Showing posts with label lesson of life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lesson of life. Show all posts

Monday, 1 August 2016

LIFE IS A SCHOOL FOR LEARNING - UNSTRUCTURED FOR SURE

  

  PLANET EARTH IS A SCHOOL FOR LEARNING - UNSTRUCTURED FOR SURE

It is a lifelong tough school where we all must learn our lessons. If we do not learn our lessons set out in our curriculum then the lessons keep on repeating over and over again in our lives till we learn them really well. There are no rankings or examinations in neither this beautiful school nor any graduating years. It is all up to you to continue learning the same lessons or switch to newer lessons. The subjects and topics are limited to a handful only. They are FEAR, TRUST, LOVE, SELF WORTH, and MONEY, (Material things) in this wonderful school. The purpose of schooling on earth is to dissolve your fears. Ask, what am I afraid of?  Fear of being SELF!
SCARY ROLE MODELS & CARETAKERS
The teachers in this school can be very scary or kind if you are lucky. Our teachers and role models come in various forms. They could be your violent parents, vicious caretakers, and timid uncles, stingy aunts, caring grandmother, compassionate distant elder, a selfish employer, or a fragmented combination of the above. When we have such teachers we are bound to learn the wrong lessons or even the right lesson but upside down or inside out. Paradoxically the first thing we learn is to fear our role models, parents, and the world at large and cosmic energy too. We are doomed from day one.                               
RESILIENCE & TENACITY OF EVERY CHILD 

All in all you are left to pick up the lessons on your own, generally the hard way. As children, we learn a great deal about our ability to survive and get by in life by the way we are treated by a host of people around us. It is ultimately our ability to withstand and understand the treatment we receive as children that determines what we think about ourselves as adults.        
NO SCHOOL FOR PARENTING OF PARENTS/CARETAKERS

When your primary caretakers are distant and aloof it can be very confusing. You don’t know whether to please them or be desperately afraid of what will happen if you don’t please them. If the parent is violent, you know that if you do or say wrong things at the wrong time in the wrong way, you will get slapped, pinched, screamed at, punched or lashed at. You live in perpetual confusion and fear. Children are used as punching bags and ash trays by angry adults and caretakers to take their frustrations and anger out on them.
RIGHTING THE WRONG BY VIOLENCE - makes it worse

Adults, parents, caretakers who themselves did not learn their lessons correctly in their school, now feel powerless/at the end of their ropes, will  strike out against the one person they believe can exercise their power over. The poor child is usually not aware that this is what is going on. No explanation is given or offered. Children being very small and dependent on their caretakers feel powerless to do anything about it. The role models can profess to be sorry after the beating and promise to never do it again, but it does not matter now. The irreparable damage is already done; the child is wounded, sometimes physically and in all cases emotionally and spiritually.
HURT & WOUNDS
Young children get wounded and confused. By the law of attraction they beget more wounds and confusion as they move on in life. Abuse and betrayal begets abuses and betrayals.  It is the snow ball effect. Getting hurt and moving on without healing the hurt means getting hurt again. You attract only what is known to you. You are in a disadvantageous position that something else besides hurt also exists. Acceptance or rejection of how you are treated by others is a function of how you feel about yourself.          
YOUTH IS LIKE PRISTINE GLASS 
It must absorb the prints of its handlers. It cannot be helped. In the process of handling, the handlers can leave varieties of marks on their “Glass”. It can range from a minor smudge, a little crack to a major damage. The damage of neglect, silence, hate, and violence always lasts for the entire lifetime of the youth. Therefore handle children with utmost care and tenderness.
BLEEDING UNSTOPPABLE

When you are wounded you bleed. It is the bleeding that makes you feel bad. The way in which the wounds are inflicted determines how long and badly you bleed. Superficial cuts, deep gashes, and internal wounds are the three basic types of wounds to be handled. In most of the cases the bleeding continues over extended periods of time bringing pain along with it too. Here you learn the wrong lesson of not liking yourself at all. Instead of healing the wounds and stopping the bleeding, we go astray and try to absorb the bleeding with food, cigarettes, and even sex. The blood continues to flow out. It oozes out from your heart, mind, and spilling over into your life, which is not a good picture about yourself. Your self-worth and self-esteem takes a nose dive down into a spiral. This whirlpool ends up in misery.

