LOVE IS JUST A CATALYST IN OUR LIVES

  

THE PLIGHT OF OUR WOMEN MIRRORS MANS OWN DESTINY

SHE IS ONLY A CATALYST

She was a MALE in the previous birth & now a poverty stricken FEMALE body, open to all kinds of abuses by MEN who were WOMEN in their last births. - KARMA RETURNS AS LUST

LOVE IS THE NATURAL STATE OF EVERY SOUL

just give unconditionally & when you don’t then…. 

Commit to being an EPIC LOVER. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Your woman deserves that from you. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.  The woman that told him ‘I do’, and trusted her life with him, has been waiting for this man to step up. If your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.

No love for work/job/making love,  then        FATIGUE

NEVER STOP COURTING.  Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for GRANTED. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man, that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

If craving for more love in present then        ADDICTION 

FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

If negating love to self then     ALLERGY

PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART. Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

If Closed & rigid to love    then     ARTHRITIS  

FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY… learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.

BE PRESENT. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.

When not open to love & bitter then      DIABETES

BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.

When In confusion & restless in present then    INDIGESTION

ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her. Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

When Controlling others in present then        INSANITY

IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER… your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.

TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.

When attached to love in present, its mine then   BLINDNESS

NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.

FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.

If Unable to give love & allow the flow then    ASTHMA

GIVE HER SPACE… The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)

When In Denial about love then     CRIPPLED

ALLOW YOUR WOMAN TO JUST BE. When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and non-judging, she will trust you and open her soul to you… DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.

BE SILLY… don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.

DON’T BE AN IDIOT…. And don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.

BE VULNERABLE… you don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.

If Afraid to lose love in future then       PARALYSIS

BE FULLY TRANSPARENT. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK… If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.

DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY. Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.

If Already lost love in past then,  Sorrow &  HEARTACHE 

NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards. In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come. Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

If seeking love in present then     INCONTENANCE (lustful) 

ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure. But these are lessons I am learning and committed in carrying forward. Truth is, I LOVED being married, and in time, I will get married again, and when I do, I will build it with a foundation that will endure any storm and any amount of time.

These are lessons learnt the hard way & too late.

 Rohit Khanna - IN-COGNITO  begets IN-HERITANCE 

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RELATING YOUR LIFE TO CLASSICS OF ALL TIMES - mid course correction possibility

SUMMARIZING  & RELATING  YOUR LIFE SO FAR. 

This is a comic attempt to help you re-evaluate your life once again, call it MID-COURSE CORRECTION POSSIBILITY.

Please check mark ONE of the flowing CLASSIC BOOK titles which you think fits your life situations, circumstances, choices, compromises, opportunities, & memorable events elapsed so far .

1 WAR & (little) PEACE - beliefs & struggles, inner conflicts

2 CRIME & PUNISHMENT - commit wrong doings & repentance

3 PRIDE & PREJUDICE - Domestic angles of all kinds

4 VANITY FAIR - faking love for lust & riches

5 LES MISERABLE S - transformation from bad to good

6 IF TOMORROW COMES - unforgiving & revengeful 

7 TO KILL A MOCKING BIRD - growing up as a child, carefree

8 GREAT EXPECTATIONS - ending in misery of course

9 ATLAS SHRUGGED - mind is the root of all: Values or Vices

10 IN SEARCH OF LOST TIME - Remembering things of ancient past, like truth, eternal bliss through original seeds of Purity.

There are no right or wrong choices.

Personally for me it is #10 choice, the BK route.

THE MINDFUL ART OF IN-LOOKING TO BE MASTERS OF OUR MISCHIEVOUS MINDS

l The whole creation has reached its IN-EVITABLE peak of decay & degradation, at the end of this cycle.

l Therefore instead of scrapping it, the IN-CREDIBLE Creator enters in the middle of the mess to salvage us out, redeem us & to restart IN-TERNALLY the IN-EXORABLE process of establishing a PURE new world, once again.

l In   this   Confluence Age, over lapping the Iron age, the IN-COGNITO Creator gives us his IN-TRODUCTION, which makes us knowledgeable about the eternal IN-DWELLER within us. 

