IMBIBING VALUES - SIMPLICITY IS THE BEAUTY OF ALL VALUES

  SIMPLICITY IS THE BEAUTY OF ALL VALUES - IMBIBING VALUES

  LESSON ON MONEY

Children do pick up, the wrong lesson, that money is more important than personal honor and it is OK to do, what ever is required of you, to get the money you need to live. On the other hand, you should learn that making do, with what you have, is more important, than asking for what you want. It is the root of all evils. Lack of money and excess of money, both situations are dangerous and undesirable.

MONEY IS POWER.

It gives you freedom of choice. People living in the false world, of money, are vegetating more and living less. Money can buy any commodity that you desire. Sex is also a commodity and most of us buy it. Rich people own many wives, for the sake of sex. The Nizam of Hyderabad had 500 wives. He could afford them all, with so much wealth to spare. It was impossible to remember all the 500 names of his wives; hence he numbered them for sake of convenience. Women were his possessions, like his jewels and gold for display and enjoyment. People pick up the wrong lessons, regarding money, invariable. Sexual energy is suppressed and postponed for a future date. They channel this energy into ambition, and power. They want to hoard up money. They become money maniacs. Their love is money and power. How wrong?  

EVEN A KING GOES EMPTY HANDED

Alexander the great almost conquered the whole world and had everything he wanted. He died young and was not very happy. When he died he wanted to convey a very important message to the world. The message of going empty handed, when departing from this world, even when you are a king. So he had a special casket made, where his hands could be seen hanging outside the casket. The path of his funeral procession was strewn with all the gold and jewels, to prove that you cannot buy your way out of death. Alexander also made his personal physicians and doctors to carry his casket, through the funeral procession, to tell the world, that doctors and their medicine cannot save you from the clutches of death, under any circumstances. It is just a hit and trial operation. Do you get this message, which he understood ages back? Since he was a king he could demonstrate it for posterity, by ordering his doctors to do his bidding.

CATCH THEM EARLY - TEACH BY EXAMPLE

It must absorb the prints of its handlers. It cannot be helped. In the process of handling, the handlers can leave varieties of marks on their “Glass”. It can range from a minor smudge, a little crack to a major damage. The damage of neglect, silence, hate, and violence always lasts for the entire lifetime of the youth. Therefore handle children with utmost care and tenderness. 

  

 MISHANDLING CAN BE DISASTROUS - WOUNDS & BLEEDING

Young children get wounded and confused. By the law of attraction they beget more wounds and confusion as they move on in life. Abuse and betrayal begets abuses and betrayals.  It is the snow ball effect. Getting hurt and moving on without healing the hurt means getting hurt again. You attract only what is known to you. You are in a disadvantageous position that something else, besides hurt, also exists. Acceptance or rejection of how you are treated by others is a function of how you feel about yourself. When you are wounded you bleed. It is the bleeding that makes you feel bad. The way in which the wounds are inflicted determines how long and badly you bleed. Superficial cuts, deep gashes, and internal wounds are the three basic types of wounds to be handled. In most of the cases the bleeding continues over extended periods of time bringing pain along with it too. Here you learn the wrong lesson of not liking yourself at all. Instead of healing the wounds and stopping the bleeding, we go astray and try to absorb the bleeding with food, cigarettes, and even sex. The blood continues to flow out. It oozes out from your heart, mind, and spilling over into your life, which is not a good picture about yourself. Your self worth and self esteem takes a nose dive down into a spiral. This whirlpool ends up in misery.

Rohit Khanna  - No inner mental conflicts therefore IN-HARMONY 

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THE ANATOMY OF FEAR - BECOME FEARLESS

THE ANATOMY OF FEAR - CAN HELP BECOME FEARLESS


INNATE INTELLIGENCE

The infant Soul fears nothing & no one. It has just started with a clean slate, no past, no memory, yet, to refer back. Its co-creators are always a cry away, whenever needed. Fear is a potent emotion, which we all acquire on our way to growing up. The biggest fears are of the unknown, death, being rejected, darkness & heights. It is mobilized energy, like the blowing winds of a hurricane, uprooting & displacing everything that comes in its path of travel & destruction. This sweeping energy of fear follows subtle INTENTIONS, is controlled by THOUGHTS,  & directed through WILL.  The choice is always dependent upon the learned / foolish Soul. This over powering energy has the poor Soul fully in its grip, as if it is the Master & the stupid Soul is its obedient servant.  This is the Mind component of the Soul, the other two being, Intellect & Sanskars or Memory.

LAWS OF VIBRATION - BOOMERANGS BACK
 
Fear Energy Obeys the laws of Vibrations. Our reactions always fit our expectations. The energy is sent out first & then it returns back to its sender, exactly like a Boomerang. You reap what you sow. Can not blame it on destiny, fate or God. Fleeting TRESPASSES instantly become your permanent KARMA which can not be undone or erased by OOPS. We all use this word Trespasses in our morning prayers, without comprehending its depth & implication in our day to day activities. Trespasses are LUSTFUL desires, triggered by the attraction of the superficial Costumes of the Souls around us or enticing material objects, for fleeting moments of pleasure & joy. They last for microseconds only, but Bad Karma gets created for many lifetimes to come. The moral of the story is to be Super careful about getting entangled in wasteful trespasses, intentions & thoughts. LOOK but don't SEE, the the objects of desire & allow the mind to register them. The solution is to be Soul Conscious all of the time. It is difficult but possible. Replace this energy of FEAR with the energy of LOVE. We love not to give it nor to receive it, but to Share it. To love & be loved in return, otherwise the sole alternative is Loneliness. Love is God's Stimuli.  
    
