RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN TWO SOULS CAN BE BLISSFUL
If you try.......after all we are merely Balls of ENERGY. Our Earth suit is an assembly of atoms & molecules which is a loan that must be returned at the allotted time..... go figure.
OUTER SHELLS ARE DIFFERENT BUT THE CORES ARE ALWAYS SIMILAR
One person is a round ball of confusion. The Other person is a square cube of confusion. The third entity is a cylinder of commotion / situation. All interactions happen among-st these three entities leading to swearing, turmoil, anger, rage & sorrow, because when they interact they do not add up rather they multiply into infinite more confusions.
DIFFERENCES HAVE WALLS, MOATS, NO BRIDGES TO CROSS OVER
The round ball wants the cube to become more rounded like him. He is unaware the the cube also wants the ball to chisel up into a six sided solid like himself. In addition both want to perceive the situation confronting them as similar & not different, so that they can arrive at a common agreable solution.
NARROW TELESCOPIC VISION / SIGHT
A common workable solution is never going to happen, because of the narrow telescopic vision that each are holding in their heads about the widespread situation. One telescope is pointing towards east of the situation while the other telescope is pointing towards the west of the situation totally diametrically opposite directions. One shouts, do you see my view point & the other snarls back, do you see my point of view. Both of them will never see each others narrow & different view points about the very same situation.
WAY OUT IS THE WAY IN
Drop the telescopes & open your eyes wide for a wide angle view points of the situation causing the commotion. Since One & the Other desire to merge into each other, therefore drop the hard fixed outer shells & develop soft, cloud like outer coverings which have no boundaries. Since the cores of all of us are similar then where is the problem. Just stay in your own Self respect & give due respect to the other Souls. Soul consciousness is the way out by going in first.
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SWAPPED REMOTES
How we get hurt by our own beloved / dear ones ? On this long journey of relationships the REMOTE CONTROLS get swapped. He is operating the buttons of Her remote control gadget & She is manipulating His remote control without the knowledge & awareness of such a tragic error. It amounts to one person having & operating the ELECTRONIC TRIGGER of the Other persons CANNON. Sure enough you are going to HURT your self really bad every time you press the trigger & fire off the Cannon which is always aimed at you.
We always have a choice to exercise our Will, Intellect to refrain from such a childish behavior. Only small children get themselves into complex situations & hurt themselves when they quietly sneak away from the parents Radar. No one can hurt you. It you & you alone have the capability to create HURT from within, when you confront a stimulus from the opposite side / world. Pay attention 24/7 & see the magic happen in your life.
INTERACTING THROUGH BLANKETS OF DESCENDED FOG
Fog of Superiority worn by one partner simultaneous with a different fog blanket of Inferiority worn by the other partner. How on Earth can you communicate harmoniously with each other with such handicaps. It is almost akin to driving your car BLIND FOLDED, with blinkers ON for others to see your foolishness.
Inside the these blankets each is stuffed with space suit style overalls of EGO. This further hampers the maneuverability of the occupants to lead peaceful lives. Superiority complex coupled with Ego is a deadly weapon to instigate the other handicapped partner. On the other hand Inferiority complex coupled with Bloated Ego is equally lethal armament to cause massive damage when provoked, which happens very often. To cover up the Inferiority the other partner resorts to shouting, raising the voice to high pitch, faking emotional trauma, crying, sobbing with crocodile tears to gain sympathy & win the battle any how. In reality both are loosing the prime war of Happy life & Optimum health, by trying to count the small battles they win. Nett result is both partners end up SULKING till sickness or death separates them apart.
YOU & SIGNIFICANT OTHER
Types of relations that do exist : Visible or Invisible
Vibrations of intentions, thoughts, & feelings transmitted as follows.
Eye contact - ogling, trespassing, or loving Drishti.
Facial expressions - of scorn or of love, compassion
Body language - closed /crossed arms or open arms.
Stance & gait - fast & in haste or slow & steady.
Actions - violent or congenial
Oral words - harsh, abusive, or sweet.
Language selection - harsh mother tongue or sweet foreign.
RELATIONSHIPS - DISTANCING VS INTIMACY
PREDICAMENT:
This person has been positioned in your 84th life by the Cosmic DRAMA for a reason. You are tricked by Maya through infatuations and sugar coated attractions. A stranger to begin with, soon you swear you cannot live without them. Some more time lapses & the relationship turns sour/bitter when the sugar coating is gone.
CREATIVE SOLUTIONS FOR MUTUAL HARMONY :
A}This soul is Creators long lost now found child too, hence handle with utmost respect and care. Be a flower around them, never a thorn to prick and give sorrow.
B} They are a perpetual obstacle in your path of Golden age/purity for helping you to pass with honors. How you get around is your task/extreme effort of radiating pure vibrations. They are your test papers.
C} Your partner’s positive talent is their alertness/awareness. Hence you can appreciate this talent often by shooting sweet arrows of smiles from the bow of your lips
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D} This is definitely a tight rope walk for all of us with a long balancing pole which consists of cooperation loaded with tolerance on left and compassion sugar coated with mercy on the right.
E} Let this soul do most of the talking and you do the difficult part of listening. They are letting out their past, help them like a therapist.
F} First transform yourself, they will get the message quickly and easily through your vibrations. Speak softly, slowly and sweetly. Have positive intentions for them.
H} English language has a wonderful word which can diffuse any horrible situation in a second. Use this word as often as possible. Saying SORRY & MEANING IT TOO. Be really sorry on your or their parts.
Do you get it, if you did, then you too would be like......
Rohit Khanna - IN-SIGHTED therefore EX-CITED
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