Showing posts with label acceptance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label acceptance. Show all posts

Monday 13 August 2018

ONLY THE CREATOR HAS HIGH SENSE OF HUMOR - In-ternal to Ex-ternal



ONLY THE CREATOR HAS HIGH SENSE OF HUMOR  
His world drama is the biggest comic play ever scripted. Unfortunately it is not directed by HIM. It is directed by TIME & KARMA - go figure.
Lucky is the man who can laugh on himself, for he shall never cease to be amused. 
ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY - not only about local issues but global ones too.  
Get comfortable with yourself and your opinions about life. Everyone has opinions about life & in many cases, opinions can be humorous to other people. People who are naturally humorous are typically willing to find humor in both themselves and their opinions. If you are too uptight or self-conscious, it will be difficult to find humor in such things. Good-humored individuals embrace their flaws and laugh them off & let them go in a healthy way. Self-acceptance is the key to a happier life. It takes a lot of mental energy to come up with quick-witted quips that keep grins on others' faces. Those who have a good sense of humor tend to be more creative.
Devotees swear by the holy scriptures, fabricated from centuries of old memory, handed down by word of mouth that, God Krishna spoke the GITA to Arjuna. But the TRUTH is otherwise. God Shiva speaks Bhagwad GITA, now in this Confluence age to His Brahmin Students - Brahma Kumaris, which is reminisced, in the copper age of scripture writing.   

A good sense of humor responds to the flow of conversation in ways that are creative & entertaining. A good sense of humor means you can see things from different sides, angles, & in different ways.  There's a strong connection between humor and creativity.  Basically, everyone likes a good laugh. Having a sense of humor will help you breeze through the toughest periods of your life. It is desirable & attractive, because just like optimism, not everyone has it, but everyone desires it.


PREFERRED ATTRIBUTES IN A SPOUSE

The most preferred Divine Virtues of the Golden Aged Spouse are Purity, Truth, Patience, Humility & Sweetness. These five strands spin tightly into one rope of Love. Evaluate the above Love with sense of humor.  

Sense of humor is the most important human quality. A positive outlook & a sense of humor are the top attributes cited by people who are looking for a spouse / mate. 

Moreover, having a good sense of humor helps you to stay healthy emotionally, first & physically automatically. Humor helps you to release stress & to keep an optimistic attitude. When you feel anxious or sad, a good laughter can lighten your mood. 

Life is better when you are laughing. No one knows that more than good-humored individuals. Those who have a good sense of humor not only see the value in making others laugh, but they prioritize laughter themselves. As a result, they're healthier and happier for it. Smiling instantly boosts your moods. Laughing can soothe tensions & melt stress. That light-hearted attitude does help you live longer. Bring it on, birthdays.

I am a supreme soul, am bodiless but you are bodily beings.
You are now coming out of the limited and going into the unlimited.
It is the poor who have to become wealthy. 
Only a handful of you have faith, all others have doubts.
Only you long lost & now found children go around the full cycle of 84 births

WIT IS TOTAL ALERTNESS & CREATIVE THINKING
Wit is a form of intelligent humor, the ability to say  things that are clever & funny. A Witty person is skilled at making such remarks. Varieties of wit include the quip, repartee, pun & wisecrack. Wit involves a very quick mental sharpness, being able to see a situation in a unique way & instinctively  respond with a relevant comment or come back. Puns jump from one context to another by using different meanings of a single word. 

Fruit flies like bananas.
Time flies like an arrow.


LAUGHTER TRULY IS THE BEST MEDICINE - EXTERNAL MATTER  
Humor always involves amusement outwardly manifested by a smile, chuckle or laughter. But what are all those chuckles actually doing for your body? People who have a good sense of humor use it to their advantage. Those giggles stimulate the organs, improve the immune system & well being.
It takes merely 4 Risorius muscles to SMILE & 44 Zygomaticus muscles to FROWN. A full blown laughter uses 317 muscles in the body. Medically speaking Laughter is the noise you produce with partially closed vocal chords. 

For many of us, laughter is a perfectly normal part of human existence: it helps us build relationships, generates good brain chemicals, like endorphins & releases pent-up tension. It can even improve your cardiovascular function.
A good long session of laughter among-st friends & best buddies results in weakening of the body muscles & flooding of the blood with endorphins resulting in a high mental state of  Euphoria. This is the reason why teenage girls can not stop giggling over trifles, when they are together.

Start by loosening up! Remember that laughter is contagious, so if you carry yourself in an open & humorous way people will be ready to laugh.  Because we humans are wired to instinctively respond like for like, facial expressions are contagious. When taken, the homily’s implied advice to put on a happy face does work to benefit society in that smiling people cause those around them to smile.
But unfortunately for unlucky many, it's no laughing matter at all. Yet smiling is not just good for the community in which the sad sack or grouch lives; it is also beneficial to the person doing the grinning. Facial expressions do not merely signal what one feels but actually contribute to that feeling. If we smile even when we don’t feel like it, our mood will elevate despite ourselves. Likewise, faking a frown brings on a sense of not much liking the world that day.