MENTAL-ISM IS INFECTIOUS

The movement this Thought Energy inside the Mind of the  Soul is termed as MENTAL-ISM, which triggers all the major glands in our brain & body to produce magical chemicals called Hormones. These hormones are extremely essential for the growth & survival of the human body, which is a perishable Costume for our eternal Soul in this life. The thought of a lemon makes the mouth water with excess Saliva. The uttering of three magical words - I LOVE YOU brings about miraculous transformation in our bodies, heightened heart rate, drying of the mouth, & blushing with pink cheeks.    The polarity of this Thought Energy decides the quantity of the hormone secreted by the glands & injected into the blood stream for action. Positive Polarity of energy like Love, Peace, Bliss stimulates the glands optimally to produce the right quantities of hormones, while the negatively polarized energies of hate, anger, violence, irritation over stimulate the glands to produce in excess quantities, which act as STEROIDS & cause havoc in the body. When you double up on any one ingredient, like salt in your favorite recipe, you ruin it & now have to  trash it totally. Imagine if you messed up, on all five of the ingredients in your recipe.   

WHAT EVER YOU FOCUS ON EXPANDS IN LIFE

Heightened negative THINKING is excessive WORRY, combined with obsessive ANXIETY of the events that have not yet happened. - Go figure. You become an instrument for manifesting  such happenings, which you wish to avoid in the first place. The Energy of Fear follows you around. It is self fulfilling & has the power to expand when you focus on it. You WILL it to materialize. In your external world of matter, events take place with the help of your own Willful thinking energy - Good or Bad. The same energy creates your internal world of human anatomy. Our energy is unbiased. Now the ball in your your coat of mind. Therefore you decide which POLARITY of thought energy you will harbor in your Mind for most of the waking hours. 

TOXICITY OF NEGATIVITY

The negative energy of Fear is highly Toxic & infectious. It is the cause of major diseases in our delicate body. First it affects the brain by causing irreparable damage to its Neurons. Next it cascades down into the heart to accelerate the Cardio activities, which mushroom as Hypertension & finally reach a dead end of Diabetes. Our caretakers & handlers are bound to leave permanent marks behind on the pristine minds of their innocent Souls.  The auto reactions of our young minds, to the sudden painful actions of their abusive parents, is to Suppress the Energies of Fear. This suppression blankets & blocks the creative energies of growth too, leading to Dwarfism, both physical & mental. The underlying fears are bound to escape any how & therefore they surface up through the softer areas of the body like stomach.  It can manifest in the abdomen area  causing chronic Indigestion, leading to ulcers of the stomach. It can also pop up in the reproduction system as Impotence & PMS. All add up to put pressure on the fragile Immune system of the body making it highly susceptible to other diseases additionally. 

RECIPE FOR MISERY

The seeds of miserable lifestyle are surely sown in childhood very early in life. Self-esteem, or commonly known as self-confidence is the single most key ingredient in determining ones attitude later in life. Parents can help build up this prime raw material or miss out on it totally. Apart from missing out, parents unconsciously help build up negative esteem which grows like a fungus and takes roots so firmly that it can never be rectified ever. The core of the negative esteem is FEAR. It is injected into your mind, soul and body very slowly, and you as an innocent soul absorb it unconsciously. In all your early years, this dragon of fear if hammered into you thousands of times till you give up and accept it meekly against your will. It starts with fear of God, fear of society at large, fear of other people, fear of loss of the Family Honor and Respect, all invisible entities that exist only in the mind of elders around you.

OTHER PEOPLE’S PERCEPTION IS MOST IMPORTANT

To be exact, it the fear of what other people might think of your actions, behavior and dealings.  Their thinking about you was more important, than your own life. In short you were utterly confused and tormented mentally about these invented ghosts.  All this lead you into a doubting Tom. You walked the planet like a vacillating idiot, perpetually in a dilemma, to be or not to be, to act or not to act at all. Of course you choose to err on the safe side and held back everything, closed yourself in a shell, instead of opening up, blossoming up and growing up normally and fully functional.           

MOVING AHEAD WITH BRAKES ON

You moved ahead in life with brakes on. You inched forward at snail slow speed while others raced fast by you over taking you at top speed, and you watched helplessly. The brakes can be quantified as over protective parents,  never letting you be alone, breathing over your shoulders, helping you in every task, you did as if you were mentally challenged already. This did lead you to be partially mentally challenged eventually. The “brakes on” mode generated heat and pain in you.

TAKING EVERYTHING PERSONALLY - GOING THE WRONG WAY

You ended up feeling hurt at all times, nursing past hurts and never forgetting them, feeling upset and dissatisfied with everything and everyone, taking every remark, situation personally, allowing yourself to switch off hundreds of times in a day. Being unhappy without any reason whatsoever, always complaining and blaming others, including your God was an everyday routine. The over whelming feeling, of scarcity in your life, in spite of having everything, never left you! A closed mindset and I know all, attitude was a big help too. All of these special qualities made sure that you had very limited physical skills and lots of self-limiting beliefs.

I cannot speak in public.

I cannot change my profession.

I cannot manage in a new town.  

I cannot handle sales and strangers.

I cannot swim or go sailing, boating.

I cannot give up the entire existing environment.

That everything is wrong and nothing is right.

That the whole world is plotting against you.

This is a superb recipe for misery. We as parents need to understand, where we are, leading our, children to?   

SELF PRISONERS IN THE MAKE BELIEVE PRISON OF  PUBLIC OPINION

Public opinion is created by imperfect people. It is their combined perspective of ancient yardsticks brought forward & borrowed from the 15 Th century. In this time period our great great grandparents had stone dull Intellects & did not question their collective core beliefs / yard sticks. They happily assumed & firmly believed that the Earth was flat, the Sun went around the Earth & things heavier than air could never fly. Now what do you want to say to this basic premise on which all the other numerous notions were based. Today you are the advanced generation with razor sharp Intellects, yet you are anchored deeply in this foolish Public Opinion & influenced by it 24/7. I would say it controls you & your behavior, even after the lapse of 5 centuries when technology has proven them wrong & made them look foolishly small.   

PUBLIC OPINION CONTROLS US

Public Opinion is just a random, off the cuff conglomeration of opinions, but we mistakenly take them  as Absolute & swear to live our lives by them. They hold the power to make each of us uncomfortable inside our skins.

WHAT WILL THEY SAY ?