l HE teaches us that human beings are created in HIS image, eternal point of Supreme light totally unlimited & IN-FINITE in all aspects.  Thus we once again IN-VENT ourselves   as very IN-VALUABLE beings of light too. 

l HE patiently coaches us to give up this IN-ESCAPABLE, dirty old IN-SIPID world of EGO  & LUST, voluntarily, including this worn out body.

l This is HIS    IN-JECTION  for us the impure souls to jump start the IN-CREDIBLE process of Purification. 

l We start the IN-LOOKING process & IN-VEST ourselves to become masters of ourselves, always IN-CHARGE as elevated beings. 

l This kind of continuous Pure            IN-LIVING makes us IN-VINCIBLE in the sorrowful & miserable world of  Maya & Illusions.

l The nett result is liberation IN-LIFE, this very life accompanied by boundless Peace, Joy & Bliss.

l The bonus comes in the form of IN-HERITANCE of the Kingdom of Golden Age. 

l Before this Truth was revealed to us we were IN-COMPATIBLE & totally Insane humans, but now after this IN-SIGHT we have been transformed into IN-SANE beings. 

l This is the IN-THING about Applied Spirituality when it is IN-CORPORATED into our daily routines. 

l The process is tough & requires guts of steel, faith of Hercules & enthusiasm of Buddha.

l The name of the game is IN-TROVERSION, which makes the effort applied in IN-VERSE proportions to make  an easy yogi out of you.

l If sufficiently Gullible then you are fortunate to develop Faith in the Invisible being & start the win-win, game of Trust for the rest of your life.   

Rohit Khanna - IN-FINITE & IN-VERSE.

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THE FATAL ATTRACTION OF WE SOULS - for the Divine Creator

THE FATAL ATTRACTION OF WE SOULS  for  THE  DIVINE  BELOVED  CREATOR  


Whether we like it or not, this RENTAL COSTUME must be returned to the rightful custodian, when the TIME comes. This Earth Suit, is a loan that has to paid back in full, WILLINGLY OR  FORCEFULLY - choice is yours.

PREDICAMENT OF EVERY HUMAN BEING

How does a ordinary soul, a point of light/energy fall in love with the Supreme Soul, a  point of light/energy too?

CREATIVE SOLUTION - CHEMICALLY TREATED

OXYGEN is life giving element, here on Earth. Without oxygen all of us will die. In other words we are oxygen loving beings. In an ICU when you are in precarious condition, they give you 100 % Pure oxygen to heal you back to good health. Quick fix lies in imagining your self as an Atom of Oxygen, in the true likeness of the Supreme Soul who is also an Atom of Pure Oxygen.

WE ALL ARE LIKE ATOMS OF OXYGEN -  FAST & FURIOUS

One atom of oxygen is very very unstable, furious and frantically running around to combine/connect with another equally unstable hungry oxygen atom. Once they combine  together they are stable as an Oxygen molecule now, just like any happy pair/love birds. 

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF CREATOR - BASIC VIRTUE

Our Creator is ever loving, similar to an Oxygen atom, & so is  the First Prince Krishna of the New world/Golden Age. Together they form a Divine stable pair in the Subtle region. But they both, are also waiting for the third entity (oxygen atom/us) to join them & make a new stable threesome, OZONE (O3). 
We  are   that   hungry  oxygen   atom,  wanting  to  be  with our  most BELOVED CREATOR similar but Pure, oxygen molecule. So just  become Pure, fly up, & BE together in the combined form. There is zero tolerance for Impurities up there in the  Subtle region & higher up in the Soul World of ETERNITY.

Fatal implies that we become DEAD to this old dirty world while being ALIVE & fall in Love with HIM totally & no one else.

WE ARE ETERNAL SOULS - ATOMIC & MICROSCOPIC. 

LIFE CAN NOT EVOLVE ANY FURTHER.