PRE-DESTINED  MEETING

Dear brothers & Sisters, our meeting was pre-destined so please do not be surprised. Be very patient & listen carefully to this intriguing riddle. 

Question. Would you be a Faculty member or a Student member in this school of Life?  

You have 60 seconds to think,  contemplate on this subject matter & come to a firm decision. You may also have your personal reasons, basis & justification for the final choice. Your time starts now. Time ticks away in the dead of silence while the sun shines dry & hot on the perspiring crowd. A melodious OM Shanti breaks the pin drop silence. We are all peaceful souls. Yes or no. I hope you souls have arrived at a choice. Now relax, their is no wrong choice, because both aspects are essential to every soul in all 84 lives.   

FACULTY & STUDENT TASKS

Every Soul is admitted in this planet school with two specific TASKS in hand. To be a faculty member means to teach  very important specialty of yours to the world. To be a student member means to learn something new from this world before you depart. After the completion of the first task it is time to move on to the second task. The underlying point regarding learning is to UNLEARN the the wrong, harmful acquired stuff that we souls invariably pick up on our way to growing up. The Pure soul comes with its Innate Divine Virtues of Truth, Knowledge, Purity, Peace. Power, Love & Bliss. When the Unlearning has been done then teaching by EXAMPLE becomes very easy & simple, no additional effort on your part. These Seven Virtues will automatically shine & radiate from the face & persona of the soul.   You teach by INFLUENCING other souls with your Vibrations, fragrances & smiles. Words & speech are superfluous at his  elevated stage. This is the advanced system of accurate teaching by the Learned faculty soul. The effort needed, is in your BEING, an Easy Yogi.    

SOUL CONSCIOUSNESS  & THE  KINGMAKER


At this point you should have shed off your acquired Sanskars of Vices, Ego, Lust, Trespasses, Body consciousness of dressing up only to look good outwardly in the eyes of others, & desires of gluttony. To do all of the above on your own is a tall order to ask for, from a weak soul. Therefore Divine help in the form of Raja Yoga arrives at this auspicious Confluence Age: the end of the previous cycle & beginning of the next cycle. Raja Yoga means Union with the Supreme Soul. Weak souls learn to connect with HIM & draw upon His Unlimited Power to charge up their depleted batteries, if they choose to. The Kingmaker helps us attain Self Sovereignty over our runaway minds, thus making us into Kings from slaves. Now as Kings we Give & Give unconditionally Love & riches. A king impresses others & does not get impressed by anyone.  We finally learn the biggest lesson of life - CHOICELESSNESS. Neither desiring this nor that. Just content to BE, the BEING, a Blissful natural soul. Goodbye, see you in the next cycle. 
Personally, my first daughter, Ruchi selected us as suitable parents, for her short stay of seven years and one hundred ninety-five days, in this school on planet Earth. She had her own personal agenda for coming down to us, to teach us important lessons on NON ATTACHMENT AND COMPASSION as her world task. She did it very well by bringing with her a small hole in her heart, which was detected on day one by my learned father doctor and her grandfather, simply by listening to her heart beat. Her self-task was not known to us, but I guess it was QUALITY OVER QUANTITY LIVING, by example. We took extra care to pack 30 years of love and fun into her short span on this planet and school, living consciously every moment, hour and day. We made sure that she got full attention by postponing the next child and providing best of care possible. We specially adopted an older girl to be a companion, sister and playmate to her 24/7. She chose a short and crisp life, learnt her lesson quickly, taught her part effectively and off she went like a comet. We are very thankful to her for coming into our lives, even for a little while, and teaching us the lessons of life & living so effectively. We do not mourn her absence, but celebrate her stay with us. 


Rohit Khanna - A BK student Soul in HIS hospital cum university.