The most feared & often  used phrase goes as follows : WHAT WILL THEY SAY ? Who are they is another big question ? They constitute a handful of known folks, like your school friends, neighbors, office colleagues & a large number of unknown strangers in the crowd on the streets. The second part of the four letter syntax is What they will say ? Honestly it is the fig of your imagination at play. You never hear what they say or said. It is their silent meaningless looks, shallow judgments processed in their minds, preconceived notions/opinions & teasing ridicule that they enjoy momentarily at your cost. 

VIRTUAL PRISON MAKES ONE UNCOMFORTABLE

You chain yourself in the Virtual prison of multiple walls erected around you. The walls are made up of SELF- DOUBT, IMPERFECT, ILLUSIONS, MORALITY.  These powerful walls act like microwaves cooking up inside of you, feelings of LOW SELF RESPECT, NOT GOOD ENOUGH & UNACCEPTABLE. Over time these negative feelings mushroom into powerful toxic Emotions of ANXIETY, MENTAL SUFFERING making you extremely UNCOMFORTABLE INSIDE YOUR SKIN.

OBSESSIVE THINKING

Heart is influenced by inputs from outside world, the majority of which are related to Public Opinion. Based upon these inputs it creates feelings & emotions of negativity mostly. Our relationships affect us directly hence we are predominantly focused on OBSESSIVE THINKING about people & trifle issues. Our thinking is molded by how society will think about us in a future time period & our behavior. We are imprisoned by our intangible thoughts about the future, in the present moment.  

Question - Is it possible to come out of this Self Imposed Prison ?  The answer is YES, but at a cost of another complex dilemma. If I am OUT of this prison & all others are IN, then again I am isolated, to be branded as different, marginalized, even ostracized which brings us back to square one - Uncomfortable inside my skin, socially unacceptable. 

WHAT IS THEN OK ?

Now the FUNDAMENTAL QUESTION arises, If the above solution is not OK then what is OK. Anything that makes you COMFORTABLE INSIDE YOUR SKIN is OK. So let us pursue it & see where we arrive. 

INTERNAL BUZZ

The turbulent waves of the society generate a toxic environment from where the average thinking mind picks up the negative vibrations. These inputs trigger perceptions & associations which are an obstruction in our day to day performance as human beings. Over time these hurdles snowball into low grade anxiety which is akin to constant  background noise. This buzz makes us feel heavier & drains out most of our productive energy making us into weak Souls. As weak souls we perform our karmas against our Conscience thereby creating Internal conflict. This inner fighting compels us to compromise our Integrity which of course is counter productive.

WILL POWER

All the above mental distractions & weaknesses obstruct our Clarity of Thinking. At this point WILL POWER can help us, steer away from this crap of negativity & free our overloaded  minds from these interference & make it available for the subsequent stages of Concentration.

Initiation is a decision to think about a subject. The very first thought must be : I am a point of light. I am an Eternal Soul. Hold this thought for some time. It is the essence of Consciousness of the Human Beings.

Intellect is the Instrument of the Conscience that chooses the focus of Concentration. Allow exclusive thoughts to penetrate into your mind.  This will lead to more subtle thinking. Going deep into the mind refines the intellect. Conscience is the power of discernment. Ultimately we come to terms with the fact that we pay attention to go with the positive, in-spite of the excitement of the negative within us. 

GUILT & FORGIVENESS

Our past leads us into feeling GUILTY. It weakens our personality. Can we clean up the guilty conscience with forgiveness. Can I forgive myself. If Yes then with what Authority. Therefore it is difficult for us to forgive ourselves. Hence have MERCY for self. Go easy on yourself.
   

ARE WE GOOD COMPANY FOR OURSELVES

In fact, we don’t want to keep our own company because, we really do not like ourselves very much, hence we avoid ourselves by engaging in the company of others & /or stupid distractions, gadgets, media, games, parties! Paradoxically, the more I get to know me, the more I can get to like myself. Time is such a commodity that it can easily get sucked up by those around you, unless you consciously decide to slot in a time for your own self!  When was the last time you actually enjoyed your own company without the dependency of another interesting person/tech gadget. Making time for the self is healthy and allows you to regain your balance, rejuvenate your energy, so that when you step back into the world, the family or the work team, you are able to be your self & give more of yourself. This aspect raises your personal productivity. As you give yourself permission for this you will begin to realize that in taking out an hour for yourself, there is tremendous benefit for the self and that you are able to give back quality time, appreciation and attention.  It also allows for the creativity to flourish, thoughts to spring easily& naturally rather than through force. It further slows the thought process, calms the breath, reduces stress levels &allows for a clearer decision making process. The analogy of spending the time to grind the Axe to sharpness or continuing using the dull Axe, unproductively is very fitting here.  

TIME FOR CONSTRUCTIVE HIBERNATION

It is an act of Mother Nature that every organism needs time to replenish, refill, and renew - without it the species perishes.  In the same way, what will I be able to give others if I am empty inside?  Often, when I am feeling frustrated, annoyed or irritated at people & situations, it is not because the other party is the problem, but because I am not getting my own needs met. I am not getting ample sleep, rest, space & quiet time.  This results in a raised level of discomfort within my self. Spending time alone is not frightening, as some people think, nor is it a waste of time, nor a reason to feel guilty.  To spend time in solitude walking, thinking & getting to know one’s own mind, thoughts, feelings, emotions is actually incredibly healing. If silence & solitude are scary to us it is because we don’t know ourselves.  Just as in some relationships, we find the people we don’t know quite scary. But once we discover their beautiful facets it becomes another story.

TECHNOLOGY HELPS US TO WASTE TIME

Spending time with ‘The Self’ does not mean watching TV, interacting on Facebook, playing video games, shopping or reading magazines. It just means that you have mutually exchanged some noise & distraction.

