THERE IS PLEASURE & EXTREME PLEASURE, NOT PAIN
HAPPINESS, JOY & BLISS BELONG TO DIFFERENT DIMENSION
NEW PARADIGM
NEW PARADIGM
Pleasure
is derived through the skin. A fingertip has more than 5000 receptors to
transfer the texture and temperature of the skin. Skin is the largest organ in
our bodies and generally the most neglected one. The total area covered by skin
in an adult body is roughly 19 sq ft. that’s a lot of area for contact and
exposure.
TOUCHY ABOUT TOUCH
We live in a very tactile world. We are very TOUCHY about touch or skin contact. Would you hug a dirty, diseased beggar for $100? No! Never, because he is dirty, infected, and has the potential of making you sick. But hugging is therapeutic so why would you not help heal the beggar by hugging him. You can heal yourself too in the process.
TOUCHY ABOUT TOUCH
We live in a very tactile world. We are very TOUCHY about touch or skin contact. Would you hug a dirty, diseased beggar for $100? No! Never, because he is dirty, infected, and has the potential of making you sick. But hugging is therapeutic so why would you not help heal the beggar by hugging him. You can heal yourself too in the process.
ONE INFECTED BEGGAR - TWO SCENARIOS
Now, imagine yourself as a nurse and your job is to look after the same beggar in a nursing home. You will be touching him, feeding him, being compassionate towards him and getting paid for it too, in excess of $100 dollars. One beggar got you into two different situations. It is all in the mind. You are for, the dirty beggar or against, the diseased beggar. Cannot make up your mind!
CULTURAL CONNOTATIONS TO NON TOUCHING
Indians and Japanese never touch in public. They bow and bend down towards each other, in salutations. They wish each other by joining their hands together, and uttering the words, ‘Namaste’, which means ‘I salute your soul’. That is correct; the body is temporary and perishable while soul is permanent & eternal.
Indians and Japanese never touch in public. They bow and bend down towards each other, in salutations. They wish each other by joining their hands together, and uttering the words, ‘Namaste’, which means ‘I salute your soul’. That is correct; the body is temporary and perishable while soul is permanent & eternal.
TOUCH IS A PRIME NEED
Touch is a basic need. A new born baby will not survive for a week, if is not touched, held, and cuddled. Touch is so powerful that the mother can transfer her fears and apprehensions, and other feelings to the baby instantly. All children enjoy each other’s company by touching. They hug, kiss, embrace, and keep falling on each other in various games. They hold hands and laugh together. As adults we do the same things. We enjoy by touching each other’s bodies and the final act of sex and orgasm is basically rubbing of two bodies very intimately and passionately for a short period of time.
Touch is a basic need. A new born baby will not survive for a week, if is not touched, held, and cuddled. Touch is so powerful that the mother can transfer her fears and apprehensions, and other feelings to the baby instantly. All children enjoy each other’s company by touching. They hug, kiss, embrace, and keep falling on each other in various games. They hold hands and laugh together. As adults we do the same things. We enjoy by touching each other’s bodies and the final act of sex and orgasm is basically rubbing of two bodies very intimately and passionately for a short period of time.
IS THERE PAIN IN THIS WORLD - NO ! ONLY PLEASURE
The million dollar question! Is there PAIN in this world? No! No! An emphatic No! There is no pain in this world. There is only pleasure, more pleasure and extreme pleasure. Since we have never experienced extreme pleasure we do not know how to handle it, when it comes our way.
KIND OF PLEASURE IS PROPORTIONAL TO PRESSURE APPLIED
The amount of pleasure experienced by human beings is directly proportional to the pressure applied on the skin of the subject. We would use very little pressure to tickle, touch, hold hands, and stroke our loved ones. In the next category we would use slightly more pressure on our spouses and friends to kiss, suck, hug, rub, and fondle. In the third category we would use quite a lot of pressure to message, pinch, squeeze, and wring the limbs. Touch stimulates the brain to produce hormones like endorphin's and dopamine. They are nature’s morphine, to help us get into relaxation mode and let go. Unfortunately we prefer to rely on alcohol, and drugs to relax and let go.
The million dollar question! Is there PAIN in this world? No! No! An emphatic No! There is no pain in this world. There is only pleasure, more pleasure and extreme pleasure. Since we have never experienced extreme pleasure we do not know how to handle it, when it comes our way.
KIND OF PLEASURE IS PROPORTIONAL TO PRESSURE APPLIED
The amount of pleasure experienced by human beings is directly proportional to the pressure applied on the skin of the subject. We would use very little pressure to tickle, touch, hold hands, and stroke our loved ones. In the next category we would use slightly more pressure on our spouses and friends to kiss, suck, hug, rub, and fondle. In the third category we would use quite a lot of pressure to message, pinch, squeeze, and wring the limbs. Touch stimulates the brain to produce hormones like endorphin's and dopamine. They are nature’s morphine, to help us get into relaxation mode and let go. Unfortunately we prefer to rely on alcohol, and drugs to relax and let go.
MAXIMUM PLEASURE WITH EXTREME PRESSURE
Finally we have the maximum pressure category on our skins when we engage in full body embrace, petting, heavy petting, and intercourse. Of course this is the most pleasurable act in the world. Now let us replace one of your partners with a Sumo body builder. What happens in the extreme category next? The Sumo body builder makes love to you with all his power and starts to apply extreme pressure on your body. You should naturally get the utmost level of pleasure at this moment. Alas! Paradoxically you feel PAIN at this point instead of an OCEAN OF PLEASURE. You have not learnt to handle extreme pleasure; therefore you label it as pain, in your little world of innocence. It is a new paradigm.
Pick one of the following: The pleasure of child birth or the pain of child birth - of course not applicable to men.
Finally we have the maximum pressure category on our skins when we engage in full body embrace, petting, heavy petting, and intercourse. Of course this is the most pleasurable act in the world. Now let us replace one of your partners with a Sumo body builder. What happens in the extreme category next? The Sumo body builder makes love to you with all his power and starts to apply extreme pressure on your body. You should naturally get the utmost level of pleasure at this moment. Alas! Paradoxically you feel PAIN at this point instead of an OCEAN OF PLEASURE. You have not learnt to handle extreme pleasure; therefore you label it as pain, in your little world of innocence. It is a new paradigm.
Pick one of the following: The pleasure of child birth or the pain of child birth - of course not applicable to men.
Today
we have mechanical gadgets and vibrators to replicate the human touch.
Hydraulic messages, sauna baths, whirlpool baths are trying to replace the
human touch, but it is not the same thing.
Rohit Khanna - IN-TUNE & IN-COGNITO