HAPPINESS IS SILENT & INTERNAL MATTER.

Devotees blindly believe that Almighty God is OMNIPRESENT. However the Truth is otherwise. Shiva the Supreme Soul, has now given us HIS own Introduction that HE is a ball of effulgent light energy, Eternal, residing in the Soul world. Obviously we His children share the same DNA of light energy, simple souls.

March 20 th is the International Day of Happiness. A day to celebrate the importance of happiness in our lives & the world. As we celebrate International Day of Happiness every year, it's fascinating to consider the way our brain is able to detect genuine happiness in other people. Our brains are very sensitive to the social & emotional responses.
We can always tell people who are truly happy just from their laugh. The brain responds differently to fake & real laughter. People demonstrate different neurological responses when they hear false laughter. Therefore stop faking, because it does not help you in any way. When was the last time you had a true, honest to goodness laughing jag? The kind where your mouth and stomach hurt from the amazing pain of hilarity, even if you can't quite remember what started it in the first place? Well, it might be time to get back to that place & time.

BEING FUNNY IS COMIC - A PROFESSION

Being funny means being able to express humor of one kind or another, maybe a pratfall, a witty pun, or a good joke of course, well-timed. Having a sense of comedy means being able to laugh at, or see the humor in life's absurdities. Trying to be funny is usually seen as practical. physical, bitter, sarcastic & nasty.

Make jokes / gags at your own expense. Audiences appreciate when you make yourself the target of comedy. It will help them open-up and they will find it easier to laugh at both you & themselves.

Anecdotal comedy belong to funny personal stories that may or may not be embellished. Hyperbolic comedy is characterized by massive exaggeration. Ironic comedy is when the meaning of the joke is the opposite of the actual meaning. Professional comedians say timing is everything & key to comic delivery. Stories / jokes are made more funny when the teller pauses right before the punchline to build up drama & anticipation. You can also wait to laugh until a couple seconds after the punchline, that way people can never be sure if you are joking or not. Always give your audience time to laugh before moving on to a different topic.

By sitting on the pyre of Knowledge, you will become real gold & pure.

All the souls are Shiva Baba’s children but not

all children are his helpers.

Through your self-transformation, world 

transformation will become easy.

Die alive and be dead to this old world.

If you see what I see, it will take your breath

away.  Incidentally you only SEE IT when your 

breath is taken away 

JOKES MAKE UP CONVERSATION

The punch line to every joke involves a jump from one context, which the listener has been led to assume, to a different, but valid context. Jokes use a context jump to change an apparent negative to a positive.  These are especially valuable in conversation.  Arnold Palmer and Stevie Wonder meet and Arnold is amazed to find that Stevie, although blind, plays golf.  They talk about how Stevie's caddy helps him set up, aim, & swing the club accurately.  Arnold expresses great admiration, then, surprisingly, Stevie challenges Arnold to play a round - for $1,000 a hole.  Arnold is half insulted and manages to reply, You're on, when do you want to play?  Stevie replies, Oh, any night next w
eek is fine.

DRY SENSE OF HUMOR FALLS FLAT - avoid it

Much of deadpan, dry, or C class grades of humor relies upon sarcasm & depravity.  A person with a dry sense of humor tells a joke & it is not immediately obvious if it is serious or comicIt appears to be both at the same time, requiring some work on the part of the listener to discern for himself. The challenge is to "get it" in the way it was intended. A very crucial aspect to humor is its delivery by the person. Speed & accuracy are other essential components of good delivery.


Rohit Khanna  - IN-HALE & IN-CLUDE



Monday 5 September 2016

CHANGE YOUR DESTINY IN FIVE EASY STEPS - NOW


                                