Total waste of such valuable time which is a scarce resource. It’s time to respect and appreciate yourself by taking out quality time for yourself.  You will become stronger, happier, better, more thoughtful, more loving and a more interesting person to be with.  It is in fact one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself. Gossiping, criticizing, idling, dilly dallying, worrying, indolence are a few of the time bandits.  These habits steal our time and attention leaving us very little for when we really need it.  When people say, “I don’t have time”.  They really don’t want to admit otherwise & willingly participate in a newer venture of self reformation.  Learning to be honest with ourselves will help filter unnecessary tasks, habits.  Plan the big change in a small way.  Spend time with yourself each day to get to know yourself. Once a week treat yourself to something special. A meal by yourself, instead of talking, texting & gulping food down, enjoy every morsel you eat. Take a long walk, allow yourself to absorb every detail of the scenery, as though you are seeing it for the first time.  Take time to journal your thoughts, write an article, a poem or a song.  Sit in silence and watch the sun come up and enjoy the wonder of nature and the wonder of your own self.  Meditate on your innate qualities of peace, love and truth and learn to just BE. If I look for the treasures that are deep inside, instead of seeing faults & beating myself up, then I may just make a new friend, inside of me.  Thus the journey of acceptance, forgiveness and self-appreciation begins.

  

BEING IS BLISS

We spend more time as human ‘doings’, than as human beings.  More and more, people are rushing to get onto their next ‘thing’ or next ‘high’.  And in the process, they miss the magical joy of the moment.  In a state of mindfulness, we enjoy the task at hand. We save time this way. In life everything has its own time, place and season.  There is a season in which to till the soil, a season in which to plant the seeds, a season in which to reap the harvest or enjoy the fruits of hard work.  Most of all be flexible.  If things aren’t going the way you planned, it’s not the end of the world.  Hence if you can understand the rhythm of the seasons, you can begin to be more patient with yourself. It’s Time to realize that I am the master of time; there is no shortage of time.  Break the illusion that there will be more time in the future!  What I need to do, I need to do it now.  Don’t listen to the internal committee of useless and negative thoughts; take courage, prioritize what is important in your life and take that first step.  Once you step onto the boat… the rest is plain cruising and you’ll have the time of your life!

IN LIFE YOU WIN WARS BY LOSING BATTLES

Real life is a bit different from sport, where the only objective is to out do your opponent and win at any cost.  If we create the same rules of win/lose in our personal lives then our premise will be that one has to lose in order for the other to win.  In daily life however, since we are vying for the heart which is more encompassing and embracing, win/win outcomes are indeed possible and we just have to learn to ‘serve’ generously and graciously with our

feelings! Relationships are indeed an investment and will reap generous dividends if you have invested prudently.  Constantly withdrawing from the balance will not leave me much ‘at a time of need’. I need to ensure that I am giving and not just taking, or if I have taken, then to ensure to return something back immediately before the account depletes too quickly.  But the winner takes a step further; he does more than the average, he gives more of himself than the average athlete!

COOPERATION OUT SMARTS COMPETITION IN MATTERS OF HEART

If people seem to be playing games with you, then choose not to be against them, choose not to be their opponent – this is exactly what gives them power over you; one-up man-ship.  Most conflict occurs when there is an opposition created, a rivalry, a “them” and an “us”, you versus me.  But if we can see ourselves on the same side, two people wanting the same thing – then we are not enemies, but partners.  We both want the same thing; we are just going about it from different angles.  So take courage and change the rules of the game! Timing too is pivotal in‘triumphing’ our relationships; it takes a certain spiritual discernment to know what to say, as well as when and how to say it.  What will be that prize-winning word or statement that will touch the soul, secure trust and launch an alliance?  Sometimes due to our embarrassment or ego we miss the opportunity to say what we genuinely wanted to say and that moment is lost forever. Sometimes accepting defeat is also part of the game.  But remember, we may have lost the battle, but we have not lost the war.  We may have lost the argument, we may have lost the match, but the surfer knows, there will always be another wave! It’s time to pay attention to every thought, every second, to every moment and every breath, for the winner pushes himself more than the average athlete.  In every breath let me remind myself that I am a soul, a point of light, a radiant energy, and glowing, shining mirror.  Give more than you take.  And don’t become hopeless because another wave is on its way right now!

THEY LIVE BY TIME

Act now! Time is slipping away. The tiger of death is approaching fast. You must reach Home quickly. If you value your soul you will make an honest effort. For everyone to be that patient in this life is an arduous task to ask. For they live very fast now and die young. They do not know how to live, because they live by Time. They must do their tasks in a certain perimeter of time or they shall never accomplish them. As long as they feel that way, they shall never accomplish it. They will have only lived by time and that will be the only accomplishment in this life and next life too.

DESIRING HAPPENS IN FUTURE TIME

The present moment is so atomic, so small that you cannot move in it, you can only be in it. You cannot DESIRE in it. Desire needs future, more time. If you are ambitious you need an entire life time to achieve all that you desire at the cost of today.  Time exists because of human desire. It creates future. The mind manufactures it all. Your moods decide how time will move in a relative way.  

PRESSURE OF TIME

Timing and timelines are the cause of our emotions. On a holiday everything seems to go very smoothly. On a long vacation you are 100 % relaxed and you have the best of the emotions in you: joy, happiness, calm, and carefree. You are exhilarated and time seems to fly past you. The vacation seems to be shrinking, like you just started yesterday. When you are making love on a cruise ship, time stands still or seems to stand still even though the ship is moving. But come Monday all hell breaks loose and you all are tensed up. You are desperate in the early morning rush hour stuck in a traffic jam. Time is running out, you are getting late for office. Then your neighbor walks into your office to discuss his problems. You are bored to death by his presence. Time stands heavy.  In pain time lengthens and tends to stop. If a loved one is on a death bed and in their last stage, then time will hang up. Hell is eternal. Timing and timeliness have a purpose. The purpose is to enable us to make our choices. The fundamental choice to experience peace or conflict; love or hate; action or indolence; today or tomorrow.

