroying them systematically and clandestinely. In a matter of three to five crop cycles poppy seeds can be in the extinct category. We have to think out of the box for creative solutions. I have spearheaded numerous committees at my company to help evaluate the feasibility of major new projects. One note worthy project was the setting up of new 10 million tonne steel plant on the eastern coast of India. After my findings and in-depth study it was scrapped ceremoniously. I have been the official Think Tank for all Value Engineering workshops/teams, apart from my normal routine

   UTOPIAN HEALTH CARE MANAGEMENT  - A SNEAK PREVIEW

DEFAULTING CORPORATIONS ASKED TO FIX UP THE DAMAGE

Time has come to take a peep into the CRYSTAL BALL for the Western half of the world.  The doctor – medicine scene has degenerated beyond repair. It has reached levels of INSANITY. These food manufacturers continue marketing richer and bigger portions again and again, expecting different results every time.  In short they have embraced SELF DEFEATING policies and egoistic attitudes, that their corporations are more important than the nation. The picture changed radically for worse, by 2020, which is just around the corner. Like the housing market, this bubble burst with such catastrophic effects, that some harsh steps had to be taken, within the basic frame work of total freedom.

INNOVATIVE SOLUTIONS FROM GLOBAL THINK TANKS

The best think tanks in the world were summoned to find innovative solutions to this devastating problem. They brain stormed and came up with these following proposals. The anti lobbying law was enacted and passed banning any spending by these hungry corporations on lobbying of every kind, direct or indirect. Another sub law was added to the above, which made it legal, for the affected public and the governments to sue these companies for playing with health of future citizens of the nation, for staggering compensations.

EMPOWERING THE PUBLIC & PRIVATIZING  HEALTH CARE

The federal taxes for personal incomes and corporate profits were marginally reduced and the health care plans dissolved.  The message was clear. Here, take your money and manage your own health with your very own personalized health care plans.

RECALL OF DEFECTIVE VEHICLES LOGIC, APPLIES TO FOOD COMPANIES TOO

In lieu of the reduced corporate taxes the corporations were asked to take up the responsibility of health care management and expenses. The law makers additionally argued on the following premises. If the auto manufacturers are compelled to recall millions of defective and unsafe vehicles which could possibly lead to fatalities down the road, then why not apply the same logic to the food manufacturers.                

MISLEADING THE INNOCENT PUBLIC TO INGEST WRONG STUFF 

The food and liquor manufacturing companies were directed to take over the hospitals and fix up their mistakes of misleading the innocent youth on the fatally wrong path. They were required to manage clinics and hospitals, with the profits they made off the poor gullible public, who were Hexed by these very corporations with their false propaganda.

The hospital for mouth and lung diseases was allocated to the tobacco companies.

The hospital for obesity and heart diseases was offloaded on to the food corporations and liquor commissions.

The diabetic clinics were handed over to coffee cafes, tea kiosks, chocolate companies, and candy manufacturers.

The mental health institutions were forced upon meat processing and gaming corporations.

Thus the government washed off their hands from the painful and perpetual issues of health care, its cost-burden and management. This way a major catastrophe was averted very smartly and profitably. The above innovative change was a Utopian step for the troubled West.

TRANSPARENT PREMISE OF THESE FOOD COMPANIES

It worked because these companies managed their hospitals and clinics very professionally and effectively, keeping the same philosophy of CUSTOMER FIRST. They adopted a unique pattern of admitting patients into the clinics and hospitals. They adopted a two window system: PAYING window and NON-PAYING window. The paying window was reserved strictly for indolent, alcoholics, smokers, overweight, and addiction prone public. The non paying window was reserved for active, teetotalers, non smokers, lean and addiction free public. The premise of this system was transparent and simple. If a person could afford rich foods, exotic liquors, expensive cigarettes and luxurious cars then he could afford to pay for his costly illness and sickness too. These companies were happy making additional profits off the rich man which helped pay for the poor non paying patients who truly required the expensive treatments. It did not make sense with these companies that people should consume in large quantities, stick with harmful habits, and ask for medical treatments at the same time. For example a chain smoker would demand medical treatment for his asthma/throat cancer, how foolish is his logic.

ANALOGY OF HOLES IN THE BUCKET 

It was like filling up water, in a bucket which had big holes at the bottom. Why would anyone use such a defective vessel, to fill up and truly believe that it will fill up at some point of time? It was akin to try and button up your jacket only to find out that it has a zipper for closing up.

“These coarse people of bad habits and shallow judgments do not deserve such a beautiful and anatomical a structure as the human body. They deserve merely a sack to put in food and let out again.” I fully agree with Lala Hardyal who wrote this many years ago.

PARADIGM SHIFT - PREVENTIVE MEDICINE

These corporations additionally & cleverly leased out all the health clubs and fitness gymnasiums in the country. It was free for all, but mandatory for the non paying clients to use them on a regular basis. It became more important to prevent than to cure. Hence 80% of the effort was spent on prevention and just 20% on curing the malady. This major paradigm shift brought down the total cost of health care drastically. The idea is that the doctor takes a back seat and allows the common public to take personal responsibility of their health. The Doctor was supposed to be a coach/counselor and that was the original idea to have family doctors to help in preventing the diseases rather than curing them.

VOTE POWER OF PUBLIC TO BLACK MAIL THE GOVERNMENT 

Today it does makes sense with the governments handing out free health care plans, no questions asked. If they ever did question, then their governments would be voted out of power, on the basis of discrimination. This is the key word. The power of the public to black mail the governments. The future of these governments can be seen in the crystal ball.                     

We do not need another Nostradamus to tell us what is going to happen 10 or 50 years from now. The writing is on the wall, for every one of us to read, if we want to. This global writing too is heavily coded and to get the real meaning it must be deciphered locally.

Personally, I feel the above Utopian approach and health care model, has to be tried out in an educated manageable   advanced country like Norway or Switzerland first to make a success story and then the rest of the world will line up  to borrow the concept, of course at a high cost and perpetual royalties for life. My intuition says that sooner or later the world has to come to its knees begging for such a unique solution to the most pressing and financially draining problem. How do the industrial manufacturers maintain their factories/plants & stay ahead of their competitors? Naturally by following the same very preventive maintenance concept they stay ahead. It should  definitely work in the Medical field too equally well. I am suggesting a pilot project on a country level as we do in any engineering field.

Rohit Khanna - A Think Tank, Industrial Engineer, Reiki Doctor.