        UNDERSTAND HELPLESSNESS, ACCEPT PAST, CHANGE NOW,  
        FORGIVE ALL, FORGET TOTALLY FOR NEWER DESTINY


 STEP 1   -  UNDERSTANDING YOUR ORIGINALITY  AS A PURE SOUL & YOUR    HELPLESSNESS

BEGINNING

CARETAKERS

THEIR BELIEFS
ECSTASY

ABUSIVE

MENTAL STATE





We are Pure

Parents

Skewed
Love full

Step parents

Mental
Peaceful

Grand parents

Handicapped
Fearless

Neighbors

Negative
Fully aware

Teachers

Lonely
In the moment

Coaches

Cruel
No past yet

Trainers

Dogmatic
No idea of future

Friends

Despot


Baby sitters

Hostile


Day care-staff

Suicidal


Servants

Violent


Visitors

Diseased


Uncles & Aunts

Addicted


Cousins

Stingy






STEP 2 -  ACCEPTING YOUR PAST













INTERACTIONS

YOUR BELIEFS

YOUR THOUGHTS

DISASTROUS

ANXIETY

HATE





Shouting

Afraid

Despise
Barking

Dread

Abhor
Snarling

Terrified

Loath
Yelling

Fright

Bitter
Screaming

Worried

Repulsive
Bellowing

Miserable

Disgust
Foul language

Tense

Disdain
Insinuations

Agitated

Taciturn
Bad remarks

Uneasy

Serious
Judgemental

Surprised

Vengeful
Not talking

Rebellious

Revenge
Quarreling

Discord

Stinking
Abusing sexually

Torment

Intense
Harsh

Moody

Contempt
Locking up

Impulsive

Inimical
Slapping

NUMBNESS

Sabotage
Hitting

Rigid

INSECURITY
Beating

Shocked

Cautious
Spanking

Trapped

Unsure
Caning

Closed

Fleeing
Boxing

Self limiting

Superstitious
Whipping

Stunned

Coward
Bribing

Withdrawn

Misused


Suppressed

Gestures


Cast off

Dismal


Failure

Unlovable


Ennui

Unwanted


Stupid

Unworthy


Blind

Unwelcome


No to world

Unforgivable


Wrong

Unfriendly


Irrational

Unbalanced


Destructive

Low self worth











STEP  3 - CHANGING YOUR NOW








FEELINGS

FEELINGS

EMOTIONS
VERBAL

INVISIBLE

DUALISTIC





Sighing

Hurt

Doubtful
Whining

Despair

Fickle
Cursing

Gloomy

Shaky
Moaning

Longing

Wavering
Groaning

Sad

Hesitant
Brooding

Sulky

Torn
Sobbing

Dejected

Paradoxical
Crying

Morose

Changing
Lamenting

Irksome

Checking
Protesting

Unhappy

Vexation
Weeping

Remorse

Conflicting
Nagging

Deary

Indecision
Complaining

Melancholy

Critical
Frowning

Displeased

Polarity
PUT DOWN

Tearful

CONFUSION
Left out

MISERY

Baffled
Lost

Depressed

Perplexed
Alone

Trauma

Puzzled
Crushed

Grief

Crazy
Defeated

Deaden

Strange
Abused

Nightmares

Bewildered
Insulted

Mortification

Mesmerized
Rude

Tongue-tied

Foggy
Impolite

Tragic

Dismayed
Scolded

Suffering

Skeptical


Dull

Flustered


Anguish

Delirium


Nail-biting

Embarrassed


Ugly

Abstract


Sick

Subjective


Hopeless

Relative




Illogical




Inconclusive






STEP  4     -  FORGIVING ALL   CAREGIVERS








EMOTIONS

BEHAVIOR

BEHAVIOR
SCATTERED

LIFELESS

COMPLEX





Indifferent

Drained

Bonded
Wandering

Tired

Dependent
Absent

Exhausted

Alienated
Forgetful

Rundown

Separated
Distracted

Indolent

Suspicious
Vacant

Inactive

Crowded
Busy

Lazy

Limited
Preoccupied

Beaten

Stupid
Detached

Powerless

Withdrawn
Dreamy

Listless

Distancing
Blank

No energy

FLAWED
Empty

Wasted

Imperfect
Air-castles

Bored

Faithless
Absorbed

Blocking

Sensitive
Inner-noise

Brakes on

Homesick
NOT GOOD

HYPER

Childish
Under-par

Talkative

Careless
Helpless

Restless

Holding
Futile

Troubled

Prostration
Timid

Desperate

Begging
Shy

Hurry

Asking
Hiding

Rushing

Taking all
Small

Disorganized

Pathetic
Soft

Stressed

Borrowing
Fake

Gossip

Neglecting
Shameful

Persuade

Inferior
Anybody

Arguing


Invisible

Emotional


Inhibited




Introvert











STEP  5  -  FORGETTING TOTALLY, NO INNER CONFLICT








PERSONALITY

DESTINY

DESTINY
VIOLENCE

VANITY

SELFLESS





Hostile

Egoistic

Lovable
Evil

Pride

Satisfied
Macho

Haughty

Conscious
Bully

Conceit

Content
Bashful

Headstrong

Sacrificing
Provoking

Inflexible

Reliant
Chaotic

Obstinate

Assured
Zealous

Unmoved

Control
Kill

Fanatic

Seeking
Murder

Dictatorial

Starter
Attack

Domineering

Styled
Mad

Oppressive

Taught
Panic

Ungrateful

Educated
Punitive

Possessive

Composed
Cruel

Judgemental

Mature
Wicked

Controlling

Confident
Malicious



Assertive




Polite




Caring




Empathy




Cool




Blissful




Happy





Stable



Rohit Khanna - Sharpening my Ax of Intellect to cut fast & easy.