SENSE OF TIME AFFECTS OUR BEHAVIOR

Time pressure alters our behavior. Deadlines in our work routines imply threats. Lots of deadlines mean you must eventually die. The story of nervous cook illustrates this point very well. The world famous chef Kim was once asked if he could cook up an omelet in two minutes. He confidently said yes and agreed to perform the act on national TV. There was competition among many famous chefs. Kim had cooked up hundreds of omelets, always in much less than two minutes but without the time pressure. On the assigned day the stop watch was set for two minutes. The master chef was under time pressure. He started off quite well but under the pressure of meeting the deadline of two minutes he fumbled, panicked and failed miserably in front of the national audience. He himself was at a loss to understand the phenomenon.  

HUMILITY CAN HELP - JUST ACCEPT IT

This present moment is a Space–Time event within the eternal continuum. This moment is as it should be. Everything is acceptable as part of larger identity. Today does not exist in isolation. It is like a deep shoal of endless river of life. If we defile today we exert a bad influence down stream on tomorrow. You are living in hope, a promise in the future. Ambition is misleading and mischief. I will be happy when and if I have lots of money, cars, lavish house, and respectable position, status in the community. It means that Today must be sacrificed for tomorrow. The more things you accumulate, more precious time is wasted at the cost of this one life you have in hand. This life is your only opportunity. You have the capacity to be happy, by exercising your will power to choose now. Transcending the barriers of time: past, present and future! It is totally possible to cross over any time simply by concentrating and meditating. When thoughts arise in your mind and pass out alternatively in succession, there is Time. Fewer thoughts mean less passage of time. No thoughts mean no time. Time stops. No concept of duration of time. Shadow following the substance!

YOUR PURPOSE OF LIFE - KNOW THYSELF

The purpose of SCHOOLING on this planet Earth is to dissolve this Goliath of Fear. Ask your Self? What an I afraid of?  Fear of being Self. Fear of loosing my possessions or Fear of being Nobody. The answers lie within yourself. A little introspection is all that is required. SOS - Stop, Observe, Steer-away.

     

Rohit Khanna - IN-TRUST & IN-HUMAN

WE BELIEVE EVERYTHING EXCEPT CREATORS PRESENCE - wake up call

BELIEVE IT & KEEP ON BELIEVING - SAD TRUTH IS OTHER WISE

BLIND FAITH IN SENSELESS BELIEFS

Ignorance endorsed by heaven is faith - go figure.

Faith freezes your mind. Stupid Beliefs block you & prevent you from seeking higher dimensions.

God fearing has become a virtue, which is now a socially accepted phenomenon

Suffering is physical, fear of suffering is mental.

Laziness + sleepiness + carelessness + Complaining = slander without substance

If you believe in paradise then, should we send you there.

Believing that this Vessel is ME is Insanity. It has become a socially accepted Insanity.

Insanity is crossing the line. Getting angry, going mad then a little gap coming back. One day no coming back - asylum. Mentally ill, physically ill, clinically ill.  

Incentive to fall sick - good hospitals, free health care.

The child learns that by faking illness he gets attention.

It must the opposite rather, it pays to be TRUTHFUL & JOYFUL. Parents & schools to note.

Chronic ailments are self-enforced. Not in ease = disease. Selectively going the medicine route

Responsible way of living is being in Health not a patient. Good reasons to live miserably

Initial weak Belief plus present objective data gives us a new improved stronger Disbelief. If I say with authority that God Himself is here these days with us to impart Knowledge to His Long lost children suffering from memory loss , would you AGREE / BELIEVE THIS.... Of course not.   

Your misfortune, not mine.  

London bridge is in Arizona USA now.It was relocated in 1967.

We are in disbelief when such things are revealed to us. Our intellects are locked from inside & the key is missing, miss placed or lost for ever. Belief is your conviction of the truth, of a proposition without its verification. You believe in many things because everyone around you believes in them, of course without verification. In many other things, you are made to believe through repetitive coaching, counseling, advertisement watching, and radio listening. As a result of the entire above overload of information, you come to believe in many things very powerfully, dangerously, and wrongly. The belief engine chugs away, strengthening old beliefs, spewing out new ones, rarely discarding any. We can sometimes see the foolishness in other people’s beliefs, but it is difficult to see the same error in our own beliefs.

BELIEF OF YOUR BIOLOGICAL FATHER!

A young boy Tamy aged 8, was asked by his friend Tanner, aged 10, who is your father? Then Tamy said, my dad obviously. How do you know this fact for sure, asked Tanner?  Because my dad told me so. Well, go and ask your mother again. Only, a mother can tell you who your real father is, and no one else. The best part is that you got to believe your mother too, no matter what she tells you.  The first belief of all your hundreds of beliefs happens to be the belief of your biological father. Goops! Did I trigger some doubt in you?  

The bride walks down the Nave, in the center of the church & not aisles which are on the sides.

I did not know this fact, because no one told me so. We tend to take things & terminology on face value. Mind is your thought factory. You generate, manufacture millions of thoughts everyday. It never stops functioning till the last breadth is out. You manufacture both sides of the coin here: good thoughts and bad thoughts, happy pictures, and gloomy pictures, eventually successes and failures. When you think and believe in self, progress and moving mountains you get them. When you disbelief in yourself, doubting, fearing, fumbling, you go down. By switching on positive channel, looking important, having the right attitude takes you first class. While switching on negative channel, listening to bad news, looking inadequate and defeated takes you second class. Our beliefs about ourselves and the world form the framework of our REALITY. Our world behaves as much as we expect it to or as we all believe it will. If you think you can or can not, in either case you are right.

CORE BELIEFS

GOD FEARING OR GOD LOVING

These are universal, age old beliefs that the whole world pretty much believes in, of course, without reasoning and without verification.  Let us call them Grandparents beliefs. Raise your hands if anyone of you is God fearing?  All hands go up because we all fear GOD. We have been made to FEAR HIM. Should we be, fearing Him or loving Him? Definitely GOD loving! How did you get this wrong or upside down?

REMEMBERING BY HEART OR HEAD

Do you remember your nursery rhymes still?  How did you do it or were made to do it? BY HEART! I am sorry, it is not so. You got it wrong again. You remember your rhymes by brain, by head & not by heart.