Why are we here, only on our planet Earth? It is because of perfect geometry in the cosmos. Solar powered life cannot evolve any further,  therefore it REPEATS ITSELF as a Drama. Drama is cosmic Karma. Collective / Omni consciousness changes the drama.  The establishment of Golden age is achieved by the tilt of North - South Poles to East & West position, which is conducive to 24/7 spring season & purity of things on the whole planet. This movement of the vertical axis facilitates the Teutonic plates of the continents to come back to their original positions as one big land mass. HE also resets the Time clock to Zero from elapsed time of 5000 years.  Since the road is extremely rough & tough only a select few make it to HIS inner circle / kingdom while the rest are left to their own fates to be mere subjects, or continue to stay FROZEN in the Eternal Soul world till the Copper & Iron ages arrive. 

THE COSMIC DRAMA & SABBATICAL

The cosmic Drama is fixed and repeats itself every 5000 years. Millions of yogis, pundits, saints, mystics, sadhus, laymen have tried very very hard to know HIM but have not only failed but missed the mark by leaps & bounds. The chief reasons for their not succeeding in this venture are : Wrong timing & Ignorance about HIS whereabouts. We have been searching for HIM for 4900 years when HE is away on a Sabbatical. HE comes to us & makes HIMSELF available only during the Confluence Age for a short period of 100 years. It is only now, that we can know HIM, meet HIM, & be with HIM. HE introduces HIMSELF to us, personally.

SCHOOLING BY INVITATION ONLY

The second most important aspect is that HE finds us & not the other way around. HE addressees us as MY LONG LOST, NOW FOUND CHILDREN. This Schooling / Meeting is by Invitation only. HE zeros in on the chosen ones, adopts them, educates them & makes them worthy of HIS Inheritance. HE has a very important task of reestablishing the Golden Era on Earth. 

ARE YOU A POSSESSION, IF YES, THEN WHO IS THE POSSESSOR

Material Values come from thinking of yourself as an Object. You say my body is male or female. If it is Mine, it is a possession, just an object. But if you say that it is Me, that means I am an Object, too. Two objects in one living mechanism, how come.
Q - Are you a possession or a possessor? Who is the possessor of this possession named Body? 
A - The real you is the Immortal Soul, who at this time, has a black male body & in the past had a white female body. This Body is warm mud packaged  in a leather bag, with bones to give it a shape. Incidentally the leather bag comes in different colors & textures. The Anatomy is same in every case.  The body is your equipment, or the costume, your are not this equipment or the costume. The Soul is made up of love, purity, peace, power, Bliss & innate wisdom. This intelligence radiates a different positive energy which changes the quality of time & matter. The dominant reality is the Soul & the secondary reality is the body. 

WHO I REALLY AM ?   SOUL, THE IN-DWELLER

Your body is a vehicle and soul is the driver of this vehicle. Just as you are the driver of your Mercedes, so is the soul of this human vehicle. You sit in the automobile and take control of it, use it to move from point A to point B. Sometimes you are careless & get involved in a head on collision with another Mercedes. In this almost fatal  accident, the air bags save you, but the car is dead or total. Now the Insurance company bails you out to buy a new Mercedes. On the same lines when the body becomes old & diseased it dies and it’s occupant or the In-dweller  the soul does not die. It is bailed out by the Divine, from the worn out body & assigned to a brand new baby body, therefore YOU are eternal - know this fact for sure. 

TIME CONSCIOUS THEREFORE SELF CONSCIOUS  

The mentality of Iron Age is going towards materialism, driven by material values. Material Values & materialism cause the mind to move into negative vibrations, which lead to Ego, a false Image of Self. Comparison generates toxic inner experiences in terms of possessions. You say I have less & those people have more. You are confusing two very important different values. WHAT YOU HAVE & WHAT YOU ARE? This basic confusion leads to corruption of mind & goals. Impurity is indulging in vicious activities. acting out lustfully for temporary gratifications with little awareness of the consequences that come along in future times, to make you miserable. Vices are reflections of Virtues, lateral inversions of the images, hence not easily recognizable, therefore overlooked easily.

INCLINATION TOWARDS SOUL CONSCIOUSNESS. 