EARTH WAS FLAT 500 YEARS AGO - MORONS

Our great grandparents had everything wrong side up like our well frogs. They very strongly believed that the Earth is FLAT & the Sun goes round the Earth. Also anything heavier than air can not fly. But again you see for yourself, that they were wrong. Today they fly from London to New York in a jumbo jet weighing hundreds of tones.

Ants don't sleep but definitely make wars, take prisoners & then make slaves out of them.

How interesting is this aspect of a tiny creature who seems insignificant to us. They can additionally carry loads up to ten times their own body weight.What an image of strength. Reality does not change depending upon your beliefs, and perceptions. Beliefs do not establish truth. How do we acquire these harmful beliefs?  We internalize them from our environment, parents, teachers, role models, when we are very young, innocent, raw, and quite impressionable. Belief formation is spontaneous and involuntary. What are beliefs? They are mini programs in our memory. We internalize the age old beliefs handed down form one generation to another, pretty much Stone Age stuff.                     

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS - MIND MANIPULATION

We internalize these wrong beliefs from our role models when we are very young. These dangerous mind manipulations were brought forward from centuries of the past to our role models. So now they pass them on to you helpless child in the name of culture, traditions, and values.

RELIGION WAS INVENTED BY PRIMITIVE BRAIN

The primitive man awed the birds and animals because he could not fly or hunt likes them. He feared to death the invisible spirits and all powerful forces of nature which were beyond his comprehension at that time. Therefore he started to worship all these elements to appease them for his own safety and life. It was his invention. It was the technology of Stone Age. It made perfect sense for such an undeveloped brain.

DEATH WAS CELEBRATED BACK THEN

The religious principles and practices progressed very slowly and changed from time to time. It started with Toteism, progressed to Pantheism and stopped at Monotheism, concept of one God. The primitive man had no free will of his own; therefore he believed that all actions were ordered by divine. He had the perfect attitude of acceptance and reverence. He had no concept of ego too, and therefore shifted all responsibility to the Gods. He basically lived in abundance and detachment mode to a great extent, hence was very happy and disease free. He accepted death of a loved one as part of the divine blueprint; hence it was celebrated with the whole tribe and full festivities.

RELIGION NOW AS ORGANISED EXPLOITATION

Today the same religion has taken a drastic twist for the worse and evolved into an institution for power and money siphoning, for the top few. The holy priest lives in power at your cost. Religion was invented for a purpose. The purpose is organized exploitation of the people, the masses who can not think for themselves and to keep them in subjugation. How it is done?  By making you sinful, feeling guilty, and begging for repentance and of course paying a big price. The priest makes you confess all your secret affairs that you are having, or have had in the past. Automatically, you are made to feel guilty about it. The way out of this mess is repentance and of course your charity will help his “tribe” thrive in luxury, while you rot in misery. How can you be happy, if your religion denies the natural instincts of desires, sex, daydreaming, love, and morality? You can not be happy. It places religion in the super natural realm where you can not question it or his authority. So you end up as a puppet in his hands. He wants it all: your obedience, your money and your commitment. The society has created schools for scoundrels and now expects it to churn out honest citizens. It will not happen.

SUPPRESSION & SUBJUGATION OF COMMON PERSON

We have separate schools for boys and girls. We built separate monasteries for male priests and female nuns. This separation forces suppression of the Sexual energies. Over long periods of time it can not be contained and finally it erupts like volcanoes as homosexuality and lesbianism. First the society makes you gay and then condemns you for acting out as a pervert. You feel guilty deep inside for what you have become. This is what they want. Your subjugation to them! These relationships are based on lust and not on love; hence they are short lived, meaningless, unproductive, and unacceptable in the wider society. The partners very soon get bored with satiety and breakup violently with serious consequences, tearing apart their souls and ruining the bodies with incurable diseases.

How did the kings & Pharaohs keep the flies off themselves while eating. - They had naked female slaves smeared with honey standing near by.

Amazon means breast-less.  Female archers would cut off their breasts to accommodate the arrowhead.

Such was the dedication to mastering of skills & taking pride to excel in them.  

ABSTRACT BELIEFS

We learn that teachers, doctors, parents know best and therefore they hold enormous power over our minds and learning. From the very beginning we are told many abstract beliefs, like the tooth fairy coming and taking away our first tooth and Santa Claus coming in his sleigh to bring us Christmas presents, gifts. This is our starting point to rely less and less on our confidence, intelligence and get into the wrong Stone Age belief systems leading straight to sorrow & misery.

Opening an umbrella inside the house is a bad omen. So is walking under a ladder, and placing your shoes on the table. The good luck beliefs are pretty stupid too, like keeping your fingers crossed and knocking on wood. If the hands are itchy then money is either going out or coming in. Finally if you find a penny on the ground and pick it up then it will bring luck, because an angel placed it there.            

Nero played lyre and not fiddle, when Rome was burning. 

A lyre is a single stringed instrument while the fiddle has multiple strings.Both make the use of a bow to generate sound. We tend to take everything on face value, rarely questioning their authenticity just like the case above.

SUPERSTITIOUS BELIEFS - BASED ON IGNORANCE

They know that these beliefs are baseless stuff, yet they believe in them helplessly and act accordingly. The most common one is the belief about the number 13. It is so unlucky that it does not appear anywhere. The hotels do not have thirteenth floor ever and room number 13 cannot be lived in because it does not exist. The same belief is about number 4. Coincidentally the numerals in 13 add up to 4 also. Friday the 13th is considered even more inauspicious. Friday is very bad day for setting sail, going on a trip, bed change and stitching of garments. In various parts of the world people believe in different things, very foolishly. In Korea all ceiling fans and table fans are manufactured with timer devices. No fans ever run for ever, continuously. They believe that the fan will suck the life out of you, if left to run all day and night.

CATS AS LIFE PARTNERS OR NUISANCE

Another good one is about cats crossing your path on the streets. You have to stop dead in your path, change directions for awhile and then continue after a little break. So rigid is this belief. It is about cats leaving an electrostatic charge in their paths which could affect you, if you went ahead, of course baseless. In the West, cats are the pampered lot in homes. People live with them all day without getting charged electrostatic-ally.