Soul consciousness is the intention to look behind the Mask - Who Am I?  Third eye is Souls ability to perceive non physical things. It is not possible to see a Soul. You can only understand it & when you realize it , you shout with excitement - I SEE. It is an INSIGHT. Soul is the intelligent glow behind this visible living, breathing, active, moving mask. Soul is gender-less, neither male nor female. Consciousness too is gender-less. The energy of the soul gets depleted continuously as time goes by. When you sleep the soul goes into space of Silence & returns - sleep dead. Now try to Die alive too.  Why we talk so much & repeat a lot - because we are afraid of SILENCE. Your body has the DNA of your biological parents, while your Soul has the DNA of your Spiritual parents. The real you has God's DNA, which translates to unlimited in every aspect. God whispers - You can be like me too. At the least you can behave like Angels right now. Angels have no conflict inside & outside, no entanglements like the innocent lord. Apply the Knowledge into your life, change & become an embodiment of it. 

PURPOSE OF THE SOUL - PROGRESSION OF CONSCIOUSNESS

The sole purpose of the soul is to elevate itself during it’s short stay in this human body. It is possible to move from the lower Chakras to higher energy centers & finally to the Crown Charkra. The seven Chakras are intimately related to the seven Auras in our Invisible bodies.

  

CHAKRA   AURA    CONSCIOUSNESS      SEEKING              LOVE 

Root       Etheric         Separateness         Lonesome                Self love  

Hara       Emotional     Togetherness         Woe-some      Passionate love     

Navel      Mental          Belongingness       Quarrelsome        Mature love

Heart      Astral           Humbleness           Wholesome     Friendship love

Throat     E/template   Connectedness       Toilsome           Spiritual love

3rd eye   Celestial        Oneness               Gladsome           Selfless love

Crown     Casual          Formlessness         Awesome             Divine love

COGNITIVE & ACTIVE SENSES

There are five entrance doors through which Information is imported inside the costume. These doors are your five sense organs : taste, touch, smell, hear, & sight. There are additionally five exit doors through which the costume expels outwards. These are : procreation, elimination, grasping, speech & moving.  Then there is a master, the In-dweller who operates these doors. Who I really AM is independent of my actions & senses. Senses are not reliable for experiencing Absolute Truth, Reality or the Self the Soul. Like the bees follow the Queen Bee, so will the senses follow the Mind. With-drawl of the senses is like taking your hand out of a glove. The hands have the ability to let go of the glove.

RELATIONSHIPS - SENSE OF UNION to experience part of the other into your life.

Divine cannot be seeked by the 5 senses/organs. Spiritual science is Yoga. Life explodes, because you are full of yourself. It is not about Shiva but you. Soul consciousness is about emptiness. Deities have divine virtues, so renounce  all senses & attachments. Churning the ocean of knowledge produces Nectar which is bound to surface as cheerful faces. The closeness of two beings and their interplay by choice & concerted effort causes friction, heat, pleasure & pleasantness. A being has multiple bodies : physical, seven auras, health rays, Ionized seal.

When the closeness is PHYSICAL it is SEXUAL.

When the closeness is EMOTIONAL it is LOVE.

When the closeness is SPIRITUAL it is YOGA.  

Yoga is the vehicle which can bring God to you, or take you to God. It is a bridge between mortals & the Immortal. Yoga makes you loose your mind in a positive way. It is the cessation of modifications arising in the Chitta. Yoga helps in neutralizing ones Vortices of feelings, whirlpools of desires & attachments into a calm ocean of thought patterns, which is a prerequisite to perceive God. Dying Alive is another marvelous methodology to kill the artificial You, Me & Mine. It finishes off my ideas, my fashion sense, my hair style, my clothes & my body leaving you with just your Soul. Yoga is Nirodhah which encompasses the following : Regulation, Channeling, Mastery, Integration, Coordination, Stilling, Quieting, Setting aside of modifications of mind field. It is the progress of Intellect into consciousness looking for the expression of the Source into ones actions & attitude. It is a deep concern for a fresh complete life by self. Yoga helps you in Total Transformation where there is no trace of past, fully new & Pure. On the other hand Change is incremental often leaves a residue of the past, hence you remain as impure.

SAT CHIT ANANDA = REALIZATION OF TRUE SELF IS BLISS        

Rohit Khanna - IN-TOLERANT, therefore IN-VINCIBLE

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