FORGIVENESS is unlocking the door to set someone free, But releasing that you were the Prisoner.

Air Fresheners do not eliminate the bad odor. In fact they numb your nose & power to smell

How gullible we adults are is beyond my reasoning. Bad or stale smell is deep embedded in your furniture, sofa cushions, & mattresses.It is there to stay & you can not wish it away with expensive sprays. These spray companies are very good at fooling us.

LIMITING BELIEFS

We are all brought up with hundreds of limitations. This provides a very narrow perspective for our growth and development and puts brakes on our progress for the rest of our lives. We are made to believe that we cannot do a particular task, rather many tasks. Hence we end up with low self confidence, low self esteem and zero capabilities or skills. Later on in life your parents expect you to scale lofty mountains in one single leap. How ridiculous is their belief and style of bringing up.

HEXING IS MIND MANIPULATION

Hexing is mind manipulation, intentionally or unintentionally. It is being done to children by their parents, role models all the time. It is the imagination of horrific outcomes suggestible in negative direction mostly. The tell tale signs of people who are self hexed are as follows: It is God’s will, what can you do?  They are trapped in life, with their backs against the wall. Such people believe in the above very strongly, cooperate with HEX and give up. They often die young. Angry about being dependent upon others, pessimistic and suspicious of others, avoiding personal contact, they live their lives thus. Poor sinners, victims of circumstances of their lives, pawns of judgmental vengeful God, will continue to find bad things happening to good people.   

YEARS MAY WRINKLE THE SKIN,
BUT GIVING UP ENTHUSIASM WRINKLES THE SOUL

Nuts grow over the ground – but peanut is a legume, which grows under the ground. 

All these traits take you down hill, and you are finished.

I am stupid, not as smart as others, can’t keep up nor read well.

I don’t deserve, can not succeed because others do better than me.

I don’t belong here, unwanted, unlovable, don’t fit in and valueless.

I am lost, alone, uncomfortable, insecure, and no one sees me, forgotten, invisible.

I am trapped, unsafe, will be hurt, want to run away.

I hate myself, but want to love myself. It is egoistic, selfish to love self.

I don’t deserve to feel my feelings, enjoy life, possessions and must remain sad.

I have to be the responsible one, take care of all, and it is not safe to get help.

I was born in original sin, am evil, bad, not worthy of gods love, and others love.

I am a sinner, needs to be punished, do penance, suffer, and can not forgive myself.

People don’t listen to me, value my words, hear me out, don’t care what I say.

People are weird, got to do their thing, can never please them.

It is not safe and possible to connect with others. My faults and deficiencies will be seen.

Cars are not safe and driving is dangerous. Watch everything and keep my distance.  

Money is evil, dirty, it is sinful, selfish, and greedy to want more of it. Work hard for it.

Woman are weak, emotional, irrational, and less intelligent, hence must be controlled.

Bosporus strait is a cattle crossing path in the Black Sea.

HUMANS CAN BE HEXED AT BIRTH TO DIE AT A PREDETERMINED TIME.

In a make shift hospital in Africa a nasty midwife helped three women to deliver their babies on a very hot Saturday afternoon. The midwife hexed all three children to die at 45 years of age. The ignorant mothers were not aware of the hex. They happily went their different ways. Each child grew up to be a strong muscular man in three different locations.            

Tum was traveling back home in his car on his 45 th birthday when all of a sudden a truck hit him head on. He died on the spot, and did not make it home to celebrate his birthday.

Tim was lucky enough to be inside a bar celebrating his 45 th birthday with his friends, when a mad man pushed himself into the bar and demanded free drinks. The bartender did not comply. In the confusion only one shot was fired and it hit jack in the chest. He died on his way to the hospital.

Tad was admitted to another hospital in another town for a minor knee operation on his 45 th birthday also. He was given an over dose of anesthesia by the locum doctor and he died even before the operation was started. Thus all three men who were hexed by the midwife, 45 years ago died exactly on the same day in three separate locations. Why that midwife hexed them is best known to her. She had supernatural powers to do what she did, killed three people and got away without any capital punishment.

We never stop hearing. Our auditory fibers are not affected by anesthesia.

OPERATION THEATER ETIQUETTE

In the operation theater, in a hospital we are very vulnerable to the intentions and suggestions made by the doctors, surgeons and their assistants even though we are unconscious. In one case the intern in the OT unintentionally said that this is the worst case he had ever seen regarding kidney and bladder repair. The victim heard the loose remark of the intern and believed him. The victim’s body started to cooperate with his new belief and he never recovered fully as planned by the surgeon’s. He could never urinate without a catheter. In another case the surgeon was performing a knee operation on a middle aged man. During the operation while the man was unconscious under anesthesia, the surgeon carelessly commented that he has done what he was supposed to do for the knee to come back. This remark was wrongly interpreted by the victim patient that the knee operation had not gone as planned. His body cooperated with his new belief and he started to die soon after his knee operation. How one casual remark can kill a victim is amazing and very powerful force. This is even more effective than the suggestion of a hypnotist.

MEDICAL HEXING - WORDS CAN MAIM

Since medical doctors are held in high regard, their words, prognosis can act as bullets if not curses, and encourage the patient or the victim to die on time as decided by the doctor. Unintentionally the medical doctors HEX their patients to death. Spooky surroundings, intimidating environment, replete with x-rays machines, dim lights, radiology equipment, all put together produce fear and apprehension. Next you foot a heavy bill payment for all these services and finally the doctor gives his diagnosis, or death sentence:            

You are living on borrowed time, and this narrow blood vessel is a widow maker.

They told me it would only get worse and I would just have to live with it, or die of it.

You are going down hill fast and they said there was nothing more they could do for me.

Your tumor is a ticking time bomb, and all we can do is wait and see what happens.

You are too late to come now for the treatment. The body has become very weak to sustain the high dosage needed to help you.

THE OLD GERM SYNDROME

A medical student learns about germs, microscopic parasites, bacteria, and he develops a syndrome about them. He goes on washing his hands and cleaning himself up to 100 times a day. Sure enough he is never clean enough. He is an excellent example of self hexing. The days of the germ theory are over. Louis Pasteur pioneered this theory hundreds of years ago, when we all were neck deep into very scary diseases like small pox, typhoid, tuberculosis, polio, and rheumatic fever. They have been eradicated almost totally and are fully curable. Today the big killers are none of the above, but different ones which are not caused by our friendly germs. Instead We have cancer, diabetes, heart strokes, allergies, multiple sclerosis, mental sickness, obesity. These diseases are absolutely our doing.

THE NEW GERM - FREE RADICAL

This is the new “germ”. It is an oxygen atom that is missing an electron. This makes it hungry, ravenous, and will not stop till its thirst is satisfied and fulfilled. Therefore it attacks the first neighbor to fill itself up and stabilize. The wrong foods we consume generate the free radicals in our bodies. The only way out of this maze is to combat the enemy at its own game. The big game is ANTI OXIDANTS. Simply reverse the life style and culinary choices. This way you ingest compatible foods which do not cause free radicals and the balance sheet is favorably tipped on the Anti oxidants side. Remember, this is, life, ever renewing on autopilot. We make poor choices in our diets and life styles. No! We have no room for any choice. The market is flooded with poisonous ready to eat snacks and foods. Each package is more harmful than the next one, loaded with sugars, salts, artificial colors and dangerous preservatives. Even god cannot help you, if you continue to consume this trash day in, day out. Coke cola and Pepsi is not a drink but an acid wash. Even wine is ten times better than colas.

Boston tea party was to steal the tea by dumping it and retrieving it latter on.

PLACEBO EFFECT

It happened in India in the early 1900.  Tarpon lived in a dilapidated shack in Ranchi Bihar. One day he woke up in extreme pain in his stomach and was very sick with loose motions and abdominal cramps. He strongly believed that he had swallowed a whole lizard while he was asleep. His body was cooperating with his belief. He was taken to a hospital, where the doctors checked him out and found nothing wrong with him medically. The doctors tried everything but of no benefit. Tarpons condition was deteriorating fast. Finally the family members sought the help of a Sorcerer. He took the doctors and family members into confidence and devised of a plan.

Next day Tarpon was taken to an old cemetery in the night time to the Sorcerer where he was ready with a small dead lizard in his pocket. Tarpon was asked to drink some soap water while he chanted some Mantras. A bon fire was lighted to make it look like a ritual. Soon Tarpon started vomiting and in the commotion the Sorcerer threw in the dead lizard in the vomit pool very smartly. When Tarpon’s vomiting spell subsided the doctors joyously reported the success of the operation and pointed to the dead lizard in the pool of vomit. Tarpon saw it with his own eyes and was hexed totally. His body cooperated with his new mental belief; he recovered in two days and went home fully recovered.                                               

NOCEBO EFFECT

The human mind can be hexed in diametrically opposite directions. This is a true story of Mitchell. She is the mother of a very famous astronaut. She is legally blind and wears very thick glasses to barely feel her way around when she is moving in the house. She is a very pious, God fearing lady and a staunch Christian by faith. One day she was thrilled to learn that Chen Norbord the Reiki Master, was coming to a nearby town to deliver a talk. She believed that Chen was a Christian too like her and he happened to be a friend of her astronaut son. But as luck would have it, her son was not available to drive her to the talk. In the mean time Chen Norbord rang up Mitchell and wished she could make it to his talk. He further suggested that Mitchell should drive down on her own, since her son is tied up elsewhere. Mitchell got her vision restored magically and drove down 300 km. on her own to attend Chen’s talk. After the talk she confidently drove back another 300 km. without a hitch. It was a miracle that had happened. After two months when her son returned home he too was thrilled at the miracle. During her discussions with her son she found out to her utter surprise, that Chen Norbord was a Non–Christian. This belief devastated Mitchell so badly that her body cooperated with her belief and she lost her vision again.                                                  

Hercules was condemned to hold the world on his shoulders. He tricked Atlas to hold it for him eventually. 

OUR MENTAL IMAGES CREATE REALITY

At a football game, in California, it was announced on public address system that 6 to 7 people might have suffered food poisoning from the soda stall. Very soon some 200 people reported sick. There were many in the 200 group, who never went near the soda stall. Next day it was reported on the radio that the soda was not contaminated, soon they all became well suddenly. The body cooperates immediately. Our mind has phenomenal powers, unknown to us. A pious lady, purely vegetarian, unknowingly eats and relishes a pork sandwich. Then, when someone reminds her of the non-vegan pork, in the sandwich, she starts to vomit out. Hexed by herself, her body reacts instantaneously.

Deer’s eat poison Ivy like food & live happily. Then we kill them to eat their contaminated meat. 

BLOCKING BELIEFS

Real life traumas are the cause of blocking beliefs in us! These beliefs eventually become our blueprint for the rest of our lives. Role models and parents have powerful influence on young minds. A father repeatedly mentions to his son while his daughter is listening too: Boys don’t cry; men are stronger, more capable, and better brains than women. What meaning, is the daughter supposed to get from this repetitive conservation? Girls are weak, down play their strengths, emotionally irrational and less than boys. This is absolutely wrong but very true and very much happening all the time. We pick up the wrong lessons and then wonder, what went wrong?  Our caretakers must be mature enough themselves first, to understand the fine tuning and quick absorption rate of the young innocent human minds, which is always irreversible.

G Daimler fell for his auto dealers prettiest daughter & married her. She was MERCEDES, beautiful beyond description. 

FATAL BELIEFS

                                            

It is good to remain under pressure to perform well.

It is normal to be stressful at most of the times.

It is OK to react angrily, when provoked by others.

Fear is a healthy tool to get higher productivity.

Irritations and pain is accepted part of life.  

Deadlines motivate you to move ahead in life.

Happiness lies outside in material things/possessions.

My peace is dependent upon the other person’s behavior.


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Rohit Khanna - IN-QUEST of Soul